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Post by bballgirl on Jul 11, 2016 10:04:05 GMT -5
Of course because I have big boobs so an avatar should be somewhat representative. Unfortunately my waist is not as thin as the avatar's but there weren't a lot of choices for that! Finally I made one! I got tired of looking at the alien looking thing. How did you get the boobs??? LOL!! Is there a boob option here? haha It's in my DNA! Just kidding! Lol I used the app bit emoji, created it then screen shotted the pic and uploaded from my camera role |
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Post by ggold on Jul 11, 2016 10:04:06 GMT -5
I would like to respectfully disagree. It sound more like 100/0. When you change your expectations, life style, behavior, desires, needs, wants, all in the name of compromise, thinking we are now two as one, I have to make this marriage work. I took a vow, I want my partner to be happy, I'll try it for now, surely my partner wants me to be happy. So you give, give, give, by giving in, denying yourself. That does not sound like a 50/50. its a 100/0. GC: I think you are actually agreeing. @zumbamami is saying "it SHOULD be 50/50; so (to ggold ) don't take on 100% of the responsibility". You are saying "100/0 sucks. If you've gone there, walk it back; it SHOULD have been 50/50 all along." Am I right? Now I'm confused @dan. I'm not good in math! lol!! I'm just staying that I share in responsibility to some extent for the failure of my marriage. It's not 100% on him or on me. |
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Post by ggold on Jul 11, 2016 10:05:05 GMT -5
How did you get the boobs??? LOL!! Is there a boob option here? haha It's in my DNA! Just kidding! Lol I used the app bit emoji, created it then screen shotted the pic and uploaded from my camera role OHHH!! I have the bit emoji app!!! lol! I love it!! |
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Post by bballgirl on Jul 11, 2016 10:05:28 GMT -5
I can do a stick figure and that doesn't represent either because I'm a curvy girl not a stick figure. Lol. I like your sketch though it's very cool! Just draw what you see!!! They're always great! You can call it your mental projection of yourself. Good idea maybe I will. |
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Post by ggold on Jul 11, 2016 10:06:55 GMT -5
If you leave him, he will tell anybody who listens that you left because you're a slut who just wants to sleep around. I hope that he will never say this about me. I don't think he will. I am the mom of his kids and he wouldn't slander me. That I am almost positive of. |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 11, 2016 10:07:02 GMT -5
Just draw what you see!!! They're always great! You can call it your mental projection of yourself. Good idea maybe I will. Not that there's anything wrong with your current one! I just know you can do better. |
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Post by Dan on Jul 11, 2016 10:12:32 GMT -5
Now I'm confused @dan. I'm not good in math! lol!! I'm just staying that I share in responsibility to some extent for the failure of my marriage. It's not 100% on him or on me. My apologies if I'm causing any confusion! I heard @zumbamami counsel ggold to consider a "50/50 split of the responsibility"; I heard greatcoastal say that "100/0 is unfair"; I heard ggold say she is sharing the responsibility. So I THINK they are all agreeing with each other, and I'm agreeing with everybody! |
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Post by bballgirl on Jul 11, 2016 10:20:33 GMT -5
Not that there's anything wrong with your current one! I just know you can do better. I understand. The emoji thing is convenient maybe I'll just put my real pic up it's quicker than a drawing and it's realistic. |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 11, 2016 10:26:44 GMT -5
Not that there's anything wrong with your current one! I just know you can do better. I understand. The emoji thing is convenient maybe I'll just put my real pic up it's quicker than a drawing and it's realistic. I noticed some folks started doing that again. The avatars -- digital projections of our mental images -- are fun too! |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 11, 2016 10:47:40 GMT -5
ggold - you understood exactly what I meant, on my original post, without anyone's input/interpretation. Go with your initial feeling on it - we're on the same page. Dan - Yes. I guess?
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Post by greatcoastal on Jul 11, 2016 11:01:09 GMT -5
Not that there's anything wrong with your current one! I just know you can do better. I understand. The emoji thing is convenient maybe I'll just put my real pic up it's quicker than a drawing and it's realistic. email me a real pic and I can do a painting for you. Not the boobs! with six teens in the house, eh.... that gets difficult! ( i'd rather paint them, than do a painting of them,couldn"t resist!)  |
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Post by ggold on Jul 11, 2016 11:07:58 GMT -5
ggold - you understood exactly what I meant, on my original post, without anyone's input/interpretation. Go with your initial feeling on it - we're on the same page. Dan - Yes. I guess? Yes I did. You are right! |
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Post by greatcoastal on Jul 11, 2016 11:08:16 GMT -5
I would like to respectfully disagree. It sound more like 100/0. When you change your expectations, life style, behavior, desires, needs, wants, all in the name of compromise, thinking we are now two as one, I have to make this marriage work. I took a vow, I want my partner to be happy, I'll try it for now, surely my partner wants me to be happy. So you give, give, give, by giving in, denying yourself. That does not sound like a 50/50. its a 100/0. GC: I think you are actually agreeing. @zumbamami is saying "it SHOULD be 50/50; so (to ggold ) don't take on 100% of the responsibility". You are saying "100/0 sucks. If you've gone there, walk it back; it SHOULD have been 50/50 all along." Am I right? Well stated Dan. you will never see me on here bragging about my amazingly accurate communication skills! ( I need all the help I can git!) |
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Post by ggold on Jul 11, 2016 11:09:34 GMT -5
I understand. The emoji thing is convenient maybe I'll just put my real pic up it's quicker than a drawing and it's realistic. email me a real pic and I can do a painting for you. Not the boobs! with six teens in the house, eh.... that gets difficult! ( i'd rather paint them, than do a painting of them,couldn"t resist!) Is this a painting of yours? Beautiful. Such talent!! |
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Post by greatcoastal on Jul 11, 2016 11:16:24 GMT -5
yes it is. it was my fifth portrait I had ever done. Thank you for the compliment! there's a lot of happiness in this portrait, I like to share that. I also don"t like seeing you take on too much guilt or blame. I fear that's what got a lot of us in this in the first place.
Hold your ground friend, and continue to gain new ground!
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