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Post by Deleted on Jun 14, 2017 19:48:25 GMT -5
Just wondering how everyone stacks up here. (OK, maybe I want to feel sorry for myself.)
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Post by northstarmom on Jun 14, 2017 20:15:22 GMT -5
Three days ago, but I'm now years out of my SM. At the end of my marriage, I had gone 8 straight years without sex. Previously during the same marriage, I had gone 5 straight years without sex.
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Post by h on Jun 14, 2017 20:17:39 GMT -5
Just at the beginning of this month. Admittedly though, we just had a major discussion/argument about the lack of sex last month. I'm still waiting to see if her recent willingness will last... It's been a couple of weeks now and no interest on the immediate horizon.
I also admit that this week and next will be very busy and stressful at work for her (and for me) so I'm not going to press the issue until the end of next week. After that, if nothing happens by then, I will bring it up again.
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Post by choosinghappy on Jun 14, 2017 20:25:24 GMT -5
Three years this month. Sigh. It's been a looooong 3 years.
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Post by baza on Jun 14, 2017 20:31:15 GMT -5
Ah, root counting.
What a productive passtime it is.
Anyway, 3 days ago for me.
But if you are looking for my ILIASM days experience, it was a touch over 9 years as at 26 Oct 2009 when I left. So I recorded my vote in the "4 to 10 years" group.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 14, 2017 20:37:31 GMT -5
I wasn't looking for the longest, but a current snapshot. Thanks.
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Post by Chatter Fox on Jun 14, 2017 20:58:05 GMT -5
I am at 51 days today. I have a pretty elaborate way of keeping track. Tomorrow, when I hit 52 days, it'll be a new record over the past 2 years. Things turned around for me 2 years ago. But they have slowly deteriorated. I was technically not in a SM for a while there. Now I'm officially back in the club by the numbers. ...not that i live and die by the numbers. Still, it's not going in the right direction over time.
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Post by bballgirl on Jun 14, 2017 21:17:00 GMT -5
10 days but I'm out of my SM.
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Post by shamwow on Jun 14, 2017 22:31:15 GMT -5
3 years on July 12, my wedding anniversary. Quite considerate of my wife to stick to an easy date to remember.
Of course my divorce will be final June 26, maybe I can do something about the drought.
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Post by lifeinwoodinville on Jun 14, 2017 23:46:21 GMT -5
March 16th this year was the last time I had sex, that was with my AP. With my wife, it's been almost three years.
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Post by Carol on Jun 14, 2017 23:49:20 GMT -5
14 long and very lonely years. Yes, I know I'm crazy for still being here. I have to admit that the first 3-4 years of that was also my choice,due to my severe depression so he's not completely at fault. Another year or so, I'll have been celibate longer than it took me to lose my virginity.
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Post by mrslowmaintenance on Jun 15, 2017 0:57:49 GMT -5
I have been pushing really hard for change. He has actually been responding and making some serious changes for himself and us.
We have had more sex in the year 2017 than in the two previous years combined!
(11 times, I know it's freaking crazy... Yet still not enough)
So 12 days for me right now
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Post by Deleted on Jun 15, 2017 5:14:27 GMT -5
I have been pushing really hard for change. He has actually been responding and making some serious changes for himself and us. We have had more sex in the year 2017 than in the two previous years combined! (11 times, I know it's freaking crazy... Yet still not enough) So 12 days for me right now That's really great! |
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Post by Deleted on Jun 15, 2017 5:37:18 GMT -5
14 long and very lonely years. Yes, I know I'm crazy for still being here. I have to admit that the first 3-4 years of that was also my choice,due to my severe depression so he's not completely at fault. Another year or so, I'll have been celibate longer than it took me to lose my virginity. Holy crap. |
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Post by h on Jun 15, 2017 6:01:27 GMT -5
I have been pushing really hard for change. He has actually been responding and making some serious changes for himself and us. We have had more sex in the year 2017 than in the two previous years combined! (11 times, I know it's freaking crazy... Yet still not enough) So 12 days for me right now I'm in a similar situation. My recent pressure has resulted in more sex this year so far than in the last whole year (or any other single year including the first). I didn't keep track at first but since the middle of 2012, I have written down the date of every time we have sexual contact and what kind it was (PIV, HJ). The list isn't that long. |
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