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Post by ironhamster on Jul 11, 2017 17:11:17 GMT -5
My Friday date turned out to be a scammer. When that became apparent, I laughed at her.
I'm actually ok with the fact she contacted my wife, because it forces a move on her part. From what I have seen, the odds of my request for an open marriage being approved are slim, but it will no longer be ignored.
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Post by choosinghappy on Jul 11, 2017 17:38:19 GMT -5
WTF?! She actually contacted your wife? Woooow.
Well, you did say you would be ok with the fallout so... keep us updated!
Sorry that happened 😕
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Post by ironhamster on Jul 11, 2017 18:02:10 GMT -5
I'll keep everyone updated. My expectation is that most refusers think the same way. Every data point is important.
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Post by neonspace on Jul 11, 2017 18:14:53 GMT -5
She tried to extort you?
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Post by mrslowmaintenance on Jul 11, 2017 18:40:10 GMT -5
What the actual fuck.
I did not even know this was a thing... You met her online right??
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Post by baza on Jul 11, 2017 19:04:04 GMT -5
Time after time in here, it is seen that the cheating option, by bringing a 3rd party into an already dysfunctional situation, invariably spins things off at some weird and uncontrollable tangents.
This example of attempted blackmail is just one of them.
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Post by bballgirl on Jul 11, 2017 19:32:18 GMT -5
A lot of dishonesty online.
Ask a lot of questions, use dummy contacts - like Kik, meet in public and they do not need your full name the first time they meet you in public, as well that should be just a meet up not a hookup.
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Post by ironhamster on Jul 11, 2017 19:58:54 GMT -5
A lot of dishonesty online. Ask a lot of questions, use dummy contacts - like Kik, meet in public and they do not need your full name the first time they meet you in public, as well that should be just a meet up not a hookup. Words of wisdom. Well, I've talked with the wife. I feel like the big push forward just got stuck in place. She wants "counseling". |
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Post by ironhamster on Jul 11, 2017 20:01:32 GMT -5
What the actual fuck. I did not even know this was a thing... You met her online right?? Yes. It was a Tinder hookup. Lots of common interests, leading to cybersex and descriptions of what we would do for each other. She really played up her hostess skills. Then, it all went bad. |
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Post by ironhamster on Jul 11, 2017 20:05:00 GMT -5
I believe so. She started threatening to contact my wife. As you can see from my profile pic, I am intentionally wreckless online. This went on Monday and today, repeatedly threatening to contact her. When I called her out and said nothing she had was worth a dime to me, she made contact.
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Post by bballgirl on Jul 11, 2017 20:05:31 GMT -5
A lot of dishonesty online. Ask a lot of questions, use dummy contacts - like Kik, meet in public and they do not need your full name the first time they meet you in public, as well that should be just a meet up not a hookup. Words of wisdom. Well, I've talked with the wife. I feel like the big push forward just got stuck in place. She wants "counseling". I had one session of counseling at the end of it the counselor told my husband to get a lawyer. |
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Post by choosinghappy on Jul 11, 2017 20:05:44 GMT -5
So strange that she actually took the time to talk so much with you and have cybersex just to turn around and do this.
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Post by ironhamster on Jul 11, 2017 20:12:18 GMT -5
So strange that she actually took the time to talk so much with you and have cybersex just to turn around and do this. I never saw her balance statement, but she has a nice house and works very little. There are all sorts of ways to explain that, but I know what I think is one of her revenue sources. |
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Post by midwest on Jul 11, 2017 20:15:48 GMT -5
So strange that she actually took the time to talk so much with you and have cybersex just to turn around and do this. I never saw her balance statement, but she has a nice house and works very little. There are all sorts of ways to explain that, but I know what I think is one of her revenue sources. Maybe an obvious question: Did you tell your "date" about this place? |
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Post by ironhamster on Jul 11, 2017 20:17:37 GMT -5
I never saw her balance statement, but she has a nice house and works very little. There are all sorts of ways to explain that, but I know what I think is one of her revenue sources. Maybe an obvious question: Did you tell your "date" about this place? Oh. I should go over my texts. I don't think so, but it is possible. |
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