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Post by saarinista on Mar 21, 2018 0:56:07 GMT -5
OMG merrygoround - were we married to the same guy? WTF? tirefire it was pretty clear he didn't like passionate me. I'm a passionate person. Although I have a science and economics background and think myself fairly logical in many ways, I'm passionate in bed and out. I think he did like passionate me out of bed though. It is my understanding that most men DO want a passionate and responsive partner. I do sometimes feel guilty when I bliss out and can't move but my current partner and former AP have both assured me it was ok in those circumstances. (Hope it is!) ETA h I can't believe you lived with your then fiancee and didn't have sex. I want to congratulate you for your restraint and castigate you for your lack of awareness - though not too much I'm sure you've beat yourself up plenty in hindsight and we should forgive ourselves for not seeing red flags when young. I would NOT have been able to wait. It took everything I had in me to wait ONE NIGHT with my current partner. The naive ignorance of my beliefs was very strong back then. "If I wait until marriage, everything will be great and I will be rewarded..." I was an idiot. Nah, h--just brainwashed! :-)
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Post by tirefire on Mar 21, 2018 4:46:08 GMT -5
OMG merrygoround - were we married to the same guy? WTF? tirefire it was pretty clear he didn't like passionate me. I'm a passionate person. Although I have a science and economics background and think myself fairly logical in many ways, I'm passionate in bed and out. I think he did like passionate me out of bed though. It is my understanding that most men DO want a passionate and responsive partner. I do sometimes feel guilty when I bliss out and can't move but my current partner and former AP have both assured me it was ok in those circumstances. (Hope it is!) elkclan2, I'm sure your partners enjoy getting you to a blissful state. 😊 That's one of the goals! It doesn't sound the same as asking your partner to just lay there. Hope I didn't make you self conscious next time you achieve bliss. 😊
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