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Post by solodriver on Oct 7, 2016 23:47:59 GMT -5
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Sex on a birthday? We don't even have sex on our anniversary! We've never had sex on my birthday, our anniversary or Valentines Day. Very, very sad. |
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Post by solodriver on Oct 7, 2016 23:48:49 GMT -5
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Sex on a birthday? We don't even have sex on our anniversary! We've never had sex on my birthday, our anniversary or Valentines Day. Very, very sad. And big thank you for the Happy Birthday wish 
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Post by beachguy on Oct 8, 2016 0:42:43 GMT -5
Birthday sex? Could someone explain that to me?
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Post by deleted on Oct 8, 2016 16:49:26 GMT -5
When I am asked by the wife what I want for my birthday, I tell her I want to get laid. She usually laughs it off. When the event arrives, I treat my birthday like any other day. I just go to bed.
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Post by lwoetin on Oct 10, 2016 13:31:37 GMT -5
Birthday sex? Could someone explain that to me? It's almost as frequent as unbirthday sex. |
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Post by tamara68 on Oct 11, 2016 8:19:56 GMT -5
I am so glad that now I have left my stbx, I don't have to have a birthday with him around anymore. It was usually just an extra sad day. Nothing that comes close to a celebration. No gifts, no kisses or anything. Just a reminder of an other year wasted.
My next birthday will be different.
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Post by greatcoastal on Oct 14, 2016 12:43:21 GMT -5
Today is my birthday. I read this morning about a friend who passed away. The funeral is today. I met my friend through church 12 yrs ago, I took care of her daughter in the one year olds. She was our favorite child. Her and her husband own a large thrift store in town. I have done business with them for years. They have three young daughters.
I would rather go to a funeral and give thanks for someone who was friendly and respectful to me, than be anywhere near my manipulative controlling STBX on my birthday.
Hopefully I can find someone to treat to dinner and maybe a movie.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 14, 2016 13:29:50 GMT -5
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Post by bballgirl on Oct 14, 2016 13:33:36 GMT -5
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Post by JonDoe on Oct 14, 2016 16:00:43 GMT -5
Last year H forgot my bday! This year he's my ex! I did have sex for the first time on Leap Day! That seems like a very appropriate day for sex
Everyday seems like an appropriate day for sex! |
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Post by becca on Oct 14, 2016 16:13:58 GMT -5
Happy birthday greatcoastal and belated Happy birthday to solodriver (sorry was dealing with a little storm then!) My H threw a huge surprise party for me on my 40th. Friends and family came in from all over the country. I just remember thinking, "Oh, I am definitely having sex tonight" We actually did have sex somewhere around that birthday but not that night. He acted offended I asked. Hadn't he done enough for me? It was a day or two after when we actually had sex and that was the very last time. For so long I honestly thought it was me. I wasn't pretty enough, thin enough, good enough, patient enough, engaged enough, driven enough. Now I just think, "Enough!" Ditto JonDoe Every day is a good day for sex! |
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Post by JonDoe on Oct 14, 2016 16:15:27 GMT -5
I think for my next birthday, I'm going to ask for sex. This will be a big improvement over the coffee mug I got this year. 😒 I got a lucite salt & pepper shaker for XMAS one year. It was on sale for $9.99 on Amazon. I just checked the current price is $16.99. That same year I bought her a new iPhone and lots of other stuff. My kids looked at me and said, "Dad, are you sad that you only got a salt shaker for XMAS? You don't even use salt." I said "No, the smiles on your faces is more than enough to make me happy for another year!" The next year I got a suitcase. She has a birthday coming up. Can't decide what to get her. Would being served divorce papers be too much? 😂 |
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Post by JonDoe on Oct 14, 2016 16:42:21 GMT -5
During one of our many unproductive talks about intimacy, I mentioned to my wife that birthdays, anniversaries, Valentine's Day, Christmas Eve and Christmas Day, as well as long weekends and vacations were a perfect time to say "I Love You" through intimacy AND other acts of kindness. I thought I was truly stating the obvious, but since many of these "sentimental days" passed us by every year without any intimacy, I felt compelled to finally make my feelings known. Well, my legal roommate of 25 years was actually floored, or at least she pretended to be. She said I get "Anniversaries and Valentine's Day, but birthdays and Christmas? Do you expect to get laid on Easter too? You expect to get off on the holiest day of the year? That's selfish and sick!" Who ever said anything about Easter, not that there is anything wrong with that. SMH 😭
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Post by Deleted on Oct 14, 2016 17:07:21 GMT -5
I think for my next birthday, I'm going to ask for sex. This will be a big improvement over the coffee mug I got this year. 😒 I got a lucite salt & pepper shaker for XMAS one year. It was on sale for $9.99 on Amazon. I just checked the current price is $16.99. That same year I bought her a new iPhone and lots of other stuff. My kids looked at me and said, "Dad, are you sad that you only got a salt shaker for XMAS?" I said "No, the smiles on your faces is more than enough to make me happy for another year!" The next year I got a suitcase. She has a birthday coming up. Can't decide what to get her. Would being served divorce papers be too much? 😂 Perhaps she would enjoy a nice coffee mug. 😒 |
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Post by JonDoe on Oct 14, 2016 17:16:26 GMT -5
I got a lucite salt & pepper shaker for XMAS one year. It was on sale for $9.99 on Amazon. I just checked the current price is $16.99. That same year I bought her a new iPhone and lots of other stuff. My kids looked at me and said, "Dad, are you sad that you only got a salt shaker for XMAS?" I said "No, the smiles on your faces is more than enough to make me happy for another year!" The next year I got a suitcase. She has a birthday coming up. Can't decide what to get her. Would being served divorce papers be too much? 😂 Perhaps she would enjoy a nice coffee mug. 😒 Yeah, maybe I should wrap one of the coffee mugs she already has, and maybe a pair of earrings from her jewelry box! Damn, I wished I though ahead and saved the birthday card from last year too! Nothing says " I don't love you" like recycled gifts! 😜 |
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