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Post by wewbwb on Apr 12, 2016 9:42:17 GMT -5
My start will be no video games or any other hobbies that take up too much time. I would like someone with hobbies that are in the least a little more "active". But I want to be someone's hobby  ? That's a good start. I would think you should be able to find LOTS of decent guys -- especially where you live -- with healthy hobbies the two of you can share! Heck, I get all tingly just thinking about them!! Fishing, Hunting, Dirt Biking, Camping, Hiking, Cycling, Dogs (part of hunting). I'd better stop before I get you all excited!! Too late.  |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 12, 2016 9:48:16 GMT -5
That's a good start. I would think you should be able to find LOTS of decent guys -- especially where you live -- with healthy hobbies the two of you can share! Heck, I get all tingly just thinking about them!! Fishing, Hunting, Dirt Biking, Camping, Hiking, Cycling, Dogs (part of hunting). I'd better stop before I get you all excited!! Too late. HA!! I think this list should scare most women away like a big can of "Cabellas Woman Repellent"! And it's probably why I wouldn't consider re-marriage. |
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Post by wewbwb on Apr 12, 2016 9:53:43 GMT -5
Well I know plenty of couples who can enjoy their hobbies and still have sex.
They don't HAVE to be separate things. Or things that "exclude" the partner.
A woman may not like going hunting but can enjoy a cabin in the woods while you do. A woman may not like fishing but can enjoy being on the boat.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 12, 2016 10:00:03 GMT -5
I'd prefer her to get all gussied up in her sexy little gilly suit skirt, spray doe piss all over herself and go bow hunting with me. We can get busy in the dirt after we finish field dressing the elk.
Excuse me. I have something I have to take care of. Shouldn't take long.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 12, 2016 10:04:20 GMT -5
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Post by JMX on Apr 12, 2016 10:27:20 GMT -5
Ha! I would rather just wait it out in the cabin for the manly man to come home, dragging some carcass behind him and then, feeling all manly about it, ravage me - even throw me against a wall or two.
The good news is - I can cook said carcass and I like smelly manly men. I would require a cabin with a tub and comfy flannel pajamas that are easy to take off.
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Post by wewbwb on Apr 12, 2016 10:45:39 GMT -5
Ha! I would rather just wait it out in the cabin for the manly man to come home, dragging some carcass behind him and then, feeling all manly about it, ravage me - even throw me against a wall or two. The good news is - I can cook said carcass and I like smelly manly men. I would require a cabin with a tub and comfy flannel pajamas that are easy to take off. See? That's what I'm talking about. |
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Post by wewbwb on Apr 12, 2016 10:50:15 GMT -5
Wall sex. AWESOME!
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Post by JMX on Apr 12, 2016 11:05:34 GMT -5
Wall sex is why I need to get back to size 4. Working on flexibility and splits too. I need my old cheerleading body back! |
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Post by wewbwb on Apr 12, 2016 11:12:19 GMT -5
Wall sex is why I need to get back to size 4. Working on flexibility and splits too. I need my old cheerleading body back! No. Not a size 4 - a size 8. Flexible yes. Flexible is great, but you can be a flexible size 8. |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 12, 2016 11:34:29 GMT -5
Lots of talk on here today about meeting others! That's great! Another biggie for me is children. I will always be a father of six. Someone has to accept that baggage, even when they are grown soon. Their is still college, moving, weddings, babies, etc... A big fear/decision for me will be finding a woman who has her own children. As much as I think, " I'm not going through that again" or, " not more of it!" .the truth is I would probably melt like butter, and run to the call of " fatherhood" again! Then the back burner would start all over again! Lord, guide my sword! One thing you would need to do - if you want to keep this hypothetical woman - is to pledge some time and space to her that your children would never be allowed to intrude upon [unless they were literally dying.] If you want to keep a good, healthy, romantic and sexual relationship with another adult, you MUST set aside time when you belong ONLY to them. Having been dumped to the bottom of other people's priority lists for most of my life, I can't stress this enough. If any person does this to me more than twice - he and I had plans, but then Snottums or Brattina or Grandpa or the boss or the neighbor down the street decided THEY wanted attention - and nobody is on their deathbed - that tells me that I mean nothing to him. Any plans he makes with me? I can't trust him to keep them; somebody who's more important to him than I am just might get a paper cut or something. So, if you find this woman - don't ditch plans with her, in favor of somebody else, too often. If she has any self-respect, she'll walk. Or - she'll find somebody else to give her the attention that you took away. |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 12, 2016 11:37:22 GMT -5
Well, sure. I'd rather have a man who *wasn't* already married. I'm not stupid or crazy. Who wants to deal with the hassles? I guess I'm a realist, though. By the time people are our age, most of the ones who are in any way attractive are already married. So, if nobody single turns up within a reasonable period of time, yes, I would be willing to consider being a married man's girlfriend. I would consider it stealing from the rich and giving to the poor. What about a younger man? How much younger are we talking about? I'm no cougar; I like men, not boys. I could go maybe 5 years younger. Besides, don't most men want young, fertile 20-somethings and 30-somethings? |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 12, 2016 11:40:01 GMT -5
I am sure blending families is not fun in the beginning. I always wanted more kids and just can't afford them. I also feel I may be called to adopt older children in the distant future - so they have families to come home to on holidays and guidance. It breaks my heart that some have simply aged out of the system. Anyway - I think the biggest challenge of blended families would be the custody sharing bit. Schedules aligning, etc. do you ever get alone time? This is why I would tend to go for men whose kids are already grown up. Or, if they were still younger - a man who had joint custody - and who MADE his ex take the kids when it was her turn! |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 12, 2016 11:41:58 GMT -5
The conversations would be fun at least. "So what's a nice guy like you doing in a place like this?" "Um, burying my wife." "So what's you're rebound time like?" or the best: "Come here often?" Lol! "Come here often?" If the answer is "yes" I may have to reconsider - surely they don't all die of natural causes! Did you ever see the old Hitchcock movie "Strangers On A Train"? Maybe you and some man who is staying stuck with a frigid bitch ought to trade murders. |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 12, 2016 11:46:20 GMT -5
JMX, your curiosity regarding why a guy you've been dating got divorced is a very healthy one. I recommend you ask him. Then, I'd ask him if he minds if you contact his EX. And contact her and take her out for drinks. You're a sharp woman. You'll know the deal pretty quickly. I'm betting I can spot a refused or a total dud from a mile away. My start will be no video games or any other hobbies that take up too much time. I would like someone with hobbies that are in the least a little more "active". But I want to be someone's hobby ? I want to be high on my man's priority list. I understand that most men have jobs, kids, and parents. But I'm still feeling sensitive and angry about being ditched Every. Single. Time. for something or somebody else. My refuser made me feel like the least important person in the world. I'm still hurting over this. He just didn't think I was worth making the effort and spending some time. I'm still not really over that yet. |
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