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Post by worksforme2 on Jan 26, 2018 23:07:59 GMT -5
Is there any reason why a healthy 70 year old couldnt have vigorous sex? He could (in the excitement of the moment) forget to take his very reasonably priced Canadian Cialis..... |
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Post by lwoetin on Jan 27, 2018 4:41:57 GMT -5
Wear glasses.
(Just kidding. I try not to.)
Really? I didn't realize quantum physics is a good topic of conversation. I would also read/watch stuff by Stephen Hawking since your date sounds geeky...curved space-time, dark matter, wormholes, origin of universe, Captain Kirk...
Have fun!
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Post by northstarmom on Jan 27, 2018 8:03:15 GMT -5
Friend of mine who was about 30 years younger than her husband says she had at least weekly sex with him til he was in his 80s. Another friend said her granddad was close to 90 and wanted his birthday bj from her grandmom.
Fwiw, post sm partner is almost 66 and I had vigorous sex with him late last night and early this morning....
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Post by worksforme2 on Jan 27, 2018 15:02:12 GMT -5
FWIW, when I meet a prospective partner along with the talk about quantum physics I make it a point to work intimacy into the conversation. And I have had several ladies bring up the subject to make sure and I quote "I am healthy enough to engage in sex". No heart problems or anything like that. I would not leave this subject up to chance. I would let him know that you have an expectation that all forms of intimacy are expected if there is to be anything other than just a friendship.
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Post by nancyb on Jan 27, 2018 16:32:21 GMT -5
Out on a second date tonight. We are going into the bigger city to a local German club where they have music and dancing on Saturday night. LOL I haven't had the intimacy talk yet but there were confessions from both parties about enjoying sex. It worked into the conversation and wasn't creepy at all.
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Post by nancyb on Jan 27, 2018 21:58:42 GMT -5
He's a gentleman with a nice sense of humour. I'm not unattracted to him. There's a sparkle there if you know what I mean. He held my hand on the way to the car and kissed me good night. He wanted me to come back to his place to see some paintings but I demurred. LOL I know it's not like me to take things slow but I think if anything real and true is to grow it comes from a place of friendship first. Besides the sex is better if you wait...I had my share of NSA & FWB this last year to know that. This time I want to dance with my partner before I do the DANCE.  |
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Post by nancyb on Jan 27, 2018 21:59:27 GMT -5
No tongues in the kiss. Just a full on lip kiss.
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Post by northstarmom on Jan 27, 2018 22:22:18 GMT -5
"He's a gentleman with a nice sense of humour. I'm not unattracted to him. "
You don't seem sexually attracted to him. Perhaps that will grow as you know him. Perhaps not. It's good you're taking it slow.
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Post by LEXUS46 on Jan 29, 2018 0:23:36 GMT -5
Successful or not..... just be yourself.
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Post by elkclan2 on Jan 30, 2018 13:45:16 GMT -5
yeah take it slow - I was sooooo wary and went on so many dates where I just didn't want a second date. In fact, I only went on one second date in two years. (Of course sometimes they didnt want a 2nd date). When I met my partner, I thought- hmmm not sure, but I know it's not a no. He asked me on a 2nd date on the 1st for the very next day. I said yes. I nearly talked myself out of seeing him again, because of a kind of general wariness of relationships. Anyway take the time to decide if you do or don't like him.
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Post by nancyb on Jan 31, 2018 10:22:22 GMT -5
We went for a long drive yesterday through the county and did a short hike in minus 15 degree weather. He's a fascinating man. He used his Austrian old world charm to get me into his bed. LOL Its was delicious fun. He was an imaginative, responsive lover and we enjoyed each others company after the sex too. I don't know if he's 'the one' but he's certainly the one for right now and that's fine by me.
To all the gentlemen in the forum. Can you tell me how Cialis works? ie: When do you need to take it, what sort of erection does it achieve? My friend didn't use anything yesterday and the erection was about 70% I would say. He's a very fit, healthy 70 year old.
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Post by northstarmom on Jan 31, 2018 11:09:25 GMT -5
My post sm lover takes daily cialis and monthly t shots. His libido is strong (we boink usually 3 times a week) and his yards are 100 percrnt. When he had some erectile difficulty 2 years ago, he got s medication adjustment.
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Post by nancyb on Feb 2, 2018 10:19:27 GMT -5
He cooked me supper last night. Steak and mushrooms. It was delicious. We had sex before dinner in the afternoon. Had a lovely cuddle/snooze afterwards. Talked almost non stop for 7 hours. I haven't said anything about the sexlessness of my last marriage...in fact we aren't spending much time talking about our past relationships at all. We have both been married twice with grown children.
Things are still in the earliest stages lots of talking to do. Our stories are coming our organically. It's good.
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Post by Apocrypha on Feb 2, 2018 11:35:59 GMT -5
My gig is to use a bad picture of myself online, so when they meet me in person, it's an upgrade and happy shock (because usually it's the other way around). That's all I've got. But you don't want game tips from me. GAH!  , at a post-divorce age, where men balance 50% child custody, busy careers and scheduled interests, time is a precious commodity. Unlike even plain women, men in online dating have to put in a comparatively enormous effort soliciting prospects. I don't think most women have any idea how different the experience is in online dating between the sexes. A lot of men really won't put in the time to actually bother meeting unless a candidate is firing on all cylinders and has a high chance of success. Bad or unflattering pictures are often automatically rejected. When I see a bad picture, it signals to me that this person isn't really hungry and can't even be bothered to show what she looks like. To me, it conveys that this is someone who is hiding that they are unattractive, or more often, that they are narcissistic to the point that they don't feel a need to make the smallest effort to be appealing (and that they still will be fine). A lot of guys will self-select themselves right out of your pool. |
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Post by surfergirl on Feb 2, 2018 11:50:15 GMT -5
Apocrypha A little anecdote: a guy and I hit it off crazy the other night having drinks. But he was married and catching a plane in an hour. He asked to friend me on Facebook, and when I gave him my real name and he clicked on my profile, he said, "Oh god. You are much HOTTER in real life." Kind of backwards to my point, but I have ZERO trouble meeting men and having them fawn on me and stalk me. So I suppose the ones who gloss over just helps me with my volume. I can only handle a dozen at a time. Not being cheeky. I'm just saying that ALL women have the upper hand numbers-wise.
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