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Post by ggold on Jun 5, 2016 11:48:29 GMT -5
Without going into details, shit hit the fan here. I had "the TALK" with H and now the tension is sky high. I will be okay, but it's going to be a messy ride.
I believe in positive energy, so if you can, send some my way!
xo
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Post by warmways on Jun 5, 2016 12:02:11 GMT -5
(((Lots of positive vibes your way))) ggold .. even if things feel unsettled at least you had the courage to act. What really helps me is to read anything (quotes, etc.) by Melody Beattie to remind you to stay true to yourself and keep your boundaries amidst chaos.
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Post by eternaloptimism on Jun 5, 2016 12:09:38 GMT -5
Without going into details, shit hit the fan here. I had "the TALK" with H and now the tension is sky high. I will be okay, but it's going to be a messy ride. I believe in positive energy, so if you can, send some my way! xo Sending now  Can you fling some back this way? This is a house of silence today. You could cut this shit with a knife! X |
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Post by ggold on Jun 5, 2016 12:09:40 GMT -5
(((Lots of positive vibes your way))) ggold .. even if things feel unsettled at least you had the courage to act. What really helps me is to read anything (quotes, etc.) by Melody Beattie to remind you to stay true to yourself and keep your boundaries amidst chaos. Thank you so much!! Looked her up and will read. Need all of the inspiration I can get. Xoxo |
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Post by worksforme2 on Jun 5, 2016 12:10:02 GMT -5
There are a # of "talks" when one is in a S/M. My talks all consisted of attempts to address the lack of intimacy, how unhappy I was, the repercussions for the marriage, and why she kept putting our future at the bottom of the priorities list. But I think the "Talk" you are referring to must be the declaration of divorce. Reaching that point and making it known is definitely draining. So I'm definitely pointing all the positive vibes I keep handy in your direction. Good luck...
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Post by ggold on Jun 5, 2016 12:10:29 GMT -5
Without going into details, shit hit the fan here. I had "the TALK" with H and now the tension is sky high. I will be okay, but it's going to be a messy ride. I believe in positive energy, so if you can, send some my way! xo Sending now Can you fling some back this way? This is a house of silence today. You could cut this shit with a knife! X Thank you and sending it right back at you! Lord this all sucks. |
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Post by bballgirl on Jun 5, 2016 12:10:43 GMT -5
Sending positive energy, strength and positive thoughts your way.
Be strong, communicate, be honest, true and authentic to yourself and the way you feel.
Big hug honey!
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Post by eternaloptimism on Jun 5, 2016 12:13:19 GMT -5
Sending now Can you fling some back this way? This is a house of silence today. You could cut this shit with a knife! X Thank you and sending it right back at you! Lord this all sucks. It bloody does doesn't it. I'm sure half my problem is that I have no balls. It's clear there is only one way this relationship is going. Yet still I don't act. How did you build yourself up to it? Xx |
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Post by Deleted on Jun 5, 2016 12:19:17 GMT -5
Without going into details, shit hit the fan here. I had "the TALK" with H and now the tension is sky high. I will be okay, but it's going to be a messy ride. I believe in positive energy, so if you can, send some my way! xo Positive vibes sent!! (I believe in energy too.) Hold on tight. You'll get through this. And be stronger and happier for it! |
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Post by Chatter Fox on Jun 5, 2016 12:27:13 GMT -5
Positive vibes sent. You got this!!!
A congratulations is in order if you ask me. Way to go!!! What you just did took a TON of courage!!! It's inspirational!!!
Don't allow anyone to let you falter in holding your ground. We all know what it's like to be in a SM. So if anyone tries to manipulate you in any way to try to keep you from getting what you deserve, count on us to remind you of what you know to be true in your heart.
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Post by skguy on Jun 5, 2016 12:37:31 GMT -5
Without going into details, shit hit the fan here. I had "the TALK" with H and now the tension is sky high. I will be okay, but it's going to be a messy ride. I believe in positive energy, so if you can, send some my way! xo Sending positive thoughts your way You're a brave and strong woman Hugs |
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Post by misssunnybunny on Jun 5, 2016 13:12:35 GMT -5
Sending positivity your way. Stay strong and on course; you will get through this and to the next step. ❤️
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Post by unmatched on Jun 5, 2016 14:08:29 GMT -5
Good luck!!! The tension is uncomfortable but it is only the truth of how things are. If you can stay with it change will come. It may or may not look the way you expect, but you know something will change. And at this point that can only be a good thing. Hugs and best wishes to you!
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Post by thefullmoon on Jun 5, 2016 14:19:11 GMT -5
All will get better! Hugs!
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Post by ggold on Jun 5, 2016 16:04:33 GMT -5
Thank you and sending it right back at you! Lord this all sucks. It bloody does doesn't it. I'm sure half my problem is that I have no balls. It's clear there is only one way this relationship is going. Yet still I don't act. How did you build yourself up to it? Xx Will pm you! Xo |
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