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Post by RexCorvus on Oct 16, 2016 10:44:29 GMT -5
RexCorvus Wow! Your story. I'm so glad to hear that you are a TC survivor. Thank God! Lack of sex and cancer. This was interesting to me. So not only are our minds being fucked with in a SM, but our bodies as well!! I've had various physical ailments throughout my 23 years of marriage that, looking back, probably had to do with anxiety over the lack of sex and intimacy happening in my life. (among other things) You are funny with you are a "nut but not nuts." That made me laugh! AND THIS: "you want to know what is really F'd up? I had 2 more kids after having TC in a sexless marriage! I have A LOT of resentment about this entire situation" NO WAY!!!!! Living in a SM, having TC, and still having kids!!! Are you a magician?  (LOL..trying to make you smile!!) " and I'm sorry for stealing the thread... this is therapy"---I began the thread.....steal away!!!! This IS therapy!!! Welcome to our community!!!!!! You can see, we are a great group of mostly sexually starved people. :-) G , thank you for the warm welcome and providing the outlet for my therapy! The best part of TC is using it to make people laugh, being able to say testicle any time and to see people get a bit uncomfortable when I do! I use the "nut, not nuts" line a lot. LOL! Funny you ask if I'm a magician. I'm a bit of a geek and fix my co-workers technical issues all the time. There they call me The Wizard. LOL |
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Post by RexCorvus on Oct 16, 2016 10:50:53 GMT -5
RexCorvus Welcome to our community!!!!!! You can see, we are a great group of mostly sexually starved people. :-) Can you imagine getting a dozen of us in the same room for a night of drinks and laughs? The exponential effects of the combined sexual energy might reverse the Earth's rotation! and ggold, There actually was a ILIASM trip once long ago. Several of the members on EP planned a trip and met somewhere in TX if I remember correctly. DryCreek , may remember. At that time I was all about "fixing" my SLM... today, I'd help plan. LOL |
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Post by RexCorvus on Oct 16, 2016 11:03:28 GMT -5
RexCorvus - This bit of your post leapt out at me - "Well my wife tracked her ovulation cycles. She kept charts in her night stand where every morning she would record her temperature, her cervical fluid consistency, if she had any breast tenderness, her spotting/periods... so she knew exactly when she was ovulating. When she was she would offer sex"- It reads like when she wants something off you - say kids - she is motivated, methodical, diligent and determined. - But if you want something off her, you can go fuck yourself. Is this THE BAZ? How are you and Mrs. Enna? baza, yes you are correct, when it come to sex, but only when it comes to sex. Anything else and she is more than accommodating. She is a good person, she isn't evil. She is a great mother to my children, a good friend, but has become a prude about sexual matters. To her sex is nothing but a chore and a reminder of her failure as a wife and woman. I also believe there is pain associated with the Lichen Sclerosus and other issues Lupus has caused her. |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 16, 2016 21:49:39 GMT -5
Can you imagine getting a dozen of us in the same room for a night of drinks and laughs? The exponential effects of the combined sexual energy might reverse the Earth's rotation! and ggold, There actually was a ILIASM trip once long ago. Several of the members on EP planned a trip and met somewhere in TX if I remember correctly. DryCreek , may remember. At that time I was all about "fixing" my SLM... today, I'd help plan. LOL I think there have been a few ILIASM get togethers over the years. There was one in 2013 if I am not mistaken. That might have been the TX meetup. I was too shell shocked to go anywhere near EP in 2014. When I first joined in early 2012 they had just had one. |
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Post by baza on Oct 16, 2016 23:07:25 GMT -5
That one was hosted by Vegas and Penelope. 2012 sounds about right. Among the attenders was MaryRyan, WarriorPoett and a fair few more, probably about 20 people.
Ms enna and I attended by telephone for a couple of hours.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 17, 2016 10:53:48 GMT -5
In January 2014, some of us met up in DC. Including SleeplessKnight and Unjusted!
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Post by ggold on Oct 18, 2016 18:40:46 GMT -5
How I would love to meet up with folks from here!!!
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Post by brian on Oct 18, 2016 21:11:34 GMT -5
How I would love to meet up with folks from here!!! Me too! But getting my housemate to agree to let me go to a "meetup with my ILIASM support group" just won't fly.  |
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Post by ggold on Oct 18, 2016 21:51:18 GMT -5
How I would love to meet up with folks from here!!! Me too! But getting my housemate to agree to let me go to a "meetup with my ILIASM support group" just won't fly. Can't we say we are going to a concert with friends?? Lol!! |
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Post by brian on Oct 18, 2016 21:55:01 GMT -5
Me too! But getting my housemate to agree to let me go to a "meetup with my ILIASM support group" just won't fly. Can't we say we are going to a concert with friends?? Lol!! Which concert? Which friends? When will you be back? Where are you staying? Why can't I come? Why aren't you saving your vacation time for "the family"? The list of questions would be limitless... and I dislike lying, so I would simply say that I am going to spend time with people from my sexless marriage online support group. And then WW III would start. LOL |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 18, 2016 21:57:46 GMT -5
Can't we say we are going to a concert with friends?? Lol!! Which concert? Which friends? When will you be back? Where are you staying? Why can't I come? Why aren't you saving your vacation time for "the family"? The list of questions would be limitless... and I dislike lying, so I would simply say that I am going to spend time with people from my sexless marriage online support group. And then WW III would start. LOL When I went to spend a week with my AP, I just told my wife I was going somewhere and I wasn't telling her where. I had my phone if she needed me. |
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Post by greatcoastal on Oct 18, 2016 21:59:29 GMT -5
Me too! But getting my housemate to agree to let me go to a "meetup with my ILIASM support group" just won't fly. Can't we say we are going to a concert with friends?? Lol!! There would be some beautiful music making, going on! And dancing (the horizontal bop!) Banging the drums. Blowing the horns. Strumming the strings. Tickling the ivories. |
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Post by ggold on Oct 18, 2016 22:37:08 GMT -5
Can't we say we are going to a concert with friends?? Lol!! There would be some beautiful music making, going on! And dancing (the horizontal bop!) Banging the drums. Blowing the horns. Strumming the strings. Tickling the ivories. For sure!!! ha!! |
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Post by Dan on Oct 19, 2016 7:43:19 GMT -5
There would be some beautiful music making, going on! Banging the drums. Blowing the horns. Strumming the strings. Tickling the ivories. Such a smutty mind you have. Or -- wait -- is that my mind that's smutty? |
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(LOL..trying to make you smile!!)
