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Post by ggold on Oct 13, 2016 21:37:04 GMT -5
I probably can name more.....but my memory has faded from being in a SM!!!! SEX NOW |
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Post by solodriver on Oct 14, 2016 2:07:03 GMT -5
#2 I'll take my chances!
#15 That's what I'm hoping for
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Post by Deleted on Oct 14, 2016 7:32:07 GMT -5
Now we have to prove our case in court?  I'll just get "the look"....as if "you have to kidding me..." I am not worried....I estimate my life not continuing too much longer.... old and sickly I have become..... |
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Post by wewbwb on Oct 14, 2016 8:56:30 GMT -5
#7 -
Makes You Happy
"You don’t have to overdo it -- once a week is plenty. More than that, and the effect fades."
So sex only makes you happy once a week. 
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Post by GeekGoddess on Oct 14, 2016 9:00:57 GMT -5
# 3 - May Cure Your Headache
Say goodbye to the old standby “Not tonight, Dear. I have a headache.” It turns out sex can help with pain, and that includes some kinds of headaches, such as migraines. Not feeling frisky? Try: “Not tonight, Honey. I have a highly contagious stomach bug.” Works every time.
GROSS. Why not try: I am not feeling frisky. Web MD just told refusers to LIE. Good job, Web MD - because duplicity is good for people? UGH
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Post by GeekGoddess on Oct 14, 2016 9:04:21 GMT -5
The whole tone is a bit "off" for an article whose headline says "sex is good - have it now"
Baby steps, baby steps, baby steps. A major goal for my future is to de-stigmatize loving sex.
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Post by RexCorvus on Oct 14, 2016 10:14:42 GMT -5
#13 – CANCER! I have not posted my full story yet so just for a little background: 20 years sexless marriage. Average frequency most years ~2-4 times a year. When trying to get pregnant 2 times a month when she was ovulating… CANCER! This crosses my mind a lot, especially lately. I am a testicular cancer survivor and I have often wondered if there is a link between low sexual activity and testicular cancer. I was fortunate and caught it very early. Cancer had not spread, so it was completely contained in one testicle. My cancerous testicle was removed, but I still have one remaining. (I’m just a nut, but not nuts) A month ago, overnight my remaining testicle swelled up to the size of a lemon and was very sore. I called my urologist and he found that I had an epididymis infection. You know that tube that stores and carries sperm. A round of antibiotics cleared it up. What was my wife’s first question? What caused that! I was very close to saying, “He said lack of use…” but as all that would cause is a fight that I am past having. I told her I didn’t ask and he didn’t say. It made me wonder though, what does cause this? I looked and the most common causes are STI’s. Obviously you have to be sexually active for that to happen. In men who aren't sexually active, epididymitis can be caused by a nonsexually transmitted bacterial infection. In men with urinary tract or prostate infections, bacteria might spread from the infected site to the epididymis. This lead me to research enlarged prostate and sexual activity. I found that as stated in #13, they are finding that there is a link between low sexual activity and prostate cancer: urology.jhu.edu/newsletter/prostate_cancer712.php“scientists found that men who reported more ejaculations-more than 21 a month, on average across their adult life-had two thirds the lifetime risk of prostate cancer of men who reported fewer (4 to 7) ejaculations a month. Notes Platz: "Compared with men reporting fewer ejaculations per month at all ages, men who reported 21 or ejaculations per month had one-fourth the risk of prostate cancer.” More than 21 ejaculations per month!!! I guess I could “take care of myself” as I do, but we know how much fun that is after years of ONLY that. So 21 times a month, is a stretch (pun intended). In summary not only is my sexless marriage emotionally destroying, it has a higher probability of killing me. RC |
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Post by beachguy on Oct 14, 2016 11:32:45 GMT -5
#13 – CANCER! I have not posted my full story yet so just for a little background: 20 years sexless marriage. Average frequency most years ~2-4 times a year. When trying to get pregnant 2 times a month when she was ovulating… CANCER! This crosses my mind a lot, especially lately. I am a testicular cancer survivor and I have often wondered if there is a link between low sexual activity and testicular cancer. I was fortunate and caught it very early. Cancer had not spread, so it was completely contained in one testicle. My cancerous testicle was removed, but I still have one remaining. (I’m just a nut, but not nuts) A month ago, overnight my remaining testicle swelled up to the size of a lemon and was very sore. I called my urologist and he found that I had an epididymis infection. You know that tube that stores and carries sperm. A round of antibiotics cleared it up. What was my wife’s first question? What caused that! I was very close to saying, “He said lack of use…” but as all that would cause is a fight that I am past having. I told her I didn’t ask and he didn’t say. It made me wonder though, what does cause this? I looked and the most common causes are STI’s. Obviously you have to be sexually active for that to happen. In men who aren't sexually active, epididymitis can be caused by a nonsexually transmitted bacterial infection. In men with urinary tract or prostate infections, bacteria might spread from the infected site to the epididymis. This lead me to research enlarged prostate and sexual activity. I found that as stated in #13, they are finding that there is a link between low sexual activity and prostate cancer: urology.jhu.edu/newsletter/prostate_cancer712.php“scientists found that men who reported more ejaculations-more than 21 a month, on average across their adult life-had two thirds the lifetime risk of prostate cancer of men who reported fewer (4 to 7) ejaculations a month. Notes Platz: "Compared with men reporting fewer ejaculations per month at all ages, men who reported 21 or ejaculations per month had one-fourth the risk of prostate cancer.” More than 21 ejaculations per month!!! I guess I could “take care of myself” as I do, but we know how much fun that is after years of ONLY that. So 21 times a month, is a stretch (pun intended). In summary not only is my sexless marriage emotionally destroying, it has a higher probability of killing me. RC "Most common cause is STI's..." There's a reason she asked you. Although she'll never acknowledge the idea that if she doesn't take care of you, someone eventually will... She's not totally stupid or brain dead. |
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Post by RexCorvus on Oct 14, 2016 13:07:36 GMT -5
#13 – CANCER! I have not posted my full story yet so just for a little background: 20 years sexless marriage. Average frequency most years ~2-4 times a year. When trying to get pregnant 2 times a month when she was ovulating… CANCER! This crosses my mind a lot, especially lately. I am a testicular cancer survivor and I have often wondered if there is a link between low sexual activity and testicular cancer. I was fortunate and caught it very early. Cancer had not spread, so it was completely contained in one testicle. My cancerous testicle was removed, but I still have one remaining. (I’m just a nut, but not nuts) A month ago, overnight my remaining testicle swelled up to the size of a lemon and was very sore. I called my urologist and he found that I had an epididymis infection. You know that tube that stores and carries sperm. A round of antibiotics cleared it up. What was my wife’s first question? What caused that! I was very close to saying, “He said lack of use…” but as all that would cause is a fight that I am past having. I told her I didn’t ask and he didn’t say. It made me wonder though, what does cause this? I looked and the most common causes are STI’s. Obviously you have to be sexually active for that to happen. In men who aren't sexually active, epididymitis can be caused by a nonsexually transmitted bacterial infection. In men with urinary tract or prostate infections, bacteria might spread from the infected site to the epididymis. This lead me to research enlarged prostate and sexual activity. I found that as stated in #13, they are finding that there is a link between low sexual activity and prostate cancer: urology.jhu.edu/newsletter/prostate_cancer712.php“scientists found that men who reported more ejaculations-more than 21 a month, on average across their adult life-had two thirds the lifetime risk of prostate cancer of men who reported fewer (4 to 7) ejaculations a month. Notes Platz: "Compared with men reporting fewer ejaculations per month at all ages, men who reported 21 or ejaculations per month had one-fourth the risk of prostate cancer.” More than 21 ejaculations per month!!! I guess I could “take care of myself” as I do, but we know how much fun that is after years of ONLY that. So 21 times a month, is a stretch (pun intended). In summary not only is my sexless marriage emotionally destroying, it has a higher probability of killing me. RC "Most common cause is STI's..." There's a reason she asked you. Although she'll never acknowledge the idea that if she doesn't take care of you, someone eventually will... She's not totally stupid or brain dead. |
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Post by RexCorvus on Oct 14, 2016 13:14:39 GMT -5
"Most common cause is STI's..." There's a reason she asked you. Although she'll never acknowledge the idea that if she doesn't take care of you, someone eventually will... She's not totally stupid or brain dead. Actually, during one of our "talks" she told me I "must have 5 girlfriends". No my wife is not stupid. I believe she prefers "don't ask, don't tell". She has also stated that she is afraid that one day I will say our marriage just isn't enough. For her being a good mom, raising kids, is all she wants. And she should be afraid. |
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Post by bballgirl on Oct 14, 2016 13:17:16 GMT -5
Actually, during one of our "talks" she told me I "must have 5 girlfriends". No my wife is not stupid. I believe she prefers "don't ask, don't tell". She has also stated that she is afraid that one day I will say our marriage just isn't enough. For her being a good mom, raising kids, is all she wants. And she should be afraid. Life is about choices and all behavior has consequences- good and bad. |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 14, 2016 13:19:23 GMT -5
RexCorvus, are you telling us that you are a survivor of testicular cancer - and YOU are the one who wants more sex and is being refused? Damn. Just damn. If that is the case, there is NO good excuse for guys with other health health problems.
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Post by RexCorvus on Oct 14, 2016 13:26:50 GMT -5
RexCorvus , are you telling us that you are a survivor of testicular cancer - and YOU are the one who wants more sex and is being refused? Damn. Just damn. If that is the case, there is NO good excuse for guys with other health health problems. Yes @smartkat, I am a testicular cancer survivor of over 14 years now. I still have one testicle, which provides plenty of testosterone to fuel the system. I'm just a little more streamlined and aerodynamic when excited.  |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 14, 2016 13:26:57 GMT -5
#13 – CANCER! I have not posted my full story yet so just for a little background: 20 years sexless marriage. Average frequency most years ~2-4 times a year. When trying to get pregnant 2 times a month when she was ovulating… CANCER! This crosses my mind a lot, especially lately. I am a testicular cancer survivor and I have often wondered if there is a link between low sexual activity and testicular cancer. I was fortunate and caught it very early. Cancer had not spread, so it was completely contained in one testicle. My cancerous testicle was removed, but I still have one remaining. (I’m just a nut, but not nuts) A month ago, overnight my remaining testicle swelled up to the size of a lemon and was very sore. I called my urologist and he found that I had an epididymis infection. You know that tube that stores and carries sperm. A round of antibiotics cleared it up. What was my wife’s first question? What caused that! I was very close to saying, “He said lack of use…” but as all that would cause is a fight that I am past having. I told her I didn’t ask and he didn’t say. It made me wonder though, what does cause this? I looked and the most common causes are STI’s. Obviously you have to be sexually active for that to happen. In men who aren't sexually active, epididymitis can be caused by a nonsexually transmitted bacterial infection. In men with urinary tract or prostate infections, bacteria might spread from the infected site to the epididymis. This lead me to research enlarged prostate and sexual activity. I found that as stated in #13, they are finding that there is a link between low sexual activity and prostate cancer: urology.jhu.edu/newsletter/prostate_cancer712.php“scientists found that men who reported more ejaculations-more than 21 a month, on average across their adult life-had two thirds the lifetime risk of prostate cancer of men who reported fewer (4 to 7) ejaculations a month. Notes Platz: "Compared with men reporting fewer ejaculations per month at all ages, men who reported 21 or ejaculations per month had one-fourth the risk of prostate cancer.” More than 21 ejaculations per month!!! I guess I could “take care of myself” as I do, but we know how much fun that is after years of ONLY that. So 21 times a month, is a stretch (pun intended). In summary not only is my sexless marriage emotionally destroying, it has a higher probability of killing me. RC Just to be on the safe side you should shoot for 21 times a week. |
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Post by RexCorvus on Oct 14, 2016 13:29:02 GMT -5
#13 – CANCER! I have not posted my full story yet so just for a little background: 20 years sexless marriage. Average frequency most years ~2-4 times a year. When trying to get pregnant 2 times a month when she was ovulating… CANCER! This crosses my mind a lot, especially lately. I am a testicular cancer survivor and I have often wondered if there is a link between low sexual activity and testicular cancer. I was fortunate and caught it very early. Cancer had not spread, so it was completely contained in one testicle. My cancerous testicle was removed, but I still have one remaining. (I’m just a nut, but not nuts) A month ago, overnight my remaining testicle swelled up to the size of a lemon and was very sore. I called my urologist and he found that I had an epididymis infection. You know that tube that stores and carries sperm. A round of antibiotics cleared it up. What was my wife’s first question? What caused that! I was very close to saying, “He said lack of use…” but as all that would cause is a fight that I am past having. I told her I didn’t ask and he didn’t say. It made me wonder though, what does cause this? I looked and the most common causes are STI’s. Obviously you have to be sexually active for that to happen. In men who aren't sexually active, epididymitis can be caused by a nonsexually transmitted bacterial infection. In men with urinary tract or prostate infections, bacteria might spread from the infected site to the epididymis. This lead me to research enlarged prostate and sexual activity. I found that as stated in #13, they are finding that there is a link between low sexual activity and prostate cancer: urology.jhu.edu/newsletter/prostate_cancer712.php“scientists found that men who reported more ejaculations-more than 21 a month, on average across their adult life-had two thirds the lifetime risk of prostate cancer of men who reported fewer (4 to 7) ejaculations a month. Notes Platz: "Compared with men reporting fewer ejaculations per month at all ages, men who reported 21 or ejaculations per month had one-fourth the risk of prostate cancer.” More than 21 ejaculations per month!!! I guess I could “take care of myself” as I do, but we know how much fun that is after years of ONLY that. So 21 times a month, is a stretch (pun intended). In summary not only is my sexless marriage emotionally destroying, it has a higher probability of killing me. RC Just to be on the safe side you should shoot for 21 times a week. Going to need to buy Vaseline at Costco! LOL |
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