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Post by Deleted on Sept 5, 2017 11:03:59 GMT -5
Yes those women do exist.... No doubt about it....but for ever one, there are ten men who want to get in her pants too....numbers do not favor the men..... And while searching, expect to be called a pervert a few times.... And if all a woman wants is sex, that's great. The trouble starts when we want sex AND romance AND a man with a brain.
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Sept 5, 2017 11:04:57 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Sept 5, 2017 11:04:57 GMT -5
Women as they age are in more abundance than are men. They also can have a harder time finding sexually able/willing men. Men tend to marry younger women. Women,in general,marry older men. Women also outlive men. Thus, in general, older women have a harder time finding good sex partners than do older men. I've heard that in nursing homes, men can pick their partners. To quote The Who, I hope I die before I get old.
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Post by GeekGoddess on Sept 5, 2017 14:14:00 GMT -5
Yes those women do exist.... No doubt about it....but for ever one, there are ten men who want to get in her pants too....numbers do not favor the men..... And while searching, expect to be called a pervert a few times.... And if all a woman wants is sex, that's great. The trouble starts when we want sex AND romance AND a man with a brain. This is right. Or anyway, for me. I don't even want anything too committed just now, but even the "lets date" scenario seems to scare some off. I'm coming to the conclusion I'm too much woman for some. I had no idea how intimidating a confident woman is to some men but the more confident I become the more I find that to sometimes be the case!
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Post by brian on Sept 5, 2017 14:30:45 GMT -5
And if all a woman wants is sex, that's great. The trouble starts when we want sex AND romance AND a man with a brain. This is right. Or anyway, for me. I don't even want anything too committed just now, but even the "lets date" scenario seems to scare some off. I'm coming to the conclusion I'm too much woman for some. I had no idea how intimidating a confident woman is to some men but the more confident I become the more I find that to sometimes be the case! Oh, what I would give for a confident woman. I don't like a clingy woman that seems to get her identity from the man she is dating. And if she's sexually confident??? WOWZA!!! I want an intellectual and emotional equal, not someone that drags me down.
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Sept 5, 2017 14:48:05 GMT -5
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Post by shamwow on Sept 5, 2017 14:48:05 GMT -5
Ok, I'll bite...what's with the title 107 days?
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Post by jim44444 on Sept 5, 2017 15:25:20 GMT -5
Women as they age are in more abundance than are men. They also can have a harder time finding sexually able/willing men. Men tend to marry younger women. Women,in general,marry older men. Women also outlive men. Thus, in general, older women have a harder time finding good sex partners than do older men. I've heard that in nursing homes, men can pick their partners. To quote The Who, I hope I die before I get old. To quote Garth Brooks "I'm much too young to feel this damn old".
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Post by shamwow on Sept 5, 2017 15:30:17 GMT -5
Yes those women do exist.... No doubt about it....but for ever one, there are ten men who want to get in her pants too....numbers do not favor the men..... And while searching, expect to be called a pervert a few times.... And if all a woman wants is sex, that's great. The trouble starts when we want sex AND romance AND a man with a brain. I don't want a younger woman. I want one old enough to know what the "A-Team" is. Younger than that? I pity the fool....
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Post by shamwow on Sept 5, 2017 15:31:59 GMT -5
Yes those women do exist.... No doubt about it....but for ever one, there are ten men who want to get in her pants too....numbers do not favor the men..... And while searching, expect to be called a pervert a few times.... And if all a woman wants is sex, that's great. The trouble starts when we want sex AND romance AND a man with a brain. The sad part is that most men could pull that off if they just gave a damn.
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Post by h on Sept 5, 2017 18:13:20 GMT -5
And if all a woman wants is sex, that's great. The trouble starts when we want sex AND romance AND a man with a brain. The sad part is that most men could pull that off if they just gave a damn. The problem for me is that I have no desire for romance if there's no possible chance of sex to follow within the next month or more and my highly logical brain weighs the benefit to cost ratio and determines it to be less than worth the effort.
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Post by northstarmom on Sept 5, 2017 18:37:54 GMT -5
"The problem for me is that I have no desire for romance if there's no possible chance of sex to follow within the next month or more and my highly logical brain weighs the benefit to cost ratio and determines it to be less than worth the effort."
What's the problem? Seems reasonable to me.
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Post by tirefire on Sept 5, 2017 19:06:13 GMT -5
Ok, I'll bite...what's with the title 107 days? I have a little counter on the homescreen of my phone. It's now been 108 days with no sex. 😨 I just keep the counter to stay focused in case I occasionally start to drift to feeling that things are normal or ok. They aren't ok as long as that counter still has a big number.
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Post by northstarmom on Sept 5, 2017 19:42:13 GMT -5
"They aren't ok as long as that counter still has a big number."
I'd consider "big" to be over 14 days unless my guy were out of town or seriously ill.
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Post by solitarysoul on Sept 5, 2017 19:56:48 GMT -5
Ok, I'll bite...what's with the title 107 days? I have a little counter on the homescreen of my phone. It's now been 108 days with no sex. 😨 I just keep the counter to stay focused in case I occasionally start to drift to feeling that things are normal or ok. They aren't ok as long as that counter still has a big number. My counter went over 2,000.... Crossed the 1,000 before I started to get concerned...some on these boards have crossed the 10,000 line...don't go there...
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Post by tirefire on Sept 5, 2017 19:57:01 GMT -5
The women were ordinary women, nice looking but not movie stars, not women who were gym rats. When I told them about my plight,they reassured me that I was normal and also looked fine, not repulsive, but my husband clearly had problems and was a problrm. That eventually led to my having the confidence to divorce. Northstarmom, I have to say it sounds like your ex husband was a dick. My live and let live doesn't extend nicely to people making other people feel bad. I'm glad you can look back at that and realize how messed up it was.
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Sept 5, 2017 19:58:22 GMT -5
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Post by tirefire on Sept 5, 2017 19:58:22 GMT -5
"They aren't ok as long as that counter still has a big number." I'd consider "big" to be over 14 days unless my guy were out of town or seriously ill. You are going to make me laugh or cry. Haven't decided which yet. 😂
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