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Post by Deleted on Apr 12, 2016 11:50:55 GMT -5
Well I know plenty of couples who can enjoy their hobbies and still have sex. They don't HAVE to be separate things. Or things that "exclude" the partner. A woman may not like going hunting but can enjoy a cabin in the woods while you do. A woman may not like fishing but can enjoy being on the boat. Exactly. I don't like skiing, but I'm willing to come along and hang out at the ski lodge...have a massage, use the hot tub, etc....and then do something together when the guy is finished skiing. |
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Post by wewbwb on Apr 12, 2016 11:54:33 GMT -5
Well I know plenty of couples who can enjoy their hobbies and still have sex. They don't HAVE to be separate things. Or things that "exclude" the partner. A woman may not like going hunting but can enjoy a cabin in the woods while you do. A woman may not like fishing but can enjoy being on the boat. Exactly. I don't like skiing, but I'm willing to come along and hang out at the ski lodge...have a massage, use the hot tub, etc....and then do something together when the guy is finished skiing. Like have sex in front of the fireplace?  |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 12, 2016 11:55:40 GMT -5
Exactly. I don't like skiing, but I'm willing to come along and hang out at the ski lodge...have a massage, use the hot tub, etc....and then do something together when the guy is finished skiing. Like have sex in front of the fireplace? You read my mind! [naughty grin] |
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Post by wewbwb on Apr 12, 2016 11:57:27 GMT -5
Like have sex in front of the fireplace? You read my mind! [naughty grin] A bit awkward since it's in the lobby, but okay, I'm not shy. |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 12, 2016 12:24:32 GMT -5
You read my mind! [naughty grin] A bit awkward since it's in the lobby, but okay, I'm not shy. I like situations where there's a risk of getting caught. [g] |
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Post by wewbwb on Apr 12, 2016 12:26:07 GMT -5
I know right? |
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Post by greatcoastal on Apr 12, 2016 13:15:20 GMT -5
Lots of talk on here today about meeting others! That's great! Another biggie for me is children. I will always be a father of six. Someone has to accept that baggage, even when they are grown soon. Their is still college, moving, weddings, babies, etc... A big fear/decision for me will be finding a woman who has her own children. As much as I think, " I'm not going through that again" or, " not more of it!" .the truth is I would probably melt like butter, and run to the call of " fatherhood" again! Then the back burner would start all over again! Lord, guide my sword! One thing you would need to do - if you want to keep this hypothetical woman - is to pledge some time and space to her that your children would never be allowed to intrude upon [unless they were literally dying.] If you want to keep a good, healthy, romantic and sexual relationship with another adult, you MUST set aside time when you belong ONLY to them. Having been dumped to the bottom of other people's priority lists for most of my life, I can't stress this enough. If any person does this to me more than twice - he and I had plans, but then Snottums or Brattina or Grandpa or the boss or the neighbor down the street decided THEY wanted attention - and nobody is on their deathbed - that tells me that I mean nothing to him. Any plans he makes with me? I can't trust him to keep them; somebody who's more important to him than I am just might get a paper cut or something. So, if you find this woman - don't ditch plans with her, in favor of somebody else, too often. If she has any self-respect, she'll walk. Or - she'll find somebody else to give her the attention that you took away. She is hypothetical, and you are preaching to the choir, ( not that I mind, it's all good advice that I can agree on!) in my case it was my wife who made children, homeschool, relatives, and work, more important than her marriage. I'm supposed to just, get over those things, you know...deal with it! do you look at your messages on here? Why not? |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 12, 2016 14:32:12 GMT -5
Wall sex is why I need to get back to size 4. Working on flexibility and splits too. I need my old cheerleading body back! Hmm. I'm thinking you'd look fine in a little ghillie skirt and a short ghillie top. Hair teased wild for concealment. Exposed skin smeared green and sand. Blood to your elbows. |
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Post by JMX on Apr 12, 2016 14:35:06 GMT -5
Wall sex is why I need to get back to size 4. Working on flexibility and splits too. I need my old cheerleading body back! Hmm. I'm thinking you'd look fine in a little ghillie skirt and a short ghillie top. Hair teased wild for concealment. Exposed skin smeared green and sand. Blood to your elbows. I had to look up ghillie. I am not sure I would feel sexy in that, but I am okay with blood up to my elbows if I get to have wall sex. |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 12, 2016 14:47:18 GMT -5
Hmm. I'm thinking you'd look fine in a little ghillie skirt and a short ghillie top. Hair teased wild for concealment. Exposed skin smeared green and sand. Blood to your elbows. I had to look up ghillie. I am not sure I would feel sexy in that, but I am okay with blood up to my elbows if I get to have wall sex. You find the right guy, he'll make you a special one. Two Piece. You'll love it! In no time, you'll find the wall sex pedestrian. |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 12, 2016 15:13:33 GMT -5
True Story:
When I was a kid, my Dad, my Brother, and I were fishing in the falls of the Ohio in Louisville. It was great fishing at that time, but it was totally gross with lots of dead stuff that washes down the river and gets caught there in the shallows/rapids.
A guy shows up with a Fabulous babe that wades the river, catches sauger, and manages her own line and tackle.
My dad's arms go limp as he watches her. He muses to us boys regarding where that guy might have found her and if we should ever meet one to glom on for keeps.
Woodsey women are cool.
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Post by unmatched on Apr 12, 2016 17:51:54 GMT -5
Maybe I should consider hanging out at funeral homes That definitely won't work. Refuser wives are always going to outlive their poor, long-suffering husbands just to spite them and make sure they don't have any fun even after their wives are dead and in the ground. |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 12, 2016 20:32:35 GMT -5
What about a younger man? How much younger are we talking about? I'm no cougar; I like men, not boys. I could go maybe 5 years younger. Besides, don't most men want young, fertile 20-somethings and 30-somethings? Why not be a cougar? There are younger men who appreciate older women - a friend of mine is married to a woman 19 years older than him - and they've been together for over 20 years now. They got together when he was in his late 20's and he said he just couldn't put up with women his own age - I believe his favorite word to describe them was "insipid." He also claims that older women are WAY better in bed. Just saying maybe you should keep all your options open! |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 12, 2016 20:39:01 GMT -5
[/quote]Why not be a cougar? There are younger men who appreciate older women - a friend of mine is married to a woman 19 years older than him - and they've been together for over 20 years now. They got together when he was in his late 20's and he said he just couldn't put up with women his own age - I believe his favorite word to describe them was "insipid." He also claims that older women are WAY better in bed. Just saying maybe you should keep all your options open![/quote][
Honesty time? I just don't find boys and much-younger men attractive. I can look at a hot young man in his 20s and enjoy the view. But most of them lack something - I'm not sure I can think of a word for it. I can like them, if they are decent human beings. But I just have never really had that right feeling about a guy who was a whole lot younger. The youngest man I ever felt that for was about 5 years younger.
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Post by RumRunner on Apr 12, 2016 21:00:14 GMT -5
Why not be a cougar? There are younger men who appreciate older women - a friend of mine is married to a woman 19 years older than him - and they've been together for over 20 years now. They got together when he was in his late 20's and he said he just couldn't put up with women his own age - I believe his favorite word to describe them was "insipid." He also claims that older women are WAY better in bed. Just saying maybe you should keep all your options open![/quote][ Honesty time? I just don't find boys and much-younger men attractive. I can look at a hot young man in his 20s and enjoy the view. But most of them lack something - I'm not sure I can think of a word for it. I can like them, if they are decent human beings. But I just have never really had that right feeling about a guy who was a whole lot younger. The youngest man I ever felt that for was about 5 years younger. [/quote] If you are like me, that would feel like you are doing your own child.  |
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