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Post by hopingforachange on Sept 21, 2017 16:45:21 GMT -5
Once a week is pretty poor on the performance scale from a male perspective. And your giving him a bj with no oral treat for you anywhere in the mix is way past p*ss poor on his part from my perspective. I would bet a $100 in the dark that most men chow down on their lady 1st, with the end goal being at least 1 orgasm for her(hopefully more) before PIV. Until I found EP and then this forum it never occurred to me that a man wouldn't eat his woman on a regular basis. I agree. I think once a week is a pretty normal level of intercourse to expect out of a relationship. That's why I had such a hard time accepting every other week as my "normal" and acceptable rate. I am hopeful he will step up a bit when I ask for help in between, but I am not really confident about that either. I do have my cuddles back now though! That has felt great. However, I was denied giving him a blow job this morning, so that's kind of crappy Before this forum I didn't know men actually went down on women, I assumed that was really just a porn thing (considering my ratio or male oral to female oral you'd think it a myth too) Shit, considering my bj frequency, if you consider one gf as an outlier, BJs are porn things. Hell, the W had been trying to convince me they are only in porn. |
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Post by brian on Sept 21, 2017 22:58:01 GMT -5
I agree. I think once a week is a pretty normal level of intercourse to expect out of a relationship. That's why I had such a hard time accepting every other week as my "normal" and acceptable rate. I am hopeful he will step up a bit when I ask for help in between, but I am not really confident about that either. I do have my cuddles back now though! That has felt great. However, I was denied giving him a blow job this morning, so that's kind of crappy Before this forum I didn't know men actually went down on women, I assumed that was really just a porn thing (considering my ratio or male oral to female oral you'd think it a myth too) Shit, considering my bj frequency, if you consider one gf as an outlier, BJs are porn things. Hell, the W had been trying to convince me they are only in porn. Wait... they're not?!? I haven't had one in nearly 25 years. |
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Post by tirefire on Sept 23, 2017 11:57:08 GMT -5
Shit, considering my bj frequency, if you consider one gf as an outlier, BJs are porn things. Hell, the W had been trying to convince me they are only in porn. Wait... they're not?!? I haven't had one in nearly 25 years. If I somehow became LL and my partner was HL and I knew it brought her immense pleasure and I cared about her a lot, I'd be giving her the best oral I could every single day. Why would I not do something that brings her so much pleasure? |
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Post by h on Sept 24, 2017 4:48:43 GMT -5
Wait... they're not?!? I haven't had one in nearly 25 years. If I somehow became LL and my partner was HL and I knew it brought her immense pleasure and I cared about her a lot, I'd be giving her the best oral I could every single day. Why would I not do something that brings her so much pleasure? Because you and I, and most of us here, are not selfish people. |
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