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Post by Rhapsodee on Jan 6, 2017 11:48:36 GMT -5
I was in the kitchen this morning and my husband came to kiss me goodbye. He looked especially handsome and he smelled wonderful. He is using a new shaving cream or something. I couldn't help myself, I put my hands on his shoulders and started nuzzling his neck and the side of his face. He started laughing and backing away, trying to put me away from him. He said laughing "No, this is weird". I started teasing him that women were going to be following him around all day. He kept laughing and dodging me as I annoyed him all the way out the door. It was really fun.
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Post by solodriver on Jan 6, 2017 12:43:28 GMT -5
OMG to have a woman do that for me!! I may not have even gone to work at that point, would have called in sick! Then we would have gone back to bed and enjoyed the day together!!
I honest to God don't get it!!
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Post by novembercomingfire on Jan 6, 2017 12:49:52 GMT -5
OMG to have a woman do that for me!! I may not have even gone to work at that point, would have called in sick! Then we would have gone back to bed and enjoyed the day together!!
I honest to God don't get it.!!
Yes. The impossible dream of many of us ... |
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Post by thebaffledking on Jan 6, 2017 12:59:09 GMT -5
Reading these words, Rhapsodee, I want to smack him!
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Post by solodriver on Jan 6, 2017 13:23:52 GMT -5
Reading these words, Rhapsodee, I want to smack him! I want to trade places with him, he wouldn't have that problem with my wife, that's for damn sure. He'd probably be in heaven married to my roommate!
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Post by richfairy72 on Jan 6, 2017 13:40:39 GMT -5
Are you sure it wasn't my husband? He is exactly the same. Then I feel as if I'm being inappropriate with him, or pushy, till i remember I am his wife and it is what normal couples would do!! And what I don't get, is if it's because he has low self esteem then surely puzzling up to him should feel a compliment!!
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Post by bballgirl on Jan 6, 2017 13:40:39 GMT -5
It's just not normal. These marriages aren't normal.
At the very least he could have kissed you and squeezed your ass.
Foolish man.
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Post by solodriver on Jan 6, 2017 13:41:19 GMT -5
Rhapsodee, you just gave me a funny idea!
I quit wearing cologne around because my wife would tell me she was too sensitive to it. Funny, though when we first met, it didn't bother her at all. When I asked about it when she started complaining about it 4 years into the marriage, she told me her sensitivity to smell must be getting worse because of age. So I quit wearing it.
For Christmas my stepdaughter got me some Canoe spray cologne, which I haven't even tried yet. Tomorrow morning after I shave, I'm going to spray it on me and then go up to her to hug her. I know she will immediately push me away and complain about me wearing the cologne. I'm going to continue to bug her all day with it on. Instead of taking the rejection personally, I'm going to laugh about it all day! If she doesn't like it, she can go somewhere else all day lol.
Hey, maybe when I'm out and about, other women may like the way I smell and if we make eye contact I will smile at them. 
I think you're right Rhapsodee, I need to start having some fun with this!
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Post by nancyb on Jan 6, 2017 14:05:21 GMT -5
Rhapsodee: I longed for my STBX like that for years. Always building him up, flirting with him, wanting to be close to him more than a peck on the cheek. Now I think, screw you Jack. Don't let the door hit you on the way out. You and all your false advertising. BLAH
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Post by shamwow on Jan 6, 2017 14:18:20 GMT -5
The only time I ever used to wear cologne is to impress the chicks.
Granted, that was back in the late 1900's
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Post by novembercomingfire on Jan 6, 2017 14:45:44 GMT -5
Rhapsodee, you just gave me a funny idea!
I quit wearing cologne around because my wife would tell me she was too sensitive to it. Funny, though when we first met, it didn't bother her at all. When I asked about it when she started complaining about it 4 years into the marriage, she told me her sensitivity to smell must be getting worse because of age. So I quit wearing it.
For Christmas my stepdaughter got me some Canoe spray cologne, which I haven't even tried yet. Tomorrow morning after I shave, I'm going to spray it on me and then go up to her to hug her. I know she will immediately push me away and complain about me wearing the cologne. I'm going to continue to bug her all day with it on. Instead of taking the rejection personally, I'm going to laugh about it all day! If she doesn't like it, she can go somewhere else all day lol.
Hey, maybe when I'm out and about, other women may like the way I smell and if we make eye contact I will smile at them.
I think you're right Rhapsodee, I need to start having some fun with this!
Curious. I encourage you to get the most out of this. I just had the same conversation with my partner yesterday. I stopped wearing cologne years ago because she said she is "too sensitive to it." I told her i was going to start wearing cologne again yesterday. She vocally objected to the very idea. She seems to think that all is well because women are not attracted to me anyway, so i am curious about the mixed message here ... |
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Post by novembercomingfire on Jan 6, 2017 14:46:31 GMT -5
The only time I ever used to wear cologne is to impress the chicks. Granted, that was back in the late 1900's Me too, but back in the early 1900s. |
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Post by Rhapsodee on Jan 6, 2017 15:09:05 GMT -5
Rhapsodee: I longed for my STBX like that for years. Always building him up, flirting with him, wanting to be close to him more than a peck on the cheek. Now I think, screw you Jack. Don't let the door hit you on the way out. You and all your false advertising. BLAH Sometimes you just need to have a little fun with it. I know I can be an imp. I think he knew I was messing with him. |
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Post by Deleted on Jan 6, 2017 15:36:53 GMT -5
Reading these words, Rhapsodee, I want to smack him! Don't we all?! Sheesh. What is wrong with these refusing men? |
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Post by greatcoastal on Jan 6, 2017 18:25:13 GMT -5
Rhapsodee: I longed for my STBX like that for years. Always building him up, flirting with him, wanting to be close to him more than a peck on the cheek. Now I think, screw you Jack. Don't let the door hit you on the way out. You and all your false advertising. BLAH Sometimes you just need to have a little fun with it. I know I can be an imp. I think he knew I was messing with him. I would be to paranoid of my manipulative controller using just one time when I was just having a little fun, as a weapon to bring up over and over again, setting it in stone. Every attempt at affection or sex was always ready to be followed up on. Now she will never be complimented by my advances again. |
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