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Post by bballgirl on Jun 17, 2017 15:19:29 GMT -5
I was married ten years before I got pregnant. I did have an infertility issue but a SM was still the circumstances. Anyway with both my kids their dad was not even in the room when they were conceived. He has good aim! Into a cup, with his hand! Lol |
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Post by beachguy on Jun 17, 2017 15:23:42 GMT -5
Into a cup, with his hand! Lol Quite romantic  Epitomizes your marriage |
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Post by novembercomingfire on Jun 17, 2017 15:38:44 GMT -5
I took my ring off just last week. In all honesty, I expected that, with the kids gone, I might get a chance to counter-refuse. Hugs were met with hugs. Backrubs were met with hugs. A lean in to her face was met with a sisterly peck on the lips. There was no hint of desire in her whole body. I'm so done. Ring off last week for me as well. As well as signing a new long term lease elsewhere. She informed me that we were never happening again, so its time for me to leave. |
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Post by greatcoastal on Jun 17, 2017 15:47:04 GMT -5
I took my ring off just last week. In all honesty, I expected that, with the kids gone, I might get a chance to counter-refuse. Hugs were met with hugs. Backrubs were met with hugs. A lean in to her face was met with a sisterly peck on the lips. There was no hint of desire in her whole body. I'm so done. Ring off last week for me as well. As well as signing a new long term lease elsewhere. She informed me that we were never happening again, so its time for me to leave. Interesting? Sounds like a well wanted open invitation? A major tipping point! May I suggest you quietly talk with 3 different attorneys and get a plan started. You already have been on here a while and that in itself gives you an advantage. Sounds like it's time to seize your freedom! |
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Post by ironhamster on Jun 17, 2017 17:02:59 GMT -5
I just can't create those waves, yet, greatcoastal. My youngest is fragile. As long as the front is still there, and her home life is stable, I am in a stalemate. |
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Post by greatcoastal on Jun 17, 2017 17:24:30 GMT -5
I just can't create those waves, yet, greatcoastal . My youngest is fragile. As long as the front is still there, and her home life is stable, I am in a stalemate. I would have felt the same way If I where you. In fact I probably did. I shoved any thoughts of "self" under the rug, and latched onto the "for the good of the family" or " Kids first" hoping for "once their older we'll be together again. That did not happen. It took several "tipping points" to lift the FOG. Not to go on about myself, so a brief summary, "I was a homeschooler, an adoptive parent, I worked day care, volunteered with kids constantly, assistant coaching, etc..." Imagine up and saying " no sex =divorce" How selfish would that sound? ( of course there was much more to it than that) So fortunately I survived through it all blindly. NOW though, NOW. My kids are all teens, they are seeing the controlling manipulator and the wrong example. Each case is different, this is the time for me to pull the plug. PS: I thought my comment was directed to novembercomingfire? I am happy to converse with you anytime ironhamster! Happy Fathers Day!! At church tomorrow we hand out a sausage biscuit and a can of coke during service to all the Dads. My daughters bring me french toast in bed, and last year I took 3 of my kids on a charter shark fishing cruise. |
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Post by eternaloptimism on Jun 17, 2017 17:34:38 GMT -5
greatcoastal WTF ... what is this "sausage biscuit" of which you speak. Thats a new one on me lol! I love the education this gaff provides 😂
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Post by greatcoastal on Jun 17, 2017 18:02:56 GMT -5
greatcoastal WTF ... what is this "sausage biscuit" of which you speak. Thats a new one on me lol! I love the education this gaff provides 😂 We've got to get you to America girl!!! Brains and eggs, grits, hash-browns, hawg' jowls, black eyed peas....Some good Southern cookin'! |
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Post by wewbwb on Jun 18, 2017 7:31:03 GMT -5
greatcoastal WTF ... what is this "sausage biscuit" of which you speak. Thats a new one on me lol! I love the education this gaff provides 😂 We've got to get you to America girl!!! Brains and eggs, grits, hash-browns, hawg' jowls, black eyed peas....Some good Southern cookin'! Actually we don't eat brains here. We aren't Scottish. Just have cagedtiger make you breakfast . I'm sure you could make him want to cook you something . |
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Post by greatcoastal on Jun 18, 2017 8:09:55 GMT -5
We've got to get you to America girl!!! Brains and eggs, grits, hash-browns, hawg' jowls, black eyed peas....Some good Southern cookin'! Actually we don't eat brains here. We aren't Scottish. Just have cagedtiger make you breakfast . I'm sure you could make him want to cook you something . Actually there is Rose brand pork brains commonly seen in many southern supermarkets in the United States. Actually , longtime North Carolina Congressman Howard Coble once offered up a recipe for pork brains and eggs for a congressional cookbook. Actually, my neighbor owned the Oak Grove Cafe in Burlington N.C. where we had brains and eggs on the menu. Actually, I never tried them , but I worked there during my H.S. years. Actually ,I have years of experience being in restaurants that serve Southern Style cooking. Actually I lived in the same state as cagedtiger for 26 yrs. Actually, America is a melting pot of all kinds of different cultures, including my neighbors from Scotland. |
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Post by greatcoastal on Jun 18, 2017 8:19:11 GMT -5
Three years this month. Sigh. It's been a looooong 3 years. That is a loooong time. I went three and a half years. Before that was once a year for ten years. The only thing that broke the cycle was counselling. That lead to a forced re-set, one time, one day. Over a year and a half ago.The good news is the divorce that came shortly after it. The final tipping point from the harsh words and actions the day after the re-set. |
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Post by wewbwb on Jun 18, 2017 8:28:07 GMT -5
eternaloptimism Actually we don't eat brains here. We aren't Scottish. Just have cagedtiger make you breakfast . I'm sure you could make him want to cook you something . Actually there is Rose brand pork brains commonly seen in many southern supermarkets in the United States. Actually , longtime North Carolina Congressman Howard Coble once offered up a recipe for pork brains and eggs for a congressional cookbook. Actually, my neighbor owned the Oak Grove Cafe in Burlington N.C. where we had brains and eggs on the menu. Actually, I never tried them , but I worked there during my H.S. years. Actually ,I have years of experience being in restaurants that serve Southern Style cooking. Actually I lived in the same state as cagedtiger for 26 yrs. Actually, America is a melting pot of all kinds of different cultures, including my neighbors from Scotland. I stand corrected. It seems some people do eat brains. Apparently eating brains makes a person defensive and angry. I wonder if there is a study about this.... |
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Post by eternaloptimism on Jun 18, 2017 8:59:15 GMT -5
Bloody hell. I'm wishing I didn't ask about sausage biscuits now (alert alert, vegetarian feeling nauseous)
He he he.
At least there is less being wasted if the brains are also used .....
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Post by greatcoastal on Jun 18, 2017 9:18:56 GMT -5
Actually there is Rose brand pork brains commonly seen in many southern supermarkets in the United States. Actually , longtime North Carolina Congressman Howard Coble once offered up a recipe for pork brains and eggs for a congressional cookbook. Actually, my neighbor owned the Oak Grove Cafe in Burlington N.C. where we had brains and eggs on the menu. Actually, I never tried them , but I worked there during my H.S. years. Actually ,I have years of experience being in restaurants that serve Southern Style cooking. Actually I lived in the same state as cagedtiger for 26 yrs. Actually, America is a melting pot of all kinds of different cultures, including my neighbors from Scotland. I stand corrected. It seems some people do eat brains. Apparently eating brains makes a person defensive and angry. I wonder if there is a study about this.... Apparently you don't know what happens when you assume things? No study needed. I am off to enjoy my Fathers day. Hope you have one too! ( we should talk some day about Northern cooking, I was born and raised in N.J. for 12 years. My family is from Ireland. Love Italian food! Southern style gets very greasy) |
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Post by misssunnybunny on Jun 18, 2017 9:39:52 GMT -5
Bloody hell. I'm wishing I didn't ask about sausage biscuits now (alert alert, vegetarian feeling nauseous) He he he. At least there is less being wasted if the brains are also used ..... Then don't look into the Pennsylvania Dutch creation known as scrapple. It really uses just about every scrap of leftover pork. Some people love it, I don't think I could ever even try it. (Yuck) |
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