idna
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Post by idna on Jun 5, 2017 7:51:09 GMT -5
On the weekend H ask the doc about it, but the other medicine available is said to be highly addictive and stopping it can cause some scary withdrawal symptoms (not that this one doesn't have that). Although it's okay to take a break in it for the weekends, but he doesn't want that.
Even if there was a better option, I doubt there would be any change because he has already expressed his opinion about marital sex...
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idna
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Post by idna on Jun 5, 2017 8:21:20 GMT -5
greatcoastalI realised he has been doing this for a while now, to avoid taking responsibility for anything he has said or did. "It was a joke" "You take it too seriously" This came up again, and I told him that I am going take everything like that. Just a joke or a lie, nothing serious. Yes, he didn't like it, and interestingly the argument ended here. I think he didn't know how to react. Thanks for the advice! Really!
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Post by hopingforachange on Jun 5, 2017 8:23:57 GMT -5
On the weekend H ask the doc about it, but the other medicine available is said to be highly addictive and stopping it can cause some scary withdrawal symptoms (not that this one doesn't have that). Although it's okay to take a break in it for the weekends, but he doesn't want that. Even if there was a better option, I doubt there would be any change because he has already expressed his opinion about marital sex... His choosing not to try other medications or not setting up scheduled breaks, speaks volumes on how he views your needs in the relationship. |
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idna
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Post by idna on Jun 5, 2017 10:33:00 GMT -5
On the weekend H ask the doc about it, but the other medicine available is said to be highly addictive and stopping it can cause some scary withdrawal symptoms (not that this one doesn't have that). Although it's okay to take a break in it for the weekends, but he doesn't want that. Even if there was a better option, I doubt there would be any change because he has already expressed his opinion about marital sex... His choosing not to try other medications or not setting up scheduled breaks, speaks volumes on how he views your needs in the relationship. Also that he did not ask his doctor until I told him so. There is an option for therapy as well, but of course that means hard work, so even that is a no. He told me that I want him to suffer from his illness again, or else I would not ask him to try something else. It did hurt a little, but now I see it is just pure manipulation. |
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Post by hopingforachange on Jun 5, 2017 10:36:28 GMT -5
His choosing not to try other medications or not setting up scheduled breaks, speaks volumes on how he views your needs in the relationship. Also that he did not ask his doctor until I told him so. There is an option for therapy as well, but of course that means hard work, so even that is a no. He told me that I want him to suffer from his illness again, or else I would not ask him to try something else. It did hurt a little, but now I see it is just pure manipulation. Welcome to the light |
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