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Post by JMX on Jul 9, 2016 22:27:21 GMT -5
Yeah. Call me old-fashioned. I live in Alabama, sooooo...
I expect my husband/lover to take me when he wants it. Hell, that is a dream my poor heart aches for that has never comes to fruition. Because... He has not wanted it like that, until recently.
She does not want it like that. Sad.
In my opinion, that would be part of a healthy marriage. Do I want to be raped? Nah. But I don't call that rape. I call that taking what you need, from the one that should want to give it to you.
I believed when we got married that we "became one". His needs are my needs and vice-versa.
And, no, this is not because I do not value myself. Someone suggested that on EP a while back. That's not it.
Your story seriously pisses me off.
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Post by DryCreek on Jul 9, 2016 23:17:34 GMT -5
JMX, your guy is luckier than he will probably ever realize.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 11, 2016 7:23:19 GMT -5
Yeah. Call me old-fashioned. I live in Alabama, sooooo... I expect my husband/lover to take me when he wants it. Hell, that is a dream my poor heart aches for that has never comes to fruition. Because... He has not wanted it like that, until recently. She does not want it like that. Sad. In my opinion, that would be part of a healthy marriage. Do I want to be raped? Nah. But I don't call that rape. I call that taking what you need, from the one that should want to give it to you. I believed when we got married that we "became one". His needs are my needs and vice-versa. And, no, this is not because I do not value myself. Someone suggested that on EP a while back. That's not it. Your story seriously pisses me off. Woah ! That's some deep theology there girl.
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Post by tinymouse on Jul 12, 2016 7:50:37 GMT -5
Tell her to get off of babycenter. The marriage board stupid broads there basically teach then there that you touching her without express permission every time is wrong and to call police.
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Post by tinymouse on Jul 12, 2016 9:46:58 GMT -5
Why do you care what people say? If that's the true cause, she is unlikely to tell anyone. Let's turn the tables. Would you tell people that you divorced her because she stroked your erect male member while you slept? But that is not what she will say. She will tell people that they divorced because he violated her. I dunno, taking the high road hurt me in my divorce
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Post by Deleted on Jul 12, 2016 22:57:39 GMT -5
Haven't read the replies yet, but what? Press charges? Ha! Doubtful. My husband did this to me many times - I hated it, but only b/c he wouldn't have "awake" sex with me. So, there's that. But charges? I don't think so. You're married for chrissake!
So, just don't do it again. But, ya know, I wouldn't worry a bit about those charges. And yeah, I'd be formulating my exit plan. PDQ
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