Post by McRoomMate on Jul 28, 2017 8:38:47 GMT -5
So as many of you know, I am in a new relationship for about 3 months now.
My girlfriend has a jealous side to her. At first I thought it was cute but then she starts to get this crazy look in her eye and accuse me of cheating on her and so on.
Her jealously erupts in a rage on average about once a week. I find myself sleeping in my car at least one night a week so far.
Since we have been together for 3 months or so - she has so far literally SPIT in my face and thrown things and warned that she can be very violent if I "f--k with her mind" and said it was possible for her to "kill me" and "to ask her mother".
No one ever spit in my face before except a camel once in my whole freaking life.
She also has told me stories where she threw her old boyfriend across the room in a rage when she was mad at him and he crashed into the wall and she thought he might have been dead.
She also explained how she nearly scalped another lady in a street fight.
Last night for the first time she hit me in the face - it was not a big punch but she hit me with a paper folder and then when I tried to leave she took the keys from me and locked the door so I was trapped.
She was in a jealous rage again because I had spent too much time out with my children and then at the office arriving late around 11pm.
I told her to keep her distance and did not put my back on her and got some things and left.
She said we were finished and she was leaving and that she was no longer mad at me.
This happened last night.
Now the next day - she is begging for me to foregive her and that we need to be a happy couple in love. I told her it was over and she needed to leave and go back with her family and I even offered her some money to help her out as she is unemployed.
So any insights / help / advice.
My girlfriend has a jealous side to her. At first I thought it was cute but then she starts to get this crazy look in her eye and accuse me of cheating on her and so on.
Her jealously erupts in a rage on average about once a week. I find myself sleeping in my car at least one night a week so far.
Since we have been together for 3 months or so - she has so far literally SPIT in my face and thrown things and warned that she can be very violent if I "f--k with her mind" and said it was possible for her to "kill me" and "to ask her mother".
No one ever spit in my face before except a camel once in my whole freaking life.
She also has told me stories where she threw her old boyfriend across the room in a rage when she was mad at him and he crashed into the wall and she thought he might have been dead.
She also explained how she nearly scalped another lady in a street fight.
Last night for the first time she hit me in the face - it was not a big punch but she hit me with a paper folder and then when I tried to leave she took the keys from me and locked the door so I was trapped.
She was in a jealous rage again because I had spent too much time out with my children and then at the office arriving late around 11pm.
I told her to keep her distance and did not put my back on her and got some things and left.
She said we were finished and she was leaving and that she was no longer mad at me.
This happened last night.
Now the next day - she is begging for me to foregive her and that we need to be a happy couple in love. I told her it was over and she needed to leave and go back with her family and I even offered her some money to help her out as she is unemployed.
So any insights / help / advice.
