bigbossfan
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Post by bigbossfan on Aug 13, 2017 6:31:37 GMT -5
It is round about a month now Brother bigbossfan . *Re-set sex* typically peters out after a few weeks so you appear to be ahead of the game here. Might be an idea to take a review of your deal as of today. Given that today would see you rating the sexual aspect of your deal as "great since the talk", how do the other aspects of the dynamic look ? I'd say all the other aspects of the relationship have improved as well. Communication is fantastic, particularly because my sense of resentment has subsided dramatically, thus I have no issues conversing with her. I found it very difficult previously to have a conversation when inside I was seething with anger and frustration. Spending more time together as well. Prior to "The Talk", more often than not, I'd be stuck in the basement (my area) watching my stuff on TV, while she'd be watching hers upstairs. Now we try to watch stuff more often that we both like. Going out for dinner at least once a week now. All in all, things have improved 100%. |
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Post by csl on Aug 13, 2017 16:24:15 GMT -5
I'd say all the other aspects of the relationship have improved as well. Communication is fantastic, particularly because my sense of resentment has subsided dramatically, thus I have no issues conversing with her. I found it very difficult previously to have a conversation when inside I was seething with anger and frustration. Spending more time together as well. Prior to "The Talk", more often than not, I'd be stuck in the basement (my area) watching my stuff on TV, while she'd be watching hers upstairs. Now we try to watch stuff more often that we both like. Going out for dinner at least once a week now. All in all, things have improved 100%. In a post I did a couple of years ago, I quoted a former refusing wife who, after 20 years, realized that what she was doing to her husband was a sin (hey, we Christians are supposed to take sex seriously) and determined to not say "No" again. She started posting on a Christian forum in order to get support for her decision and get people willing to hold her feet to the fire, so to speak. For a year, she gave monthly updates, documenting the changes in their marriage. Her decision had an immediate effect on the marriage, and three of the things that she enumerated were: bbf, you and your wife are re-inventing the wheel.  Congratulations. |
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