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Post by Deleted on Jan 18, 2018 15:35:37 GMT -5
If tomorrow morning you woke up to find out that you were magically divorced from your spouse....
Would you remarry your ex?
(This is in many ways the inverse of my previous thread asking if you have fun with your spouse, and the interesting answers will come from those who answered yes. )
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Post by h on Jan 18, 2018 15:43:04 GMT -5
No
-Edited to add: I'd still be her friend. I'd consider being her roommate. I'd still drive her to her doctor appointments if she wanted me to. We've been through a lot together and I could still be there for her if she so chose.
But marry her again knowing what I know now?
No.
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Post by Dan on Jan 18, 2018 15:44:38 GMT -5
Nope. Wouldn't even date her.
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Post by Casiyessie on Jan 18, 2018 15:44:58 GMT -5
Without guilt from children, no I wouldn’t.
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Post by wastedyears on Jan 18, 2018 16:42:24 GMT -5
Never in a million years
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Post by listedship on Jan 18, 2018 17:09:57 GMT -5
Nope. Not even a consideration.
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Post by hopingforachange on Jan 18, 2018 17:39:56 GMT -5
Oh hell no
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Post by ihadalove on Jan 18, 2018 18:05:44 GMT -5
Probably not. Really hurts to think it! I usually think in terms of "if you could do it all over what would you do?" The answers I come up with to that question hurt too.
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Post by baza on Jan 18, 2018 18:06:58 GMT -5
As ever, I look at the question, give my gut feel answer (in this instance "no") and then try and make the case for "yes".
I cannot make a case for a "yes" here. I doubt that too many, if any, persons in an ILIASM shithole can make a case for "yes" either.
I think it is a rhetorical question actually.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 18, 2018 18:55:01 GMT -5
Almost rhetorical, baza. But I was wondering if anyone who says life is wonderful except for sex would choose that life.
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Post by lostintime on Jan 18, 2018 19:01:11 GMT -5
No.
Married her because she is a good person and was good to me. Good friend but bad wife, she was also never my type.
They say not to judge the book by its cover...I learned that you should judge the book by its cover since the contents are just a lie
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Post by bballgirl on Jan 18, 2018 19:11:51 GMT -5
No. Marriage includes sex.
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Post by shamwow on Jan 18, 2018 19:18:43 GMT -5
Can such a sorcerer pass the bar exam? Pretty high hourly rate I'd imagine.
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Post by baza on Jan 18, 2018 19:39:26 GMT -5
Almost rhetorical, baza . But I was wondering if anyone who says life is wonderful except for sex would choose that life. Yeah, probably not rhetorical now as I think about it. More like "self selecting". If you are unhappy in your marriage you are probably going to say "no" If you are happy in your marriage you are probably going to say "yes". Me, for example would say (from when I was in my unhappy ILIASM deal) "no". But me, (in my happy relationship with Ms enna these days) would say "yes".
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Post by Apocrypha on Jan 18, 2018 19:55:29 GMT -5
Literally part of the exercise that allowed me to let go.
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