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Post by lyn on Jun 6, 2017 22:21:22 GMT -5
Ok, yes, he DOES look like Elvis Costello! Lol
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Post by Deleted on Jun 7, 2017 6:35:06 GMT -5
This reminds me of many years ago when I complained to my wife about our SM, she said I needed to lose a few pounds.
I did.
Then came another excuse. And another.
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Post by northstarmom on Jun 7, 2017 7:52:41 GMT -5
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Post by tiffanyc on Jun 7, 2017 7:54:36 GMT -5
I just finished reading your reply. |
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Post by greatcoastal on Jun 7, 2017 7:59:03 GMT -5
Ummm... Who's the one dressed in the jeans and T-shirt?
As apocrypha mentioned, after the divorce, change the clothes ,change the hair style, the weight comes off.
I read an article the other day about "you are in your 40's time to start dressing and acting like it". So there are those things to consider. However ,I personally want a relationship where, who cares what society is doing, my partner and our friends are doing just fine and happy the way we are.
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Post by tiffanyc on Jun 7, 2017 8:08:13 GMT -5
Ummm... Who's the one dressed in the jeans and T-shirt? As apocrypha mentioned, after the divorce, change the clothes ,change the hair style, the weight comes off. I read an article the other day about "you are in your 40's time to start dressing and acting like it". So there are those things to consider. However ,I personally want a relationship where, who cares what society is doing, my partner and our friends are doing just fine and happy the way we are. Lol in that pic I was wearing a dress but normally in I'm tshirts, tank tops etc. and jeans |
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Post by greatcoastal on Jun 7, 2017 8:24:12 GMT -5
You dear,have been given a lot to think about all in a day. I'm so very glad we continued our conversation. I believe it helped you to express other feelings, questions, doubts, fears, concerns, etc.. we all have them!! It's wonderful how others come to the rescue. It can be like that in our daily lives as well. Surround yourself with more "can do" type people who accept your positive traits, we all have a lot of them.
Please feel free to stay in touch and you will be helping others who don't post here but relate to your story.
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Post by tiffanyc on Jun 7, 2017 8:28:12 GMT -5
You dear,have been given a lot to think about all in a day. I'm so very glad we continued our conversation. I believe it helped you to express other feelings, questions, doubts, fears, concerns, etc.. we all have them!! It's wonderful how others come to the rescue. It can be like that in our daily lives as well. Surround yourself with more "can do" type people who accept your positive traits, we all have a lot of them. Please feel free to stay in touch and you will be helping others who don't post here but relate to your story. I plan on it |
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