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Post by nancyb on Feb 5, 2018 21:08:43 GMT -5
When I am uncertain what to do in a situation I just slow things down. There is no hurry for me to have a discussion about exclusivity until Josef and I are intimate again or the timing is right. I have not made any promises to him yet. As I've rediscovered myself in the 18 months since my SM came to an end, and upon reflection, I wasn't able to be faithful in my 1st marriage. Its a miracle I didn't fuck around in my second SM marriage. Truth be told I was so far in denial about the importance of my sexuality and intimacy I convinced myself all was well in my second marriage except the sex. I gained a lot of weight using food as a replacement at that time. Now I'm much thinner. LMAO Seriously I don't know if I can be monogamous. I aspire towards it, or have in the past. Perhaps I am simply not made for monogamy or maybe if I met the right man I would wish for it. At the present time I don't mind sharing if that's the case for Josef too. Just thinking out loud tonight.  |
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Post by nancyb on Apr 30, 2018 7:24:11 GMT -5
LOL Just reading some past posts. Josef and I party ways at Valentine's day. He had started to share with me some of his core beliefs including the ability to discern meaning in the Book of Revelations and something else about aliens. I am not ashamed to admit I ran to the door...that's too out there for me. I"ve been living life happily as a single women. I have a large circle of friends now that I'm out of my marriage and living in the city again. Work's satisfying and I've recently take up watercolour. I have to say its really great to be independent and able to look after myself. It gives me freedom. I am dating a little but nothing serious. I am really fussy and frankly most times I would rather be painting! I am thankful to no longer being in a sexless marriage. It's taken me 2 years to get my mojo back. |
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Post by bballgirl on Apr 30, 2018 9:22:48 GMT -5
LOL Just reading some past posts. Josef and I party ways at Valentine's day. He had started to share with me some of his core beliefs including the ability to discern meaning in the Book of Revelations and something else about aliens. I am not ashamed to admit I ran to the door...that's too out there for me. I"ve been living life happily as a single women. I have a large circle of friends now that I'm out of my marriage and living in the city again. Work's satisfying and I've recently take up watercolour. I have to say its really great to be independent and able to look after myself. It gives me freedom. I am dating a little but nothing serious. I am really fussy and frankly most times I would rather be painting! I am thankful to no longer being in a sexless marriage. It's taken me 2 years to get my mojo back. I'm happy for you. I've found that being independent and having things to look forward to with friends and family keeps me happy. |
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Post by jim44444 on Apr 30, 2018 18:48:13 GMT -5
LOL ... and something else about aliens. I am not ashamed to admit I ran to the door.... What is with the xenophobic attitude towards aliens? Sure they may be green, have webbed feet and bulging eyes but they just want to be loved like us. Plus I heard rumors that they may be diphallic. |
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Post by baza on May 1, 2018 2:47:48 GMT -5
Diphilatic ? Is that like running two stamp collections concurrently ? Pass me my tin-foil hat Brother jim44444 !!! Thanks for the mental picture of him really getting on a roll with his theory up until his audience vanished Sister nancyb . And congratulations in regard to how the rest of your life is going. |
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Post by nancyb on May 1, 2018 8:09:37 GMT -5
Thanks so much Baza. |
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Post by Apocrypha on May 11, 2018 15:42:00 GMT -5
I've dated quite a bit older than myself and a fair bit younger.
Generally, the farther off my age it is, the less likely I am to consider an "all in" relationship investment. I'd usually offer something more casual.
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Post by elkclan2 on May 12, 2018 1:58:16 GMT -5
I'm also unlikely to be seeking an 'all in' relationship with someone outside my age bracket. I've always been this way. My partner is about a year younger than me and it works really well.
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