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Post by lwoetin on Apr 12, 2016 12:49:58 GMT -5
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Post by lwoetin on Apr 12, 2016 12:29:57 GMT -5
Just warn him of probability of joining our fantastic group and if he chooses to proceed with marriage, then I give my blessings for having many children. They are fabulous creatures.
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Post by lwoetin on Apr 8, 2016 13:54:42 GMT -5
Carissimi, this may be platitude but here it goes anyway. ------------------------------------------- Henry Ford quote modified for you. Here are four versions:
Whether you think you are ugly or think you aren't, you’re right. Whether you believe you are ugly or not, you are right. If you think you are ugly or think you aren't, either way you are right. If you think you are ugly or think you aren't, you’re probably right. ----------------------------------------- I don't disagree with you. I believe your reality. In fact, I know ugly for a long time. No girl in the USA wanted to date me. I married the one girl who liked me. Now it doesn't matter if I am ugly or not. What matters is my son stays healthy or my daughter learns to be respectful and responsible, or how to make wife become nympho,...Probably best if you focus on something else, like how coffee with someone can be fun.
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Post by lwoetin on Apr 8, 2016 1:59:12 GMT -5
Thanks for invite. I'll join in drowning away your depression. that's what we're here for...a bunch of cheerleaders to cheer you up. Sorry to hear about your rough time. Things will get better soon.
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Post by lwoetin on Apr 7, 2016 12:59:02 GMT -5
hi lexus, go to Profile menu, then select Edit Profile, then Use only the Uploaded/Linked, then Select Image (from your computer). Should work although I still use default Teletubby pic.
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Post by lwoetin on Apr 5, 2016 23:56:54 GMT -5
But for someone who has been part of the church his entire life, the third reason is extremely important. The sacrament of marriage is suppose to strengthen both partners in their journey, and yet now it becomes a noose. The money reason is workable, but the other two are painful to do.
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Post by lwoetin on Apr 5, 2016 1:57:44 GMT -5
I wouldn't call them misguided reasons. They are legitimate for some people. However, they were not the reasons for me choosing to stay.
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Post by lwoetin on Apr 5, 2016 1:23:27 GMT -5
I like the child-centered aspect of this arrangement.
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Post by lwoetin on Apr 4, 2016 0:03:11 GMT -5
I have come to accept it and I know it will never change. Have you come to accept your sexless marriage or that she will never again have sex with you?
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Post by lwoetin on Apr 3, 2016 23:53:06 GMT -5
So I guess as we go into counselling I will start pushing for more intimacy and see whether she will engage or if she runs for the hills. Intimacy sounds like a good plan to strengthen your love for one another. When we look into our wive's eyes, we should still feel passion.
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Post by lwoetin on Apr 2, 2016 23:53:59 GMT -5
If you are now having sex why are you here? Because your situation is going to revert back sooner or later. So hold on to your membership and try not to forget your password. There is no happily ever after.
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Post by lwoetin on Apr 1, 2016 23:15:40 GMT -5
Yeah, I forgot it was 4/1 too. I wonder who the prankster is. EP-Allie looks so sweet and demure. I will flag that post and see if the real EP-Allie screws him.
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Post by lwoetin on Mar 31, 2016 23:23:00 GMT -5
Please advise.... So I understand how giving oral can be undesireable...tiring, not tasteful....But what can be so bad about receiving it when you are female? All you have to do is enjoy it right? There is no work involved. Is the technique that displeases or what other reasons can there be? When I was dating the first time around, my dates were not the eager givers I have since encountered. So the feelings of shame and rejection from the first time around make me feel any man will be hating every minute of it and I can't enjoy myself if I think he's hating it. Tied to that, I feel pressure to finish asap which of course produces the opposite effect. It's sad, I wish I could go back and bring a generous giver back to the past to be my first experience. My wife would apologize for taking too long and it doesn't seem to matter to her that I actually enjoy the activity. To me it is the woman who is giving more by giving herself. The guy is just enjoying the generous offering. happyhelen is definitely making her man happy too. (I would gladly not had a first experience...I am still haunted and suffering.)
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Post by lwoetin on Mar 31, 2016 22:54:04 GMT -5
Please advise.... So I understand how giving oral can be undesireable...tiring, not tasteful....But what can be so bad about receiving it when you are female? All you have to do is enjoy it right? There is no work involved. Is the technique that displeases or what other reasons can there be? My wife doesn't like it because she feels too exposed and vulnerable. But that is the pleasure of having sex with your spouse...to expose one's self and feel vulnerable voluntarily. I would not want to be exposed and vulnerable to anyone I don't trust. There was a point when my wife would not want to have sex that I started thinking whether she was saving herself for another person in the future. I was so confused about this ILIASM thing. Now I'm a little less confused.
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Post by lwoetin on Mar 30, 2016 23:00:38 GMT -5
Lwoetin: And if I'm wrong, then I have sex to look forward to in another life. You have a LOT more patience than I do! Well, at least I'm having fun chatting with everyone here. The journey matters too! Please advise.... So I understand how giving oral can be undesireable...tiring, not tasteful....But what can be so bad about receiving it when you are female? All you have to do is enjoy it right? There is no work involved. Is the technique that displeases or what other reasons can there be?
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