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tamara68 Senior Members If it can't get worse, it can only get better Posts: 2,524 Age Range: 46-50	Well, I've finally started it Dec 21, 2017 12:31:38 GMT -5 nolongerlonely and saarinista like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by tamara68 on Dec 21, 2017 12:31:38 GMT -5 nolongerlonely I am so happy for you!

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Well, I've finally started it Dec 21, 2017 16:10:40 GMT -5 nolongerlonely and saarinista like this

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Post by M2G on Dec 21, 2017 16:10:40 GMT -5

nolongerlonely - I got here a little late to be of much help to you, but for sure your story is inspirational and your sharing it means a lot to me.

Thanks - and best wishes to you on your new life!

Last Edit: Dec 21, 2017 16:11:05 GMT -5 by M2G

Look at me I'm chasing after dreams left in the storm, what I am is all that really matters now - the lies are gone.
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orangepeel Full Member Posts: 240	Well, I've finally started it Dec 21, 2017 19:09:37 GMT -5 via mobile nolongerlonely and saarinista like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by orangepeel on Dec 21, 2017 19:09:37 GMT -5 Quality stuff, mate. Well played.

choosinghappy Senior Members ILIASM Poet Laureate Posts: 1,741 Age Range: 36-40	Well, I've finally started it Dec 21, 2017 19:45:20 GMT -5 via Tapatalk nolongerlonely and saarinista like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by choosinghappy on Dec 21, 2017 19:45:20 GMT -5 Gave me chills to read this update. I am so very happy for you both.
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nolongerlonely Full Member SM, like being on an ocean cruise without the ship Posts: 188 Age Range: 51-55	Well, I've finally started it Dec 22, 2017 4:30:04 GMT -5 tamara68 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by nolongerlonely on Dec 22, 2017 4:30:04 GMT -5 thanks guys, means alot, really :-)

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Well, I've finally started it Dec 24, 2017 2:16:20 GMT -5 GeekGoddess, ironhamster, and 1 more like this

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Post by saarinista on Dec 24, 2017 2:16:20 GMT -5

first Nolongerlonley, congratulations on finding love. May you have many years of happiness.

Secondly, thank you for your comprehensive and insightful posts. They resonate with me, and give me hope that I'm not crazy. Perhaps I'm depressed because I am so darned lonely and exhausted from pretending for decades that I ever had a genuine marriage. The way you describe your loneliness could have been written by me. I'm so glad you're not in that dark place any longer. My Christmas wish is that everyone on this board finds the love othat they deserve. And soon!

All the best to everyone.

Please forgive any typos or poor sentence structure. As I often say, you can have it perfect or you can have it now. Here, I choose now.

WindSister Senior Members I have thoughts, but I could be wrong ;) Posts: 1,550 Age Range: 41-45	Well, I've finally started it Dec 26, 2017 13:08:42 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by WindSister on Dec 26, 2017 13:08:42 GMT -5 May you experience much happiness in the new year! Good luck to you both!
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flyingsolo Full Member Posts: 259 Age Range: 51-55	Well, I've finally started it Feb 2, 2018 19:51:35 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by flyingsolo on Feb 2, 2018 19:51:35 GMT -5 Outstanding! Good for you man!

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