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Post by h on Aug 10, 2017 4:53:02 GMT -5
The cynic in me would have my money on "at least a year to heal" in this scenario Brother h . I also hope that I am proved conclusively and quickly wrong. I'm willing to wait and see if it's possible. I'm still not sure if I will stay though. I posted here in this thread the medical facts for the benefit of anyone who may have similar problems. I can discuss willingness elsewhere. |
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Post by laura on Aug 10, 2017 8:50:35 GMT -5
Ovarian cyst. At a recent doctor visit he said that the location and size of an ovarian cyst can cause intercourse to be very painful. Some of them can cause scar tissue to form inside and even after removal, it can take up to a year to heal. Doctor found lots of scar tissue during the W's exam but said it would most likely heal now that the cyst was removed. Since the scarring is localized, changing positions or angles could help avoid the pain. So is this the appointment you were waiting for this summer? I'm glad you finally got an answer of some kind. It is too bad that your W waited so long to get it checked out. Did she just accept pain as normal? I hope it is a fast recovery and gets you back on track! Thank you for starting this thread btw. I know you've gotten some pushback, but I think it is very relevant even if medical issues don't change the options. My H cites a lot of medical causes and I may post here at some point if he ever sees a doctor to confirm any of it. |
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Post by h on Aug 10, 2017 14:25:11 GMT -5
Ovarian cyst. At a recent doctor visit he said that the location and size of an ovarian cyst can cause intercourse to be very painful. Some of them can cause scar tissue to form inside and even after removal, it can take up to a year to heal. Doctor found lots of scar tissue during the W's exam but said it would most likely heal now that the cyst was removed. Since the scarring is localized, changing positions or angles could help avoid the pain. So is this the appointment you were waiting for this summer? I'm glad you finally got an answer of some kind. It is too bad that your W waited so long to get it checked out. Did she just accept pain as normal? I hope it is a fast recovery and gets you back on track! Thank you for starting this thread btw. I know you've gotten some pushback, but I think it is very relevant even if medical issues don't change the options. My H cites a lot of medical causes and I may post here at some point if he ever sees a doctor to confirm any of it. She has always had pain during intercourse but never asked the doctor about it. Finally, she ended up in random excruciating pain at work and they found the cyst. It was removed shortly after. This all took place last year but she still never asked about pain during sex. I basically forced her to make another appointment to ask about this with the ultimatum that if she didn't, I would continue to bring it up every day thereafter regardless of who I said it in front of. She doesn't feel comfortable talking about sexual stuff but the threatened embarrassment of being outed publicly for refusal was enough to get her over it. I'm glad to hear that you like the thread. I do believe that there are some marriages that could be saved with the right information. I'm still not sure if mine is one of them but that doesn't mean I should stop sharing the information in case someone else benefits from it. As I said in the beginning of the thread, this small corner is for solutions for those who are willing to try. Thank you. It's good to know some people out there value the contribution. |
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Post by hopingforachange on Aug 10, 2017 14:57:37 GMT -5
Ovarian cyst. At a recent doctor visit he said that the location and size of an ovarian cyst can cause intercourse to be very painful. Some of them can cause scar tissue to form inside and even after removal, it can take up to a year to heal. Doctor found lots of scar tissue during the W's exam but said it would most likely heal now that the cyst was removed. Since the scarring is localized, changing positions or angles could help avoid the pain. Oh, so just intercourse, that means all other types of sexual non vaginal penitration intimacy are ok. |
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Post by h on Aug 10, 2017 15:00:07 GMT -5
Ovarian cyst. At a recent doctor visit he said that the location and size of an ovarian cyst can cause intercourse to be very painful. Some of them can cause scar tissue to form inside and even after removal, it can take up to a year to heal. Doctor found lots of scar tissue during the W's exam but said it would most likely heal now that the cyst was removed. Since the scarring is localized, changing positions or angles could help avoid the pain. Oh, so just intercourse, that means all other types of sexual non vaginal penitration intimacy are ok. A strong gag reflex doesn't leave many other options... |
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Post by shamwow on Aug 11, 2017 13:22:33 GMT -5
Oh, so just intercourse, that means all other types of sexual non vaginal penitration intimacy are ok. A strong gag reflex doesn't leave many other options... There are many ways to please your man...if you have desire. - If she has an ovarian cyst, couldn't you just play "just the tip?" I may be displaying my legendary ignorance of female plumbing here, though. - Gag reflex only important if she tries to take in too much. Shallow? Shouldn't be a problem. - Unless she is a double amputee, she has hands - Unless she has had her breasts removed and not replaced, the classic titty fuck is an option - Never had one, but I'd imagine a foot job could be interesting - She's probably not interested in the back door, but it IS an option. And, of course, for her, there are many ways for you to please her non-PIV. Hands, mouth, wearing a clown suit...those are the most common. I guess the good part is that it is an actual medical condition, it is treatable, and it is being treated. That should take care of any physical issues. If there is a lack of desire, you should be able to tell from resistance to any of the other methods of intimacy listed above. |
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