Post by mirrororchid on Mar 15, 2023 4:26:32 GMT -5
Having a rough time remembering what everyone's deal is?
Me too.
Every so often I'm about to ask a question that I suspect has already been answered. This would be the place to keep and find details.
If you see your name, I won't mind filling is a blank. "Mood, for example. I'm not putting words in mouths there)
If you don't mind someone else updating your record, say so and folks can comment and rat you out.
Any deets you'd like removed? Done! Location will start very generally, to avoid "outing" anyone
Thanks to everyone who's provided background!
Me too.
Every so often I'm about to ask a question that I suspect has already been answered. This would be the place to keep and find details.
If you see your name, I won't mind filling is a blank. "Mood, for example. I'm not putting words in mouths there)
If you don't mind someone else updating your record, say so and folks can comment and rat you out.
Any deets you'd like removed? Done! Location will start very generally, to avoid "outing" anyone
Member | Marital Status | SM Status | Disposition/Mood | Summary | Location (volunteered) | |||
mirrororchid | Married | In Remission | Content | Married 26 years, 2015(?)-2019 sexless, followed by current 3+ year reset. In Remission - 12/2019 | US, Washington DC | |||
Shamwow | Escaped | Partnered to BallOfConfusion | ||||||
BallOfConfusion | Escaped | Partnered to Shamwow | ||||||
Apocrypha | Escaped | |||||||
SweetPlumeria | ||||||||
heelots | Married | Sexless | "... mentally began thinking of my wife as a roommate and nothing more ...Sleeping separately ...won't cheat on her nor leave ..." | |||||
angeleyes65 | Married | Escaped | "I escaped my marriage in 2017, 34 years married, 12 years totally sexless. Now I'm in a live in relationship with a man who is also out of a sexless marriage." | US, St. Louis | ||||
IronHamster | ||||||||
northstarmom | Partnered | Escaped | "Escaped after being married 34 years, the last 8 of which were completely sexless. Now have been 10 years with a wonderful partner who loves sex and loves me the way I want to be loved. I didn't find the precursor to ILIASM until a week after my divorce." | |||||
AngelWanderer | Australia | |||||||
GreatCoastal | On the hunt | Escaped | ||||||
Handy | n/a | Departed | R.I.P. | Married until passing away. | ||||
misssunnybunny | Partnered | Happy😁 | "Escaped 10 years ago from marriage that was sexless for 16 years. Currently in a relationship." | US, Boston | ||||
worksforme2 | On the hunt | Escaped | Escaped about 7-8 yrs ago Married for 5yrs. Sexless -3yrs. Sort of in between partners at the moment | |||||
petrushka | Married | Sexless | "...Married 23 years, 20 of them sexless. The relationship is very affectionately platonic. Not going to repeat the entirely history. 14 years ago I called her on the passive aggressive hell my life had become, and she mended her ways. Definitely did. When your significant other comes in the door after a day away and their face lights up when they see you, it's clear that there is some "I want you" involved"... | Whangarei, New Zealand. | ||||
lanie | Married | In Remission | In remission - 01/2022 - iliasm.org/thread/5986/staying | |||||
deadzone75 | ||||||||
njsojourner | ||||||||
TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo | ||||||||
jim44444 | ||||||||
holdfast | Married | Sexless | iliasm.org/post/145126/thread: Married 33 years, 8 sexless. | |||||
catlover | Married | Sexless | "...Wife is very ill, but devoid of any physical affection. When called on it she denies it...accused of "always being controlling", and "everything has to be YOUR way".... | Canada, Hagersville, Ontario | ||||
muzack | Married | Sexless | Reasonably Happy | "Married 22 years. sexless for most. Wife is working on her anxiety, body image, and control issues that are the primary cause of the senselessness. | Central Virginia, USA | |||
Jerri | ||||||||
h | Married | Sexless | Hopeful | Still married for at least (but probably not much more than) another year. Married almost 15 years. Clinically sexless since day one. Current disposition is "hopeful" considering that I see a light at the end of the tunnel where before there was no light. | Upstate NY, US | |||
blunder8 | Married | In Remission | SM in remission - 01/2023 | |||||
dallasgia | Married | Sexless | Desperate | Married 26 yrs - but fighting to escape Completely sexless 4 yrs Basically sexless for over a decade. | Texas, US | |||
warmways | Dating | Escaped | Happy | Married 18 years, all sexless. Escaped in 2019. Began dating in 2021 after having to recover | Maine, US |
Thanks to everyone who's provided background!