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Post by m76 on Jan 2, 2024 7:13:32 GMT -5
13. Maybe if you lost some weight
This was one of the suggestions from my wife, who is herself overweight. We've both lost weight, it makes no difference. However it does help your own confidence and health so it's not really a waste, just didn't do anything for the sex life.
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Post by week5of35years on Jan 3, 2024 3:53:42 GMT -5
10. I am so tired at work, maybe if you said it was ok for me to stop working things would get better 11. I hate this house maybe if you agreed to move things would get better 12. I hate the cold weather maybe if you took us on holiday somewhere sunny, things would get better These three had been the bulk of my "why chasing" campaign. For me these were my "What chases" - as a result of these what's she stopped work for several "breaks" of up to 6mths-1yr at a time, we moved 3 times ending up in a 3000sqft barn I designed myself and worse of all, emigrated to a warmer climate for a while.... In the pursuit of passion and sex, the denied never learns their lessons LOL |
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Post by greatcoastal on Jan 3, 2024 13:03:19 GMT -5
14) God hates divorce! ( then the associate pastor whispers in my ear- "I got divorced in my early 20's")
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Post by aquacat on Jan 3, 2024 14:12:56 GMT -5
15.) "I'm working on it and I ask that you give me patience."
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Post by worksforme2 on Jan 3, 2024 15:32:24 GMT -5
16.) Everyone knows that men want sex a lot more than women.
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Post by m76 on Jan 3, 2024 15:58:11 GMT -5
16.) Everyone knows that men want sex a lot more than women. My experience with women supports this stereotype. Admittedly this is from a control group of 1. |
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Post by ironhamster on Jan 4, 2024 9:27:57 GMT -5
m76 "loose some weight..." My last year of marriage, my wife bought us a family gym membership. I was the only one that made good use of it, and I got in great shape. It didn't help our bedroom, at all, but it did give me the confidence I needed. I highly recommend doing this. Take the steps you need to do to become your best. But, do it for you, not your spouse.
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Post by sweetplumeria on Jan 5, 2024 4:22:15 GMT -5
16.) Everyone knows that men want sex a lot more than women. My experience with women supports this stereotype. Admittedly this is from a control group of 1. ROFL.... uh if I was in the control group it would flip to 50/50. I cant decide if thats better or worse. Knowing what your dealing with has some merit and lowers expectations. |
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Post by worksforme2 on Jan 5, 2024 5:43:48 GMT -5
I thought this might fit in here nicely....#17 Attachments:
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Post by aquacat on Jan 5, 2024 10:00:37 GMT -5
I thought this might fit in here nicely....#17 Yep. I've had certain things throw back at me, even years later, and it's why I don't trust telling her my deepest feelings. |
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Post by TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo on Jan 7, 2024 15:07:38 GMT -5
"You gotta keep trying!"
My well-meaning younger brother. Dont even get me started on his marriage which I never give him my opinion on. Not my business.
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Post by flounder on Jan 10, 2024 14:39:27 GMT -5
16.) Everyone knows that men want sex a lot more than women. “That seems to be all you think about.” |
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Post by worksforme2 on Jan 10, 2024 18:43:52 GMT -5
16.) Everyone knows that men want sex a lot more than women This was a response from my now X during one of the discussions we had about the poor state of intimacy in our marriage. |
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Post by aquacat on Jan 10, 2024 21:44:15 GMT -5
17. Schedule sex.
I don’t know how many times after an argument about this how often she suggests we schedule it. It lasts maybe a week at best. She even put it on our shared calendar and I just deleted it because I don’t need the constant reminder of how little she cares about it.
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Post by csl on Jan 11, 2024 8:01:28 GMT -5
17. Schedule sex. I don’t know how many times after an argument about this how often she suggests we schedule it. It lasts maybe a week at best. She even put it on our shared calendar and I just deleted it because I don’t need the constant reminder of how little she cares about it. Scheduling sex restarted our sex life. Jes' sayin'... |
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