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Post by solodriver on Apr 11, 2020 23:15:10 GMT -5
One thing has become quite clear: None of us know how much time we have left. It makes you change the way you look at things. I guess that's a silver lining.
This has made me look back and really appreciate the intimate relationships I did have, and though sad they didn't last, I'm grateful for each one I had. They were all beautiful and wonderful in their own individual ways.
I hope I have a few more to come in my life.
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Post by solodriver on Apr 5, 2020 16:09:42 GMT -5
Almost bought a book the other day, a copy of the original Scouting for Boys. It is the one with advice on masturbation. Sigh, the advice was don't. I remember my copy of the Scouting Handbook from 1969 discussing "nocturnal emissions".
I want to see the new Scouting Handbook discussion about masturbation and periods for girls.
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Post by solodriver on Apr 4, 2020 2:08:30 GMT -5
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Post by solodriver on Apr 1, 2020 21:06:10 GMT -5
I've certaintly felt like that the past several days. It's very sad and depressing, but seems, at least to me, to be a real possibility.
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Post by solodriver on Mar 26, 2020 20:50:11 GMT -5
I truly don't get it, I would LOVE to have a wife like you. My wife and your husband would get along great, no sex wanted by either one.
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Post by solodriver on Mar 22, 2020 14:01:30 GMT -5
Well, I have it and am in lockdown. Or the medics think I have it but they don't have the tests. Roll on day 8. "Smoke me a kipper, I'll be home for breakfast." Brownie points for those who can place that quote!!!
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Post by solodriver on Mar 22, 2020 10:47:32 GMT -5
"The Department of Health issued guidance Saturday on ways to stay COVID-19-free when the birds and bees beckon amid the coronavirus pandemic.
First and foremost: self love is the best — and least dangerous — kind of love.
“You are your safest sex partner,” the document reads. “Masturbation will not spread COVID-19, especially if you wash your hands (and any sex toys) with soap and water for at least 20 seconds before and after.”
I've got this part down good.
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Post by solodriver on Mar 18, 2020 20:29:22 GMT -5
In case you didn't know. . .
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Post by solodriver on Mar 14, 2020 23:08:30 GMT -5
Bad news and good news, Handy. Bad news is we are all going to die. Good news is not today. The number one cause of death?
Birth
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Post by solodriver on Feb 17, 2020 22:48:34 GMT -5
I joined zoosk. It wasn't even really to actually have an affair, I really just wanted to see if any women would be at all attracted. I've never felt like I was attractive... So far I've been pleasantly surprised; while I haven't had a ton of interest I have had some, and the women who expressed interest have been relatively appealing. I don't really worry about being caught. I'm not actually doing anything, and my W has said she doesn't mind if I have an affair as long as I don't spend any money doing it (and yeah,I pretty much believe her on that, but of course it's almost impossible for a guy to start an affair without any cash outflow.) Yeah how does not having any cash interest a lady? lol
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Post by solodriver on Feb 17, 2020 14:44:33 GMT -5
I expect to have paid down our debts considerably, if I don't end up unemployed, and be able to start looking at making changes to my marital status next year.
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Post by solodriver on Feb 17, 2020 14:38:46 GMT -5
I'll fill-in for sadkat today (hope that's ok?}
It's still early 2020.
Where do you see yourself at the end of this year?
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Post by solodriver on Feb 15, 2020 14:17:33 GMT -5
Greatcoastal said: "I am believing that you are already detached, and are recovering ,and rebuilding while married in name only. This article is a good one that warns you of all the obstacles ahead of you. Especially the influence of friends, coworkers, and family."
That's exactly what I've been doing until I can financially make the separation. It's hard some days, like holidays, but at least mentally, it has helped me so much. to be emotionally separated.
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Post by solodriver on Feb 15, 2020 14:05:56 GMT -5
We almost never travel together anymore. Our last family vacation was 3 or 4 years ago and she ended up staying in the hotel most of the time. She and I have never driven well together. She can't help but tell me how to drive constantly. Drives me nuts. The only way I have discovered to tolerate it is to let her drive first till she's tired then I drive while she's asleep. Lately we don't even try to plan trips together. We end up just planning separate trips that we each take the kids on. It's more peaceful that way. But more lonely at times. Can't wait to take a trip to the beach some day with a woman that wants to do things together. A daily walk on the beach holding hands, enjoy a few attractions, daily cuddles, sex when we want, enjoying the drive home stopping at a few places to explore and enjoy each other's company.... Any volunteers? Lol I'm doing exactly the same thing, hence my name "Solodriver"
Our last trip together was over 20 years ago. And my wife is the same way, complained about my driving the entire time we went anywhere. Now it's just me and the music I can enjoy (which she also didn't like and would bring her music to play in my car).
And that beach dream is one I have too, along with a cabin in the woods and camping.
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Post by solodriver on Feb 13, 2020 21:24:15 GMT -5
It's that time of year again!
Is choosinghappy going to win 3 in a row?
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