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Post by Caris on Jul 8, 2016 9:29:39 GMT -5
Lovely display of a passive aggressive tantrum. "sing me a soothing lullaby <gnashes teeth> OR FUCK OFF. Or better still, I'll fuck off, that'll show you all". {le sigh} When that person Jasiri turned up on the forum, I felt the posts had Carisimi's handwriting all over them. Was she an identical twin sister? Ah, it was a nym-shift. Well then. I had decided to let this comment go, but now you have again accused me of being over the top passive aggressive, for absolutely no reason (and I can't even fathom where this hateful rhetoric is coming from because you don't even know me), I will say something. Anyone with an ounce of common sense would know that others have changed their usernames from the one they had on EP. That my stories were still there with my new username. That people who knew me...@creelunion for one...knew who I was, and for those who didn't, I told them. Yet you...a stranger to me...accuses me of not only some label you pulled from the air (passive aggressive) but you add deceit to the mix of your character assassination of me. What the hell is your problem? I've done nothing to you. I've done nothing to anyone on this site or any other site, yet you seem hell bent on attacking my character. I can only assume you associate me with something in your past life, and your vitriol is now focused on me. Stop it! It's not supportive and goes against the principles and purpose of this site. |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 8, 2016 10:34:12 GMT -5
Lovely display of a passive aggressive tantrum. "sing me a soothing lullaby <gnashes teeth> OR FUCK OFF. Or better still, I'll fuck off, that'll show you all". {le sigh} When that person Jasiri turned up on the forum, I felt the posts had Carisimi's handwriting all over them. Was she an identical twin sister? Ah, it was a nym-shift. Well then. I had decided to let this comment go, but now you have again accused me of being over the top passive aggressive, for absolutely no reason (and I can't even fathom where this hateful rhetoric is coming from because you don't even know me), I will say something. Anyone with an ounce of common sense would know that others have changed their usernames from the one they had on EP. That my stories were still there with my new username. That people who knew me...@creelunion for one...knew who I was, and for those who didn't, I told them. Yet you...a stranger to me...accuses me of not only some label you pulled from the air (passive aggressive) but you add deceit to the mix of your character assassination of me. What the hell is your problem? I've done nothing to you. I've done nothing to anyone on this site or any other site, yet you seem hell bent on attacking my character. I can only assume you associate me with something in your past life, and your vitriol is now focused on me. Stop it! It's not supportive and goes against the principles and purpose of this site. Car, the weird thing about all of this is that I think given some time and communication, you'd come to really appreciate petrushka . Sure, he's insensitive with his comments above, and God knows I've been there and done that 50 times myself. But he is a very thoughtful and genuine man. And, I'm thinking sparing with him some isn't such a bad thing. It's funny how some of our best friendships can be created in a crucible of conflict. |
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Post by Caris on Jul 8, 2016 11:31:49 GMT -5
@carissimi I did not know you on EP, but I wish you peace. May you find a group that supports you in the ways you need. Be well and Godspeed. And yet, Z, now I go back and look at the vitriol spewed at me from Petrushka, you liked it. I guess you agreed with him in his negative assessment of me. I can't even begin to understand why someone would think of me as having a deceptive and ulterior motive in expressing my feelings and changing my username from the one I had on EP. My past stories were with my username. I come here for support and to give support not to be labeled as some fake person, having a passive aggressive tantrum. WTF ? |
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Post by Caris on Jul 8, 2016 11:38:18 GMT -5
petrushka - carrismi and jasiri are one in the same. Also, yesterday, all her posts showed as "deleted," but her name is back. But greyed out. I'm wondering if she changed her mind and is with us again. It says 'deleted member' under the name. I assume she's gone, but if she isn't - I stand by what I said. Yes, I realized that it was the same person. It just took me a little while to become sure beyond a doubt at first appearance. Urban Dictionary: nymshifting www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=nymshiftingJul 10, 2008 - Practice of changing names in order to suit one's purposes (such as avoiding being identified or to adopt an identity). Typically done on-line in s ... You make it sound like I was trying to con people. Many people knew (because they had common sense, and could see my profile still had all my previous posts attached to my new username) who I was. Trying to make me out to be some kind of nefarious fake, when many here have known me for over 4.5 years from EP, says more about how your mind works, than it does about me. Do not comment on my posts again. I would block you if I knew where the block button is. |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 8, 2016 13:03:25 GMT -5
@carissimi I did not know you on EP, but I wish you peace. May you find a group that supports you in the ways you need. Be well and Godspeed. And yet, Z, now I go back and look at the vitriol spewed at me from Petrushka, you liked it. I guess you agreed with him in his negative assessment of me. I can't even begin to understand why someone would think of me as having a deceptive and ulterior motive in expressing my feelings and changing my username from the one I had on EP. My past stories were with my username. I come here for support and to give support not to be labeled as some fake person, having a passive aggressive tantrum. WTF ? I have removed my "like," after reading your assessment, as that same member made some erroneous assumptions about me after you left. For what it's worth, I am sorry to have passively-aggressively "agreed" with a comment, rather than simply stating my own opinion, which I did. Please ignore and/or block me, if you do not feel I am supportive. Blessings be upon you. I bid you peace. Z |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 9, 2016 7:39:41 GMT -5
If you wouldn't rip people's head of when they try to offer it, maybe you'd get more support.
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Post by Caris on Jul 9, 2016 11:19:34 GMT -5
And yet, Z, now I go back and look at the vitriol spewed at me from Petrushka, you liked it. I guess you agreed with him in his negative assessment of me. I can't even begin to understand why someone would think of me as having a deceptive and ulterior motive in expressing my feelings and changing my username from the one I had on EP. My past stories were with my username. I come here for support and to give support not to be labeled as some fake person, having a passive aggressive tantrum. WTF ? I have removed my "like," after reading your assessment, as that same member made some erroneous assumptions about me after you left. For what it's worth, I am sorry to have passively-aggressively "agreed" with a comment, rather than simply stating my own opinion, which I did. Please ignore and/or block me, if you do not feel I am supportive. Blessings be upon you. I bid you peace. Z Thank you. I appreciate your kindness, Z. After reading some comments by some men here on two of my posts, I most certainly need kindness and understanding not accusations and lambasting. Peace |
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Post by Caris on Jul 9, 2016 11:22:37 GMT -5
If you wouldn't rip people's head of when they try to offer it, maybe you'd get more support. Again, I'm at a loss for words. Perhaps, if you had been callously besmirched in two posts, you may have felt some hurt and anger too. It's good to find out those who support me, and those who are willing to take up bashing me too. |
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Post by Caris on Jul 9, 2016 15:23:00 GMT -5
I had decided to let this comment go, but now you have again accused me of being over the top passive aggressive, for absolutely no reason (and I can't even fathom where this hateful rhetoric is coming from because you don't even know me), I will say something. Anyone with an ounce of common sense would know that others have changed their usernames from the one they had on EP. That my stories were still there with my new username. That people who knew me...@creelunion for one...knew who I was, and for those who didn't, I told them. Yet you...a stranger to me...accuses me of not only some label you pulled from the air (passive aggressive) but you add deceit to the mix of your character assassination of me. What the hell is your problem? I've done nothing to you. I've done nothing to anyone on this site or any other site, yet you seem hell bent on attacking my character. I can only assume you associate me with something in your past life, and your vitriol is now focused on me. Stop it! It's not supportive and goes against the principles and purpose of this site. Car, the weird thing about all of this is that I think given some time and communication, you'd come to really appreciate petrushka . Sure, he's insensitive with his comments above, and God knows I've been there and done that 50 times myself. But he is a very thoughtful and genuine man. And, I'm thinking sparing with him some isn't such a bad thing. It's funny how some of our best friendships can be created in a crucible of conflict. Creel, Insensitive? Just because I expressed that I was feeling a lack of support on one of my posts, he pulls out of thin air that I'm having a passive aggressive tantrum? Then he (in another comment) gives a link to some nyphm shift article, as though I'm some kind of deceptive fake, trying to con people. WTH? No, Creel, given the abusive hell that I have endured for 25-years, I have zero tolerance to take more abuse, especially when it's unfounded, unfair, and totally without merit. To be so unkind on a support site where people (in this post SM group) are trying to heal...and in my case, ALONE, without emotional support, just takes me back a few steps in my healing. One of my greatest challenges is to trust men again. When men on a support group start accusing me, and being unkind like this, it makes me withdraw from men even more. That does not help me at all, in fact it negates the effort and time I've spent on trying to trust again. |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 9, 2016 15:30:20 GMT -5
I have removed my "like," after reading your assessment, as that same member made some erroneous assumptions about me after you left. For what it's worth, I am sorry to have passively-aggressively "agreed" with a comment, rather than simply stating my own opinion, which I did. Please ignore and/or block me, if you do not feel I am supportive. Blessings be upon you. I bid you peace. Z Thank you. I appreciate your kindness, Z. After reading some comments by some men here on two of my posts, I most certainly need kindness and understanding not accusations and lambasting. Peace Likewise, Caris. If I've learned anything from the world events of the past few weeks, we NEED more patience, kindness and compassion towards each other. Namaste. |
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Post by Caris on Jul 9, 2016 16:17:41 GMT -5
Thank you. I appreciate your kindness, Z. After reading some comments by some men here on two of my posts, I most certainly need kindness and understanding not accusations and lambasting. Peace Likewise, Caris. If I've learned anything from the world events of the past few weeks, we NEED more patience, kindness and compassion towards each other. Namaste. Namaste, dear 🙏 |
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