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Post by timeforliving2 on Jul 23, 2016 17:25:18 GMT -5
ggold just posted a meme she was going to print out / keep front and center as a motivational reminder. That got me wondering if anyone posted a thread on motivational memes yet. I didn't see a thread established yet for that idea. So, I guess I'll start one. Here's a meme that I think starts with step #1 of dealing with a SM. TL2 
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Post by misssunnybunny on Jul 23, 2016 22:09:57 GMT -5
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Post by baza on Jul 24, 2016 0:20:00 GMT -5
I like these sort of uplifting statements.
But the unfortunate fact seems to be that it is the negative motivation an ILIASM shithole produces that is the trigger to get out - rather than the positive motivation of hope for a better future life.
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I'd like to find a meme that would put the fear of God into a refused spouse about the consequences of staying.
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Post by timeforliving2 on Jul 24, 2016 14:48:53 GMT -5
I like these sort of uplifting statements. But the unfortunate fact seems to be that it is the negative motivation an ILIASM shithole produces that is the trigger to get out - rather than the positive motivation of hope for a better future life. - I'd like to find a meme that would put the fear of God into a refused spouse about the consequences of staying. Hmm... Baz, if I see a meme that anywhere resembles that idea I'll be sure to post. The original meme I posted above... is kind of the "nice version" of what I was feeling when I stepped up to the plate and started shaking things up with my marriage. I told myself I wasn't going to take this s*** any longer. So the nicer phrased version: "I am not going to stay where I am..." Some version of that thought is the first step of either changing the fundamentals of your relationship or getting out of the relationship. TL2 |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 24, 2016 18:13:00 GMT -5
I like these sort of uplifting statements. But the unfortunate fact seems to be that it is the negative motivation an ILIASM shithole produces that is the trigger to get out - rather than the positive motivation of hope for a better future life. - I'd like to find a meme that would put the fear of God into a refused spouse about the consequences of staying. Hmm... Baz, if I see a meme that anywhere resembles that idea I'll be sure to post. The original meme I posted above... is kind of the "nice version" of what I was feeling when I stepped up to the plate and started shaking things up with my marriage. I told myself I wasn't going to take this s*** any longer. So the nicer phrased version: "I am not going to stay where I am..." Some version of that thought is the first step of either changing the fundamentals of your relationship or getting out of the relationship. TL2 |
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Post by unmatched on Jul 24, 2016 18:13:31 GMT -5
How about these:  or  or maybe  Just another sunny Monday morning ... |
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Post by ggold on Jul 24, 2016 18:26:04 GMT -5
ggold just posted a meme she was going to print out / keep front and center as a motivational reminder. That got me wondering if anyone posted a thread on motivational memes yet. I didn't see a thread established yet for that idea. So, I guess I'll start one. Here's a meme that I think starts with step #1 of dealing with a SM. TL2 Thanks for starting this thread!! I'm all about trying to be motivated..it sure as hell is not easy!!! :-) |
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Post by timeforliving2 on Jul 24, 2016 22:01:39 GMT -5
Ggold... No problem... starting a separate thread like his just made sense. I've collected a lot of positive memes over the last few years, and I know that they have helped me to either change my thinking or to stay focused on better thoughts or truths.
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Post by timeforliving2 on Jul 24, 2016 22:15:45 GMT -5
Here's another meme on "change"... similar to a few others above but with a little different spin too. TL2  |
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Post by ggold on Jul 25, 2016 20:32:56 GMT -5
Here's one!! I was encouraged by @phinheasgage to keep on my phone so I can always be reminded. :-)  |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 25, 2016 21:44:21 GMT -5
I like these sort of uplifting statements. But the unfortunate fact seems to be that it is the negative motivation an ILIASM shithole produces that is the trigger to get out - rather than the positive motivation of hope for a better future life. - I'd like to find a meme that would put the fear of God into a refused spouse about the consequences of staying.  |
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Post by ggold on Jul 25, 2016 21:53:05 GMT -5
Truth @phinheasgage!!
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Post by baza on Jul 25, 2016 21:59:37 GMT -5
Thanks Brother phin.
It certainly speaks to me !!
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Post by unmatched on Jul 25, 2016 23:20:24 GMT -5
I like these sort of uplifting statements. But the unfortunate fact seems to be that it is the negative motivation an ILIASM shithole produces that is the trigger to get out - rather than the positive motivation of hope for a better future life. - I'd like to find a meme that would put the fear of God into a refused spouse about the consequences of staying. Could we not make it 'Don't die broken and bitter'  |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 26, 2016 8:44:05 GMT -5
I like these sort of uplifting statements. But the unfortunate fact seems to be that it is the negative motivation an ILIASM shithole produces that is the trigger to get out - rather than the positive motivation of hope for a better future life. - I'd like to find a meme that would put the fear of God into a refused spouse about the consequences of staying. I have probably already made my decision...get busy living, or get busy dying.... Looks like it's the latter... |
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