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Post by baza on Jan 6, 2017 18:44:01 GMT -5
Just goes to show that peoples idea of fun is widely variable.
To me, this scenario described doesn't read as "fun" at all, but rather, as a sad scene when viewed in a wider context.
But, I am a pretty humourless old bloke, so apply appropriate discounts.
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Post by Rhapsodee on Jan 6, 2017 19:11:15 GMT -5
Just goes to show that peoples idea of fun is widely variable. To me, this scenario described doesn't read as "fun" at all, but rather, as a sad scene when viewed in a wider context. But, I am a pretty humourless old bloke, so apply appropriate discounts. OK, there was a bit of vindictiveness in my actions, doing to him what I knew would make him uncomfortable. I did have fun making him feel that way. |
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Post by solodriver on Jan 6, 2017 20:25:01 GMT -5
Just goes to show that peoples idea of fun is widely variable. To me, this scenario described doesn't read as "fun" at all, but rather, as a sad scene when viewed in a wider context. But, I am a pretty humourless old bloke, so apply appropriate discounts. OK, there was a bit of vindictiveness in my actions, doing to him what I knew would make him comfortable. I did have fun making him feel that way. That's going to be my purpose and I don't care. I'm going to enjoy doing it 
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Post by worksforme2 on Jan 7, 2017 15:29:04 GMT -5
I was in the kitchen this morning and my husband came to kiss me goodbye. He looked especially handsome and he smelled wonderful. He is using a new shaving cream or something. I couldn't help myself, I put my hands on his shoulders and started nuzzling his neck and the side of his face. He started laughing and backing away, trying to put me away from him. He said laughing "No, this is weird". I started teasing him that women were going to be following him around all day. He kept laughing and dodging me as I annoyed him all the way out the door. It was really fun. If my X had ever done something like this I would have been worried..... |
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Post by solodriver on Jan 7, 2017 17:30:52 GMT -5
Well I did it. I took a shower, put on my cologne and went to my wife in the bedroom sitting on the bed. I leaned over to kiss her and she turned away so I stuck my face down to her neck to nuzzle her. She put her shoulder up to me to block me but I found my way in anyway. Then she immediately started complaining that her shoulder was hurting her and to stop. So I moved to the other side, and she turned further over away from me and I started nuzzling the back of her neck and she yelled at me to stop because her shoulder was hurting really bad. I just laughed and walked away.
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Post by thebaffledking on Jan 7, 2017 18:53:15 GMT -5
Well I did it. I took a shower, put on my cologne and went to my wife in the bedroom sitting on the bed. I leaned over to kiss her and she turned away so I stuck my face down to her neck to nuzzle her. She put her shoulder up to me to block me but I found my way in anyway. Then she immediately started complaining that her shoulder was hurting her and to stop. So I moved to the other side, and she turned further over away from me and I started nuzzling the back of her neck and she yelled at me to stop because her shoulder was hurting really bad. I just laughed and walked away. Dude....................Why the hell are you with this woman? WHY?  ?? |
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Post by baza on Jan 7, 2017 19:30:36 GMT -5
These tales of approaching a refusive spouse, where you KNOW the result is pre-ordained, read to me like passive aggressive bullshit.
Or at least, as Rhapsodee said earler, a degree of vindictiveness.
And I've not seen either tactic do anything to improve a situation.
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Post by darktippedrose on Jan 7, 2017 19:38:50 GMT -5
I used to be like that. Now I hate him when he gets dressed looking nice and smeeling good for anyone and everyone but me. I honestly can't stand it when he does that.
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Post by ggold on Jan 7, 2017 19:49:18 GMT -5
I cannot even tell you the last time I did something like that to him. God, the more I reflect upon our relationship, the more I realize how long I truly have been refused.
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Post by solodriver on Jan 7, 2017 20:59:23 GMT -5
These tales of approaching a refusive spouse, where you KNOW the result is pre-ordained, read to me like passive aggressive bullshit. Or at least, as Rhapsodee said earler, a degree of vindictiveness. And I've not seen either tactic do anything to improve a situation. I did it for my own (sick) entertainment and just another rock to put in my bag to throw at her if/when I decide to leave. |
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Post by solodriver on Jan 8, 2017 0:52:00 GMT -5
Well I did it. I took a shower, put on my cologne and went to my wife in the bedroom sitting on the bed. I leaned over to kiss her and she turned away so I stuck my face down to her neck to nuzzle her. She put her shoulder up to me to block me but I found my way in anyway. Then she immediately started complaining that her shoulder was hurting her and to stop. So I moved to the other side, and she turned further over away from me and I started nuzzling the back of her neck and she yelled at me to stop because her shoulder was hurting really bad. I just laughed and walked away. SD- made me sad for you! I guess her excuse today, was that her shoulder was hurting so much that she didn't notice the cologne. I'm guessing, by the end of the day she will say something. Nope not a word about the cologne. But she reminded me all day that, because of what I did, her shoulder has been hurting her all day today.
Apparently my wife didn't "get the message"!
I "got the message" she was sending me!
** Message Decoded: If you wear this cologne, you are signaling to women that you are ready for sex from miles away!
I truly am
Edit add: A thought just occurred to me; maybe my stepdaughter knows me better than I thought lol!
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Post by beachguy on Jan 8, 2017 10:17:55 GMT -5
I was in the kitchen this morning and my husband came to kiss me goodbye. He looked especially handsome and he smelled wonderful. He is using a new shaving cream or something. I couldn't help myself, I put my hands on his shoulders and started nuzzling his neck and the side of his face. He started laughing and backing away, trying to put me away from him. He said laughing "No, this is weird". I started teasing him that women were going to be following him around all day. He kept laughing and dodging me as I annoyed him all the way out the door. It was really fun. Your husband is gay. End of story. Sorry. |
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Post by worksforme2 on Jan 8, 2017 11:17:52 GMT -5
My dog really likes to smell me in the morning. When she comes back in from her morning potty she jumps ups next to me and spends about 10 seconds smelling my face and hair before giving me a kiss.
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Post by GeekGoddess on Jan 8, 2017 18:15:21 GMT -5
I love that the gift was from HER daughter to you. To hell with the wife - wear that cologne and go flirt with someone else!
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Post by solodriver on Jan 8, 2017 22:26:13 GMT -5
I love that the gift was from HER daughter to you. To hell with the wife - wear that cologne and go flirt with someone else! It was her daughter...funny, I think she can see we're not doing well at all, maybe her way of trying to help or another message for me, lol.
I will do that Geek 
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