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Post by wewbwb on Aug 21, 2016 5:20:33 GMT -5
Sounds like I need a pet.
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Post by solodriver on Mar 15, 2017 22:02:33 GMT -5
My partner sleeps as close to me as possible, gives me lots of kisses, lots of attention, follows me everywhere. May partner is also loyal, excited to see me and is dedicated to me always. My partner is not the one I am married to…. The partner I speak of is my little dog. For the last 15 years there has been no sex at all. None. Before we got to this point, there had been signs, many signs leading up to this. Sex has always been gross, a dirty little deed that is required to bare children and we only had one child. To kiss with an open mouth is gross. Oral sex is gross. The only position she would ever consider was missionary, and even then she would ask if I thought it was going to rain that day in middle of trying to do something. I always felt so bad after we did do something because I knew that she didn't want to. I felt so guilty, that I apologized repeatedly to her. I felt like I had raped her, though she was my wife. Sex has always been a horrible struggle from the very beginning. I finally had enough, and stopped asking for sex, that's when the sex stopped all together. Before marriage, she said she was saving it until after marriage. She is still saving it, I guess now until after the funeral. I have come to accept it and I know it will never change. I gave up trying to change it long ago. If I had any advice to give to the young people out there.... I would say beware of anyone who says that they want to wait until after marriage to have sex... It's a trap! I love my cats. The way they reach a paw up and tap me on the arm to get my attention always makes me smile. How can you resist such a request? I have one cat that sits next to me on the couch and puts his paws on my arm and purrs. I have another that pats my head when I'm sleeping. Makes me smile! |
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Post by leifericson on Mar 17, 2017 22:19:19 GMT -5
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Post by lostheart on Mar 18, 2017 6:12:38 GMT -5
My partner sleeps as close to me as possible, gives me lots of kisses, lots of attention, follows me everywhere. May partner is also loyal, excited to see me and is dedicated to me always. My partner is not the one I am married to…. The partner I speak of is my little dog. For the last 15 years there has been no sex at all. None. Before we got to this point, there had been signs, many signs leading up to this. Sex has always been gross, a dirty little deed that is required to bare children and we only had one child. To kiss with an open mouth is gross. Oral sex is gross. The only position she would ever consider was missionary, and even then she would ask if I thought it was going to rain that day in middle of trying to do something. I always felt so bad after we did do something because I knew that she didn't want to. I felt so guilty, that I apologized repeatedly to her. I felt like I had raped her, though she was my wife. Sex has always been a horrible struggle from the very beginning. I finally had enough, and stopped asking for sex, that's when the sex stopped all together. Before marriage, she said she was saving it until after marriage. She is still saving it, I guess now until after the funeral. I have come to accept it and I know it will never change. I gave up trying to change it long ago. If I had any advice to give to the young people out there.... I would say beware of anyone who says that they want to wait until after marriage to have sex... It's a trap! When you mentioned your wife talking about the weather in the "middle" of it - it just brought back a memory of mine of the first years of my marriage. When we still had sex sometimes my H sometimes and all of a sudden started to break out into laughters - sometimes also when we started to kiss more intimately. I asked him what it was about and he replied that it was about joke X or Z ... wow such an off turn... |
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Post by RumRunner on Mar 18, 2017 19:53:53 GMT -5
My partner sleeps as close to me as possible, gives me lots of kisses, lots of attention, follows me everywhere. May partner is also loyal, excited to see me and is dedicated to me always. My partner is not the one I am married to…. The partner I speak of is my little dog. For the last 15 years there has been no sex at all. None. Before we got to this point, there had been signs, many signs leading up to this. Sex has always been gross, a dirty little deed that is required to bare children and we only had one child. To kiss with an open mouth is gross. Oral sex is gross. The only position she would ever consider was missionary, and even then she would ask if I thought it was going to rain that day in middle of trying to do something. I always felt so bad after we did do something because I knew that she didn't want to. I felt so guilty, that I apologized repeatedly to her. I felt like I had raped her, though she was my wife. Sex has always been a horrible struggle from the very beginning. I finally had enough, and stopped asking for sex, that's when the sex stopped all together. Before marriage, she said she was saving it until after marriage. She is still saving it, I guess now until after the funeral. I have come to accept it and I know it will never change. I gave up trying to change it long ago. If I had any advice to give to the young people out there.... I would say beware of anyone who says that they want to wait until after marriage to have sex... It's a trap! When you mentioned your wife talking about the weather in the "middle" of it - it just brought back a memory of mine of the first years of my marriage. When we still had sex sometimes my H sometimes and all of a sudden started to break out into laughters - sometimes also when we started to kiss more intimately. I asked him what it was about and he replied that it was about joke X or Z ... wow such an off turn... Yes, that is a very big turn off! I think that one beats the wife asking about the weather. I know that didn't make you feel good.... Save |
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Post by lostheart on Mar 20, 2017 8:42:13 GMT -5
When you mentioned your wife talking about the weather in the "middle" of it - it just brought back a memory of mine of the first years of my marriage. When we still had sex sometimes my H sometimes and all of a sudden started to break out into laughters - sometimes also when we started to kiss more intimately. I asked him what it was about and he replied that it was about joke X or Z ... wow such an off turn... Yes, that is a very big turn off! I think that one beats the wife asking about the weather. I know that didn't make you feel good.... SaveYeah, no nice memories for us ... but I think it's a good thing to keep conscious about the alarm signals that were there in the past already |
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Post by nancyb on Mar 20, 2017 9:31:46 GMT -5
Sounds like I need a pet. Meow.  |
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