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Post by Deleted on Jun 18, 2016 19:28:00 GMT -5
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Post by dancingbear70 on Jun 18, 2016 20:13:51 GMT -5
Keep an eye on that inbox! |
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Post by itsjustus on Jun 18, 2016 20:26:13 GMT -5
If I'm honest, the burning question in my mind, itsjustus , is who this lucky lady might be! I'm not asking you to kiss and tell, I'm just jealous. (Insert shy, blushing smiley here.) She's one lucky lady, from what I've read of your posts. I'll do my best to be happy for the 2 of you. She must be pretty special herself. ;-) She is
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Post by skguy on Jun 18, 2016 22:36:33 GMT -5
By the 3rd message all bets are off lol.
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Post by waiting4what on Jun 18, 2016 22:49:00 GMT -5
I had a hookup on ILIASM, it was eye-opening to be with someone who desired me after years of rejection. It was a great experience, but I learned that hookups are not really my thing. I met the elusive Cumbersome - it wasn't a hookup, but it was notable 'just because.' I fell deeply in love with an ILIASMer, the cybersex and in-person intimacy was wonderful and healing. He stayed in his SM... I'm still realizing just how much that experience has impacted my heart and my mind, it's been both wonderful and painful.
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Post by unkakris on Jun 21, 2016 23:04:16 GMT -5
You're welcome. #TheMoreYouKnow Knowing is half the battle... The other half is red lasers and blue lasers. |
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Post by RumRunner on Jun 23, 2016 23:06:50 GMT -5
I did meet a very nice lady on EP and although our intimate relationship was very short lived, we have remained as friends. It was my very first affair that I ever had, and I really loved the time we spent together but it just wasn't meant to be. I am sad that it didn't work out but I am very grateful for everything that we had shared. We have turned out to be really good friends and have an understanding that we are only friends, nothing more. I have never had any trouble making and keeping friends, but relationships is another story. I do think that after all these years of being in a sexless marriage has damaged me in some way, and I wouldn't ever be able to function in a normal relationship.
I am grateful she had come into my life and I consider myself very fortunate.
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Post by eternaloptimism on Jun 24, 2016 6:52:29 GMT -5
I get you RumRunner. I worry I might be too damaged to accept a "proper" relationship after all these years xx |
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Post by Deleted on Jun 24, 2016 14:56:50 GMT -5
Yep.... the damage... to my mind and sense of self is too much...
Just healing the body with another seems to be the best way to deal with my lack of sex... having someone close... even for that short time
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Post by eternaloptimism on Jun 30, 2016 2:14:29 GMT -5
I was randomly messaged on EP once by a married gentleman by the name of 'John' who lived across the water from me. After a few messages we decided to have a "no strings" online fling that progressed into some incredibly hot sessions. HE was incredibly supportive, extremely handsome, and encouraging of my progress through school. He made me feel beautiful and smart, and we had many an intellectual and intelligent conversation. (Brains and his looks were a huge ginormous turn on for me! ) We'd even talked about the possibility of meeting one day when he came over on one of his business trips. His wife happened across an email I sent to him, and he tearfully called it off. A few months later he tried to make contact with me, but I opted to let it go. That make me sad. John could have been the one  |
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Post by eternaloptimism on Jun 30, 2016 2:15:04 GMT -5
But then again maybe he was a smelly psychopath  |
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Post by Neotericgal on Jun 30, 2016 2:21:37 GMT -5
But then again maybe he was a smelly psychopath ;) I know right!? lol. But seriously, it may have been for the better, he had children and was an amazing person who wanted to do what he thought was in their best interest. Or... He was a smelly psychopath :o |
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Post by Deleted on Jun 30, 2016 9:18:35 GMT -5
But then again maybe he was a smelly psychopath I know right!? lol. But seriously, it may have been for the better, he had children and was an amazing person who wanted to do what he thought was in their best interest. Or... He was a smelly psychopath  Or more likely, he is a sad little man, for whom the highlight of his life is going to be online flirtations with women he has no intention of ever meeting IRL. |
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