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Post by Handy on Jan 13, 2021 17:45:52 GMT -5
Isthis it
but don’t forget the smart ladies welcome being objectified by the right person now and again.
Other than this and a few other forums, I don't meet women that outwardly or even hint about wanting to be objectified. WAIT, I do get spam that read "do anything to me, I like it all." I suppose those spam e-mailers just want my money and might actually be some guy from Nigeria.
"Every now and again" is a key phrase. Maybe I am thinking with a SM damaged brain and think being a little forward and acting/talking sexy will get me put on the "friends list" or "avoid list," right away.
Other than her book smart mind. miss 4 yr old in 1936 has qualities that would make her acceptable for some activities.
The other thing is she a "cougar" and could I be a "cub?" We would also be a "Mutt and Jeff" pair. She is petite and I am a big guy. She said she had a motorcycle so maybe she would be open to some local bike rides.
I need to get my Covid-19 vaccinations before I do anything. I called today and was told my classification group will get the next batch of vaccine maybe by next Wed(the 20th) or Friday.
Isthisit, do you know of any women that want a pen-pal (wink) ?
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Post by isthisit on Jan 13, 2021 18:10:01 GMT -5
Isthis it
but don’t forget the smart ladies welcome being objectified by the right person now and again.Other than this and a few other forums, I don't meet women that outwardly or even hint about wanting to be objectified. WAIT, I do get spam that read "do anything to me, I like it all." I suppose those spam e-mailers just want my money and might actually be some guy from Nigeria. "Every now and again" is a key phrase. Maybe I am thinking with a SM damaged brain and think being a little forward and acting/talking sexy will get me put on the "friends list" or "avoid list," right away. Other than her book smart mind. miss 4 yr old in 1936 has qualities that would make her acceptable for some activities. The other thing is she a "cougar" and could I be a "cub?" We would also be a "Mutt and Jeff" pair. She is petite and I am a big guy. She said she had a motorcycle so maybe she would be open to some local bike rides. I need to get my Covid-19 vaccinations before I do anything. I called today and was told my classification group will get the next batch of vaccine maybe by next Wed(the 20th) or Friday. Isthisit, do you know of any women that want a pen-pal (wink) ? Ah now there’s the rub. I would never leave any outward signs that a little objectification would be welcome. It’s just not cricket is it? But, would I? Sure! So you might be meeting them all the time. That wedding ring won’t be doing your chances any favours though. I do not want some creep staring, making crass comments or pathetic innuendo. But, a look that lasts a little longer than usual, or a wistful smile, absolutely. I’m not sure about the relevance of the petite lady/big guy thing. So what? Good to hear your vaccine is imminent. Pen pal for you? I will put my thinking cap on. |
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Post by Handy on Jan 13, 2021 18:30:40 GMT -5
Mutt & Jeff refers to a size difference mostly referring to people. One guy is tall and the other guy is short. The Mutt & Jeff thing is some older US phraseology for you. I am listing one of our old sayings. The UK has "push the boat out" (To spend generously. To spend more than one is normally accustomed to doing, often to mark a special occasion) so I am giving you one of ours. Mutt& Jeff was also an old comic strip in news papers. Maybe I am showing my age. The comic strip ended about 1983.
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Post by lwoetin on Jan 14, 2021 1:25:53 GMT -5
I am sure the lady appreciates your company. It's amazing how you can find the magazine from 1936. After you get vaccinated, maybe you can ask ms 4yr old in 1936 if she is interested in being friends with benefits. You can gain a lot of knowledge from an avid book reader...and she rides a motorcycle.
I am happy that you are cancer-free now. Have fun!
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Post by petrushka on Jan 14, 2021 3:17:18 GMT -5
Wait, what? Somebody is pregnant?
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Post by jerri on Jan 14, 2021 4:13:26 GMT -5
Hahahaha 😂
It's because I wanted to bump his post back up after I posted on other posts. I'm going to bump more up because of the goofy spam poker gambling posts! It's a really important post and it keeps on getting buried. Love you guys! 💙 I hope we are all well in 2021
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Post by Handy on Jan 14, 2021 13:14:44 GMT -5
lwoetin, she "used to" own and ride a motorcycle. I found the 1936 magazine on eBay. I got very lucky and the price was right. I took the magazine to a friend that has a copier that turns images into PDF format files and puts the images on a USB stick. I gave Ms Hot Wheels the magazine and the USB stick. She has a niece that will eventually inherit the devices.
The photographer was Margaret Bourke-White. Margaret is among the foremost photographers of the 20th century, who captured modern industry, the Great Depression, World War II and the concentration camps, and political and social movements from the 1920s to the 1950s.
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Post by Handy on Jun 16, 2021 15:33:25 GMT -5
I am sad to say "It's back."
I had a CT scan, a PET scan and some surgery to check how much of the signet ring cell cancer has returned. According to the PET scan the cancer was only in one spot but during surgery other spots appeared so the surgery was converted to bypassing the effected large intestine area and now my treatment is going to be a once every 3 weeks 30 minuet infusion of Katruda or Pembrolizumab, the generic name of the drug. It is classified as a "biologic."
Some cells are supposed to die when replaced but they don't and those cells form a tumor. There is a process called PD-L1 (programmed death) and that is how Pembrolizumab works in consert with T cells. Some tumors respond to Pembrolizumab better than regular chemo so I am hoping I fit into that group.
I didn't know until I had cancer that the body is supposed to detect mall formed cells and repair or get rid of those mall formed cells. The Pembrolizumab is mainly boosting the body's ability to mark the tumor cells so the T cells can do their job.
During my Chemo treatments I was on an experimental "biologic" and it seemed to work so there is a good chance the Pembrolizumab will work. Some people are on Pembrolizumab for two or more years as a maintenance therapeutic.
I am home from the hospital surgery and doing well. I start the Pembrolizumab tomorrow.
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Post by isthisit on Jun 16, 2021 16:23:49 GMT -5
I am very sorry to hear that it is back. Cancer is a pain in the arse.
I am sorry that you have to return to the unpleasantness of the treatment to fight it, but have confidence in your resilience to come back out on top once again. 😊
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Post by Handy on Jun 16, 2021 18:16:15 GMT -5
I thought of this song when I got the news that the cancer has returned. When I got the news I was upset but like a line in the song I had a "broken feather." Chiquitita ABBA (with lyrics)
So it is try once more like I did before.
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Post by sadkat on Jun 16, 2021 20:42:41 GMT -5
Handy- I’m sorry it’s back. Treatment sounds promising, though. It’s wonderful that so much progress is being made with cancer treatments. Hopefully, one day they’ll come up with a cure. Hang in there!
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Post by baza on Jun 17, 2021 0:31:11 GMT -5
You are one hell of a resilient man Brother Handy . And that (as well as your understated sense of humour) will get you through this. |
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Post by Handy on Jun 17, 2021 0:34:24 GMT -5
I intend to seek treatments that have promising results regardless of some of the side effects. I have some very good doctors working on my case which helps me stay positive most of the time.
Sadkat, thanks for the support and yes there has been a lot of progress being made in the cancer areas.
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Post by Handy on Jun 17, 2021 0:40:29 GMT -5
Baza, the bypass surgery resulted in gut burn, butt burn, gut pain and a sizable headache for a week, but those symptoms are almost gone.
I am doing much better and like the song said, the sun is still shining. My medical team is very supportive and have given me excellent service this past several weeks.
I have a couple of special friends that made the tough times quite a bit brighter.
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Post by worksforme2 on Jun 17, 2021 9:22:29 GMT -5
This is a tuff nut but I am confident that you have the inner strength to fight your way through. Never give up, never surrender....
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