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Post by tinymouse on Jun 16, 2016 16:19:08 GMT -5
I hope it's ok for me to post this here. I have got out of my SM, bit thr scars are still there. Today was a slow day at work and I was reading the baby forum. One particular board... it really makes me shake my head. I think they unable and encourage refusers. Today, this is the post that makes me so mad. Although some valid points were made, there is still a bit issue. And They really can't see what I see, and what OP truly is experiencing. A neglected refused woman. So all these women just go on attack. Making things worse for her. Making her believe that as refused, she is in the wrong community.babycenter.com/post/a63086965/any-other-couple-fight-over-sex?cpg=1 |
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Post by Casiyessie on Jun 16, 2016 17:00:46 GMT -5
Unfortunantly If she has anxiety and other mental issues she needs to get proper help for it. If she's seeing a therapist and they suggested intamacy then yes I agree with you these woman could have gone about it differently and asked for more information instead of throwing stones at her. It makes me think this woman has some self esteem issues if she thinks intamacy will help cure this. I speak from experience not to be mean. In the end women need to empower each other not finish destroying her. Btw yes her husband sounds like a total ass!!!
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So mad
Jun 16, 2016 17:27:32 GMT -5
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Post by tinymouse on Jun 16, 2016 17:27:32 GMT -5
I do agree on that. She needs a good therapist and she can't use him as medicine. But the thing is, from what she wrote he is denying her any intimacy. Hugs, kisses, sex. Even when she asks for it, when she tells him how much she needs it. I think I this case her mental issues are a red herring and he actually makes them worse
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Post by Casiyessie on Jun 16, 2016 18:25:35 GMT -5
I know what that's like and now that I'm being offered the sex part without intimacy it's just as bad if not worse because it fucks with your mind. I agree he is only adding to it instead of helping her. Send her our way! Always room for more in this group lol.
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Post by Dan on Jun 16, 2016 22:26:06 GMT -5
I hope it's ok for me to post this here. I have got out of my SM, bit thr scars are still there. Today was a slow day at work and I was reading the baby forum. One particular board... it really makes me shake my head. I think they unable and encourage refusers. Today, this is the post that makes me so mad. Although some valid points were made, there is still a bit issue. And They really can't see what I see, and what OP truly is experiencing. A neglected refused woman. So all these women just go on attack. Making things worse for her. Making her believe that as refused, she is in the wrong community.babycenter.com/post/a63086965/any-other-couple-fight-over-sex?cpg=1I joined the site just to PM her. (BTW, I had to log SOMETHING for when I'm expecting. So I'm now expecting a child in January 2017. Don't tell my wife, she'll be pissed. Or: pleased that it is apparently me pregnant, not her. Anywho...) I said something to the effect of "if you are not getting the support you need here, consider checking ILIASM Forum at iliasm.org, where we have a support forum for marital sexlessness." We'll see if she checks us out. UPDATE: I decided to make a public post on that thread: community.babycenter.com/post/a63086965/any-other-couple-fight-over-sex?cpg=-1#c2533957230 |
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Post by tinymouse on Jun 17, 2016 9:51:16 GMT -5
I saw your post. I thought it was perfect and within 2 sentences knew it was from someone on here. Of course you got attacked for what you said. These women truly are crazy. Btw, congratulations on your baby. Give your addy so I can sell you to science please  |
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Post by DryCreek on Jun 17, 2016 11:14:31 GMT -5
Just wow. I'm with Dan. The venom on that forum is crazy. Right off the bat they throw her under the bus without even trying to understand more about her situation.
Of course, the first problem is she's trying to discuss mental health and sexual needs amongst a group of people who want to talk about babies. And the wording of her post was probably too blunt for their tastes.
Dan - I think it would have been funny if you'd posted an expectancy date far more than 9 months out. ;-)
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So mad
Jun 17, 2016 11:33:40 GMT -5
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Post by tinymouse on Jun 17, 2016 11:33:40 GMT -5
Dan, did you delete the post? It's gone
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Jun 17, 2016 11:41:00 GMT -5
Post by wewbwb on Jun 17, 2016 11:41:00 GMT -5
Just wow. I'm with Dan. The venom on that forum is crazy. Right off the bat they throw her under the bus without even trying to understand more about her situation. Of course, the first problem is she's trying to discuss mental health and sexual needs amongst a group of people who want to talk about babies. And the wording of her post was probably too blunt for their tastes. Dan - I think it would have been funny if you'd posted an expectancy date far more than 9 months out. ;-) I am surprised at the level of attack that she faced. She received ZERO support. Glad I"m not pregnant. Yet.  |
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Post by wewbwb on Jun 17, 2016 11:41:41 GMT -5
Dan, did you delete the post? It's gone Maybe it was too supportive and didn't meet board standards. |
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Post by tinymouse on Jun 17, 2016 11:53:22 GMT -5
Apparently telling her to Google our forum was against the rules and that's why it was removed. Dammit. It was a great post
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So mad
Jun 17, 2016 12:30:02 GMT -5
Post by Dan on Jun 17, 2016 12:30:02 GMT -5
Dan, did you delete the post? It's gone I concur: it is gone. Nope: I didn't delete it. I just checked my account: no message or warnings from the mods; just gone. I guess the views of a supportive, level-headed MAN are not welcome there! I'm going to check to see if I can find a copy of my post in my browser cache; if anyone happens to have the a browser window still open with a copy of my post, please copy and paste the text of my post and PM it to me. Thanks! |
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Post by Dan on Jun 17, 2016 12:30:51 GMT -5
Apparently telling her to Google our forum was against the rules and that's why it was removed. Dammit. It was a great post It wasn't even a link to our site... just instructions how to find our site! WOW.... just wow. |
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Post by greatcoastal on Jun 17, 2016 12:44:29 GMT -5
I read about four pages . ( excuse me as I throw up) what a bunch of vile bitches! Imagine what kind of mothers they are going to be!
I hope the dating pool in't full of such sharks!
Where do sharks come from?
Answer: Finland!
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Post by Dan on Jun 17, 2016 13:38:31 GMT -5
I decided to press my point on the thread, AND PM the mods asking which term in the guidelines I violated.
All the ladies there think I'm REALLY stirring the shit. Sigh.
All I want is for the OP to know we are here. Other than than, I think I've had my blood-pressure raised enough for one day!
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UPDATE: OK, I batted a few more balls back (posted a few retorts). Now I have them picking on me instead of the OP! Well, if nothing else, that is my good deed for the day!
If you want to see the bile spewed at the OP, start from the beginning of the thread. If you want to see the bile spewed at me, start from page 11.
If you want to chill out an enjoy an early start to your weekend, pour yourself a cocktail and DO NOT READ ANY of that thread!
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