I don't know that we have interacted much, but I have very much enjoyed reading your posts, wisdom, and overall positive outlook on everything. You have blessed me with your words, and I know that many others would share that sentiment. Godspeed, my friend.
“Their lives were ruined, he thought; ruined by the fundamental error of their matrimonial union: that of having based a permanent contract on a temporary feeling.”
Handy - thank you for posting an update for us. I have been worried about you and am saddened at your prognosis. But I'm comforted that you are coming to terms with the finality of your condition- it can't be easy to count the days you have left. I am also impressed that you are using this time to make sure your loved ones are cared for. I hope you are being well taken care of in return. I agree, you've done enough to lessen the burden for others; let them figure out what to do with your accumulated stuff. In the time you have left, do the things that give you joy and spend time with your loved one. They will miss you when you are gone. I will miss you too.
We've been blessed by your inputs into this group Brother Handy.
Your interests in a wide array of subjects and your quirky sense of humour have enlivened these pages.
And the best bit is that you have been brave enough to let us know what's going on and that the time is coming when all we'll have is your memory. And they are going to be good memories Brother, treasured memories. You've touched more people than you know.
I hope this is not our last interaction, but if it is, thank you for your friendship.
And again, thanks for the opportunity to tell you how we value you now, rather than in your absence later.
You are a quality person Handy . You always will be.
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njsojourner: My advice to those Suffering: screw it! Literally. Everyone deserves a fulfilling sexual life. Get it however you can. Life is short. I have no illusions —when I get caught my wife will have to decide what’s most important to her. I am not stopping!
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mirrororchid: I mention a few online chat rooms a few posts up, desertfather. Meetup.com provides real live people to chat with. Given your ILIASM situation, a lot of folks locate a therapist. (helpful for touchy subjects you can't go over with friends for over a year.
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