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Post by Rhapsodee on Jun 26, 2016 23:03:37 GMT -5
Your husband is a TEXTBOOK passive aggressive. I mean, when you look it up in the dictionary, his photo is there. I've talked many times here how mine was too. In fact, it was Chai07, an old member of the EP board, who posted about PA and that single post was the thing that freed me from my marriage. I read three books on it, red countless articles, and talked to two shrinks. Long story short, they never, and probably can't, change. Clinically their behavior is called "crazy making." Because it is!!!!! I have posted this elsewhere, but use one of your devices and download this book ASAP. I read it in about 40 minutes and it explained EVERYTHING about my ex and our marriage: www.amazon.com/Living-Passive-Aggressive-Man-Aggression-Boardroom/dp/0671870742. Not every refuser is PA, but plenty are. Yours definitely is!! Reading the book is interesting. I know his passive aggressive behavior is because he cannot control me. He tells me his opinion about something, I listen and acknowledge it but do what I want to do anyway. But how much fun would I be if I were a doormat? |
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Post by petrushka on Jun 27, 2016 0:48:21 GMT -5
Being a doormat is no fun at all, at all !
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Post by nyartgal on Jun 27, 2016 6:30:18 GMT -5
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Post by angryspartan on Jun 28, 2016 17:56:28 GMT -5
I hate to say it, but he views you as a child and he will decide what is best for you. I'm stating the obvious here, but he's not making mistakes, or screwing up due to not listening to you. He's doing this because he has 0 respect for you. You're not an equal to him.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 28, 2016 23:12:28 GMT -5
It's so true Rhapsodee!! Time to dust off those Texas-sized shitkickers and shake things up, girl!! You've got this!! |
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