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Post by shamwow on Mar 26, 2017 20:15:29 GMT -5
Shamwow your a riot! I must be serving life. I am trying to get out on parole but i will be dammed if i can find a good lawyer from jail. Before I asked for a divorce I would have settled for a conjugal visit. The only problem is that my wife is also the warden. My case is currently on appeal. |
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Post by novembercomingfire on Mar 27, 2017 8:04:09 GMT -5
It started when my 21 year old was born... so more than 9 years. 9 years is the trackable part. The part when I began to quit carrying the marriage. I believe that I once read the average murderer only serves 7. I'm at almost 3 and will be out soon. Lucky you, comparatively speaking. I got life without parole. I exhausted all of my appeals which were not in my favor. I lose. The only way I will ever get out is if I find a way to blow up the prison. To date I remain daunted by the likely collateral damage of such an act. SaveSave |
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Post by shamwow on Mar 27, 2017 8:29:29 GMT -5
I believe that I once read the average murderer only serves 7. I'm at almost 3 and will be out soon. Lucky you, comparatively speaking. I got life without parole. I exhausted all of my appeals which were not in my favor. I lose. The only way I will ever get out is if I find a way to blow up the prison. To date I remain daunted by the likely collateral damage of such an act. SaveSaveYou do speak the truth. Even though I'm 20 years into a marriage and celibate the last 3, I do realize things can always be much worse. I am able to get out and do so in what appears (so far at least) to be an amicable manner. I read many stories such as this one and feel a mix of anger and sadness. I am "blessed" that my SM is one of the "garden variety" and neither of us are trapped in it (for whatever reasom) nor filled with hate. It doesn't make it easy, but does give perspective. |
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Post by Deleted on Mar 27, 2017 12:10:32 GMT -5
justjillian, your husband is a rat-bastard. You have a health problem that you did NOT get on purpose. In fact, it happened because of a pregnancy that HE caused. And on top of that - you are the one who still wants a normal, sexual marriage. So much for the stereotype of all wives becoming asexual mommies as soon as a child comes along. IMHO, he doesn't love you. If he loved you, he would never let you sleep on the floor! It sounds to me like he's more concerned about keeping the bed dry than he is about your health. He doesn't deserve you. And you deserve so much better.
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Post by bballgirl on Mar 27, 2017 15:28:13 GMT -5
justjillian, your husband is a rat-bastard. You have a health problem that you did NOT get on purpose. In fact, it happened because of a pregnancy that HE caused. And on top of that - you are the one who still wants a normal, sexual marriage. So much for the stereotype of all wives becoming asexual mommies as soon as a child comes along. IMHO, he doesn't love you. If he loved you, he would never let you sleep on the floor! It sounds to me like he's more concerned about keeping the bed dry than he is about your health. He doesn't deserve you. And you deserve so much better. I agree 100%. I would talk to an attorney so fast and find out how much you will get for child support. He should not have had you sleeping on the floor. |
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Post by darktippedrose on Mar 28, 2017 0:50:30 GMT -5
justjillian - please get a second opinion on your health issues. At 15 I was diagnosed with PCOS and told I'd never have kids. Well, I've had 6 pregnancies, 10 fetuses and 3 children. So no, they were wrong. and he's using your medical problems against you. My libido returned with full force 3 weeks after my son was born. I was ready to go. I had sex as soon as I quit bleeding, which was 3.5 weeks. Totally don't recommend it. I was 20. At 21 I had my twins. My libido was a bit slower, it came back at closer to 6 weeks, but we had sex after 4 weeks, when my bleeding stopped. and it really hurt. I won't do that again. For 3 months my husband left at 6 am and returned at midnight. he didn't want me to talk to my relatives a lot because they aren't Muslim and he didn't want me around lots of other Muslim women either. so yeah ...... I had post partum depression. My husband thought I should quit thinking about sex since I was a mother, and he didn't think it was normal or natural. I could go and on and on. Needless to say, I still do most everything even with my health problems. Even with sleep deprivation with teh kids. hugs sweetie.
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