I'm the refuser

I'm back again. I traveled to my hometown. I had some medical issues, all sorted out now.

My husband is staying in US. My flight to US is leaving tomorrow. I have made arrangements to directly go to my friend's place and then go to the apartment I've taken for myself. Thanks for all your support.

I'm nervous. My in-laws are fighting with me and my family for trivial issues. My parents have now gotten a taste of what I have been going through by myself.

I've decided not to disclose my new home address to anyone (even my parents/family) for sometime until I settle down.

I should also think about legal separation and divorce. Someone at work has offered help in dealing with legal issues (HR and other colleagues), I don't know how far it'll fly fighting for divorce.

Thanks!