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Post by isthisit on Apr 3, 2024 14:38:42 GMT -5
She showered with you and ignored your erection? Good Lord. What was the point of the shower if there was no action? It does seem that she showered with you because the counsellor told her that she should as she has agreed to it, rather than she wanted to. And her ignorance of your erection is as clear an expression of her disinterest in intimacy as it is possible to achieve. Soapy loveliness is such a joy, that woman is simply broken. And you are exceptionally patient to see the silver lining with all of that. I’d be super grumpy to put it mildly. In fairness to her, we had agreed in advance this was to build up comfort and there would be no touching below the waist. Although I was hoping that being soapy and naked together might stir up some arousal in her. You are very fair minded. I am still not sure what the point was of being naked and soapy together if it was pre-agreed to go nowhere. It sounds like a planned cock-tease and not the fun sort. Just a reality check from a woman with a normal libido; you couldn’t have stopped me from fondling that erection. It’s a very strong natural instinct. I am sorry that you didn’t experience what you hoped, for that she found you, and your erection, irresistible. |
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Post by m76 on Apr 3, 2024 14:48:08 GMT -5
In fairness to her, we had agreed in advance this was to build up comfort and there would be no touching below the waist. Although I was hoping that being soapy and naked together might stir up some arousal in her. You are very fair minded. I am still not sure what the point was of being naked and soapy together if it was pre-agreed to go nowhere. It sounds like a planned cock-tease and not the fun sort. Just a reality check from a woman with a normal libido; you couldn’t have stopped me from fondling that erection. It’s a very strong natural instinct. I am sorry that you didn’t experience what you hoped, for that she found you, and your erection, irresistible. I really thought that would be her reaction too. Like.. it was poking her in the belly when we kissed, she knew it was there. |
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Post by isthisit on Apr 3, 2024 15:02:27 GMT -5
You are very fair minded. I am still not sure what the point was of being naked and soapy together if it was pre-agreed to go nowhere. It sounds like a planned cock-tease and not the fun sort. Just a reality check from a woman with a normal libido; you couldn’t have stopped me from fondling that erection. It’s a very strong natural instinct. I am sorry that you didn’t experience what you hoped, for that she found you, and your erection, irresistible. I really thought that would be her reaction too. Like.. it was poking her in the belly when we kissed, she knew it was there. So, touching and pleasing you wasn’t her instinct. If challenged about it she will go with something like, “that would be breaking the rules…” or something similar. But that’s rubbish. I couldn’t have stopped myself and every other normal woman would be the same. I am certain of it. How does her lack of responsiveness impact your thinking about your choices? |
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Post by deadzone75 on Apr 3, 2024 15:11:44 GMT -5
Not sure how this works? Shower with hardon that is ignored? Dammit this is why we don't shower together because she knows we're curling toes if we're taking a shower together. Actually, this has just reminded me that at the end of the marriage, I was also victim of this. I persuaded H to take a bath with me. So, there we were in the two person tub, opposite each other all warm and slippery (me more than him 😉) with limbs entangled…. Sexy for me, and that damn man fell asleep. He woke up in cold water. Alone. And with a very bad tempered wife. Clueless about why I was annoyed. He got kicked into touch pretty soon afterwards- shell shocked I had had enough. Egad! Limbs were entangled, and even that wasn't enough to keep him awake... |
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Post by deadzone75 on Apr 3, 2024 15:14:13 GMT -5
She showered with you and ignored your erection? Good Lord. What was the point of the shower if there was no action? It does seem that she showered with you because the counsellor told her that she should as she has agreed to it, rather than she wanted to. And her ignorance of your erection is as clear an expression of her disinterest in intimacy as it is possible to achieve. Soapy loveliness is such a joy, that woman is simply broken. And you are exceptionally patient to see the silver lining with all of that. I’d be super grumpy to put it mildly. In fairness to her, we had agreed in advance this was to build up comfort and there would be no touching below the waist. Although I was hoping that being soapy and naked together might stir up some arousal in her. How did you ever score with that woman? I swear, if I didn't know better, I'd say she just thawed from a block of ice, and you are trying to acclimate her to dicks and utensils because they frighten her. |
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Post by isthisit on Apr 3, 2024 15:14:29 GMT -5
Actually, this has just reminded me that at the end of the marriage, I was also victim of this. I persuaded H to take a bath with me. So, there we were in the two person tub, opposite each other all warm and slippery (me more than him 😉) with limbs entangled…. Sexy for me, and that damn man fell asleep. He woke up in cold water. Alone. And with a very bad tempered wife. Clueless about why I was annoyed. He got kicked into touch pretty soon afterwards- shell shocked I had had enough. Egad! Limbs were entangled, and even that wasn't enough to keep him awake... Nope, soapy, slippery and with wandering hands. The man is simply not fixable. And in case anyone is wondering, I am in decent nick and not some sort of oaf or something. |
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Post by deadzone75 on Apr 3, 2024 15:36:03 GMT -5
Egad! Limbs were entangled, and even that wasn't enough to keep him awake... Nope, soapy, slippery and with wandering hands. The man is simply not fixable. And in case anyone is wondering, I am in decent nick and not some sort of oaf or something. I researched British slang and still can't find a suitable definition for the use of "nick" in this sentence...am I daft? |
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Post by isthisit on Apr 3, 2024 15:37:04 GMT -5
Nope, soapy, slippery and with wandering hands. The man is simply not fixable. And in case anyone is wondering, I am in decent nick and not some sort of oaf or something. I researched British slang and still can't find a suitable definition for the use of "nick" in this sentence...am I daft? 🤣🤣 it means in good shape. And who said you could appropriate “daft”? 🤣 |
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Post by deadzone75 on Apr 3, 2024 15:40:09 GMT -5
I researched British slang and still can't find a suitable definition for the use of "nick" in this sentence...am I daft? 🤣🤣 it means in good shape. And who said you could appropriate “daft”? 🤣 Ahhh...I deduced it meant something like that, but I could find no hard evidence. And I love the word "daft". I basically sit around and wait for an excuse to use it! |
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Post by isthisit on Apr 3, 2024 15:41:37 GMT -5
🤣🤣 it means in good shape. And who said you could appropriate “daft”? 🤣 Ahhh...I deduced it meant something like that, but I could find no hard evidence. And I love the word "daft". I basically sit around and wait for an excuse to use it! And I love the word “junk” and sit around waiting for an excuse to use one. 😉 |
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Post by deadzone75 on Apr 3, 2024 15:44:54 GMT -5
Ahhh...I deduced it meant something like that, but I could find no hard evidence. And I love the word "daft". I basically sit around and wait for an excuse to use it! And I love the word “junk” and sit around waiting for an excuse to use one. 😉   !! |
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Post by isthisit on Apr 3, 2024 15:47:20 GMT -5
And I love the word “junk” and sit around waiting for an excuse to use one. 😉 !! It’s nice to have some fun around here again. Harks back to the good old days. I haven’t quite given up hope that can be achieved again here. |
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Post by deadzone75 on Apr 3, 2024 15:52:16 GMT -5
It’s nice to have some fun around here again. Harks back to the good old days. I haven’t quite given up hope that can be achieved again here. I agree. A little levity never hurt anyone.  |
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Post by Missingout on Apr 3, 2024 16:00:54 GMT -5
It’s nice to have some fun around here again. Harks back to the good old days. I haven’t quite given up hope that can be achieved again here. I'm definitely game.. |
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Post by isthisit on Apr 3, 2024 16:06:37 GMT -5
It’s nice to have some fun around here again. Harks back to the good old days. I haven’t quite given up hope that can be achieved again here. I'm definitely game.. Back in the day this place was a boatload of fun. Sharp wit and a great place to be silly which is good for us all. There were suggestions of debauchery in Berlin sex clubs, filming kinky action and chocolate (that will be Euro chocolate not that swill in the US…). Amongst it all lots of compassion and understanding about the misery that is living in a SM. Great friendships were born from the silliness which has enriched my life and continue to do so. At its best is place is outstanding. |
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