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Post by angeleyes65 on May 31, 2020 8:06:39 GMT -5
So happy for you. He sounds wonderful! Life is so much better on the other side. Corona is not fun but I have another friend that met someone during lock down. I think it made it so you had more time to get to know each other with out the pressure.
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Post by mypaintbrushes on May 31, 2020 22:23:23 GMT -5
So happy for you. He sounds wonderful! Life is so much better on the other side. Corona is not fun but I have another friend that met someone during lock down. I think it made it so you had more time to get to know each other with out the pressure. I’d love to hear more about your friend and who they found! The only thing that messes with my head is the new guy doesn’t talk to me *every* day (I was told by a group of ladies on Facebook that “if a man isn’t texting every day, he’s not really interested!”) Yet in person we have 10 hour dates. He seems awesome to me... one thing that made me think he could possibly be looking for more than just sex was when he was over for lunch and loaded my dishwasher. Lol! |
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Post by worksforme2 on Jun 1, 2020 6:48:29 GMT -5
The only thing that messes with my head is the new guy doesn’t talk to me *every* day (I was told by a group of ladies on Facebook that “if a man isn’t texting every day, he’s not really interested!”) If I were the "love doctor" and I heard this I would diagnose that these woman are suffering from ADD. Just one man's opinion but if I were you I would not be taking advice from these ladies. |
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Post by mypaintbrushes on Jun 1, 2020 11:03:28 GMT -5
The only thing that messes with my head is the new guy doesn’t talk to me *every* day (I was told by a group of ladies on Facebook that “if a man isn’t texting every day, he’s not really interested!”) If I were the "love doctor" and I heard this I would diagnose that these woman are suffering from ADD. Just one man's opinion but if I were you I would not be taking advice from these ladies. I don’t know about ADD, but the page is run by a guy who is an admitted fuckboy. He’s written a long list of rules that women must adhere to. And anytime I say anything in the group with someone goes “Haven’t you read the rules??” I thought about it, and it strikes me that I broke a lot of rules when I was raising my son and he turned out fantastic. People are not all the same… So I’m going to follow my gut more than some more document uploaded to Facebook. |
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Post by flyingsolo on Jun 1, 2020 19:38:27 GMT -5
I load our dishwasher all the time and it hasn't worked yet.  |
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Post by mypaintbrushes on Jun 1, 2020 20:16:24 GMT -5
I load our dishwasher all the time and it hasn't worked yet. If your dishwasher doesn’t work, I do know a guy… 😉 |
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Post by flyingsolo on Jun 1, 2020 20:51:53 GMT -5
I've installed a few dishwashers over the years, so I'm good my friend, but thanks. I'm just trying to figure our why I keep seeing the pool guy pulling out of my driveway as I get home from work every week. I don't have a pool! On a side note, your story is fascinating with your polyamory experiences. I have lots of questions. Inquiring minds want to know. |
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Post by mypaintbrushes on Jun 1, 2020 23:43:24 GMT -5
I've installed a few dishwashers over the years, so I'm good my friend, but thanks. I'm just trying to figure our why I keep seeing the pool guy pulling out of my driveway as I get home from work every week. I don't have a pool! On a side note, your story is fascinating with your polyamory experiences. I have lots of questions. Inquiring minds want to know. Anything specific? |
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Post by worksforme2 on Jun 2, 2020 4:57:28 GMT -5
I've installed a few dishwashers over the years, so I'm good my friend, but thanks. I'm just trying to figure our why I keep seeing the pool guy pulling out of my driveway as I get home from work every week. I don't have a pool! I had a talk with my young son about sex. I told him about the birds and the bees, and he told me about my wife and the butcher.....Rodney Dangerfield |
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Post by hopingforachange on Jun 4, 2020 11:28:30 GMT -5
Some people aren't as into text and digital communication, especially when they don't know how the other person would react.
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Post by mypaintbrushes on Jun 17, 2020 23:52:13 GMT -5
Annmnnnnnnd he’s ghosting me. After I arranged for my mom to take my son a few days a week so we could spend time together.
Fuck.
The ironic thing about being used for sex is that I no longer want it, since having sex apparently, ultimately drives people apart.
Either way, I solved my sexless marriage issue.
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Post by angeleyes65 on Jun 18, 2020 6:14:15 GMT -5
I'm sorry that is happened to you. People can be assholes. Maybe try a single parent dating group might find less commitment phobic people.
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Post by flyingsolo on Jun 18, 2020 9:59:14 GMT -5
Annmnnnnnnd he’s ghosting me. After I arranged for my mom to take my son a few days a week so we could spend time together. Fuck. The ironic thing about being used for sex is that I no longer want it, since having sex apparently, ultimately drives people apart. Either way, I solved my sexless marriage issue. That sucks, but clearly it wasn't the right situation if that's what he did to you. It will all work out. Don't give up! |
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Post by mypaintbrushes on Jun 18, 2020 10:50:10 GMT -5
I'm sorry that is happened to you. People can be assholes. Maybe try a single parent dating group might find less commitment phobic people. Dude has four kids! |
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Post by mypaintbrushes on Jun 18, 2020 10:51:10 GMT -5
Annmnnnnnnd he’s ghosting me. After I arranged for my mom to take my son a few days a week so we could spend time together. Fuck. The ironic thing about being used for sex is that I no longer want it, since having sex apparently, ultimately drives people apart. Either way, I solved my sexless marriage issue. That sucks, but clearly it wasn't the right situation if that's what he did to you. It will all work out. Don't give up! This has been LITERALLY every guy I’ve dated since my divorce. Every last one has been avoidant and then bailed. Are all 40-something men avoidant, or is it just here in CA? |
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