Shamwow The other kind of sexless marriage is far more common. It's two people that start off with something good. Over time, though, the relationship dies the death of a thousand cuts. When that happens the sex dries up since most people want someone they desire rather than a grudge fuck.
Money issues (the economy) more kids and health issues gradually killed our sex life
Post by angeleyes65 on Jan 1, 2021 11:39:54 GMT -5
I resented that I had to break my vows, and sneak around to get what should have been part of my marriage. I am not saying it's his fault I cheated. I know I had choices. But at the time that was the best choice and that's how I felt at the time. It was not just sex missing but the attention and everything else that comes with being in a loving relationship. What was left I could have had with a lazy room mate. That's why after awhile my other relationship didn't make my marriage easier to swallow. I didn't want to sneak around. I wanted to enjoy public things which we did to a certain extent but looking over our shoulder. I didn't want to be in separate houses during holiday breaks or when the ball dropped. Now I have everything and nether of us take it for granted. And we are both from similar sexless marriage situations. Started out good. But eventually ended up sexless. Mine because or porn and narcissism and his I think was basically a bait and switch and she didn't care what he wanted she got what she wanted. And denied it was sexless, or that they were just roommates he said he felt like an employee . Maybe she was a milder form of narcissism. Everything is still his fault she takes credit for nothing. Probably why his daughter barely speaks to him.
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