Ladies, you are sooo right.
Honouring yourself is literally the ONLY way you can start having the life you deserve.
We worry about appearing selfish. But there is a line.
Ill helo anyone with anything as long as long as I can. And as long as it doesn't go against my "grain".
When we do things against our grain to keep others happy we're creating a bullshit world where everyone one else has their needs met and we have none of ours met and an ever growing ball of resentment in our bellies.
Once you make the small change to honour yourself... and it's scary AF at first, life starts coming together.
And lots of people won't like it. They are used to you behaving one way then all of a sudden you change.
But the change must happen.
And the the ones who don't like it can buggar off. Your life will be better for it. And people who DO respect you and your decisions will start to appear in your life.
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