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Post by lwoetin on Mar 30, 2021 23:21:06 GMT -5
Had a look over at asexuality.orgFunny, they use teh same three choices: Stay Leave or Outsource They have to put a twist on all three. Stay and figure out how to be acceptably physical. Let the refused spouse divorce you, or leave to escape the guilt/harassment. Open your marriage and send your refused spouse out to get their needs met. It seems they are the victims at their site. So who is right? I bet we have more members than they do.
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Post by lwoetin on Mar 28, 2021 3:03:00 GMT -5
I am tempted to add an SSD drive for Win10 and programs but I am too lazy and it takes too much time probably. I'm okay with waiting for win10 to start up and programs to switch. It might be personality defect of mine. If it ain't broke...
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Post by lwoetin on Mar 26, 2021 0:25:32 GMT -5
Hmmm... yep. I had a 'procedure' 25 years ago when dodgy cells were spotted on my cervix. At my next smear test (done in the hospital not at the docs) the practitioner doing the test said "Oh Brilliant, a 'post loop-diathermy cervix'! Do you mind if this bunch of medical students shadowing me today have a look as well? " About 9 of them queued up to have a good gawp up my bits...... You're brave. Did you agree to it because you were confident with your bits, or you wanted to contribute to the medical society?
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Post by lwoetin on Mar 26, 2021 0:13:40 GMT -5
I'm glad you are managing your SM situation well, jerri. Is that you making out on the park bench? How dare he tell you 'you don't stimulate me!' Those are fighting words. My wife would not make it personal. She makes it general. Turning point for me is realizing it isn't me. She may not find me stimulating. But most women don't find me stimulating. I can handle that. But I am sure one or two in our big planet would. So my wife is not stimulated but she has to humor me, at least. So we draw a line on the sand of what we absolutely need in marriage.
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Post by lwoetin on Mar 16, 2021 1:54:32 GMT -5
I have made known here on several occasions that I had a digital prostate exam by a female Doctor. It was the worst exam of that nature I have ever experienced. In addition to her mustache she had very large hands . She honestly lifted me off the floor and I was pulling myself up onto the exam table to get away from her. And the young, petite nurse was no help at all as she turned her back to face away from me during the exam. haha. I missed your posts. maybe good to have an initial clothed visit to meet the female doctor first then.
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Post by lwoetin on Mar 16, 2021 1:44:14 GMT -5
At my local clinic I take 'pot luck' as to who I see for mundane issues, apart from a bloke (helps me manage enlarged prostate) and a dermatologist (she monitors my skin cancers) At the get go for my skin I had it mapped and about 20 images were taken of - all - my skin, even down to the soles of my feet, to identify existing lesions and to produce a base line of where the lesions were so any new ones can be identified. The photographic record is on the Doctors record (I've got a copy on a USB stick as well). This took about 15 minutes (including some close ups of about 8 "suspicious" lesions). The pix were taken by a trained bloke operator, who was in turn training a nurse in the process. The dermatologist came in to review the photos and then took extreme close ups of the suspicious ones. As far as the prostate gut goes, about every 12 months he takes an ultrasound of my bladder / prostate (which specifically measures its' volume) and rarely has a digital feel these days. So the ultrasonic probe is inserted instead of a finger?
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Post by lwoetin on Mar 16, 2021 0:10:17 GMT -5
In high school my daughter had 2 friends that became doctors. One was female and the other male. Lo-and behold the female came back to work in town. I see her once a year. The first prostate exam by a female was strange to me but I got over it. (different doctor) Another local doctor did some back surgery on me. He was a customer at shop where I worked. He did a laminectomy on me and I replaced the brake shoes/pads on his car. Not an even exchange $ wise but we both benefited. He fixed my parts and I fixed his parts. My attitude when it comes to doctors is less about male-female but do they know their stuff. I know it shouldn't matter who performs the exam. Perhaps I'm just starving for attention.
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Post by lwoetin on Mar 15, 2021 23:47:39 GMT -5
I hope you get this doctor.. is she cute enough for you guys? Oh yes. And she has small hands.
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Post by lwoetin on Mar 15, 2021 23:45:34 GMT -5
Doesn't worry me in the slightest if the nurse or doctor is female, or if there is more than one (maybe I'm a closet exhibitionist :-) ) Is this a hypothetical or did you actually have a female doctor provide an intimate exam?
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Post by lwoetin on Mar 15, 2021 23:43:26 GMT -5
I took a sexual harassment class for work and one scenario they shot was of a nurse needing to navigate a male patient who was enjoyiong her medical care inappropriately. I don't give HR firms enough credit to think they dreamed that scenario up without a real life example to work from. Yeah. Some guys do get intimate exams and don't handle it well. Some of those guys that don't see the same female doctor? Maybe it may not always have been the patient's decision. I promise to behave. Reading comments, it seems like selecting a female doctor won't make them think that I am a perv for letting them do the annual.
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Post by lwoetin on Mar 15, 2021 0:25:08 GMT -5
Man comes in to see the doctor and says, "Doc, my friend has a problem." The doctor replies, "Well, drop your pants and let's take a look at your friend." www.wbur.org/commonhealth/2017/09/08/patient-doctor-female-male-bailI haven't gone for an annual in years. Perhaps because I don't like being naked and having a guy's finger up my rear. Or getting vials of blood drawn. But I'm curious what if it was a female doctor? And she brings in a cute nurse to observe. Not sure if they allow female doc to do an intimate exam on a male in the Bible Belt though. Anyway it seems more appealing than going to Dr. Michael or Dr. Brian. Is there a problem here? Do guys leave a mess on the sheet?
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Post by lwoetin on Mar 7, 2021 17:41:55 GMT -5
Haha. I have an appointment tomorrow to get Pfizer dose.
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Post by lwoetin on Mar 7, 2021 17:40:11 GMT -5
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Post by lwoetin on Feb 27, 2021 14:18:21 GMT -5
BBL can't be about a Brazilian Butt Lift. So off to slang dictionary. I ran into the slang for snack...Snack was black slang for a “small penis” in the 1970s. Haha. Do not offer a snack to anybody! Dessert may be less harmful.
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Post by lwoetin on Feb 27, 2021 1:58:44 GMT -5
great to have an F'er back. Yikes on the shriveling. It made me wonder what inactivity is doing to fellas...so went reading... "If there's a silver lining to these presumably unwelcome changes, it's this: Experts say these changes need not ruin your erotic life. One recent study involving 2,213 men in Olmstead County, Minn., showed significant declines in erectile function, libido, and ejaculatory function -- but only moderate decreases in sexual satisfaction. "Older men may be less likely to perceive these declines as a problem and be dissatisfied," concluded the study's authors. As Goldstein puts it, "The most important ingredient for a satisfying sex life is the ability to satisfy your partner, and that doesn't require peak sexual performance or a big penis. As long as a man's partner enjoys sexual intercourse, he feels like a god." OK, fellas just need to find a goddess to satisfy to make it come back to life.
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