Divorce and Celibacy

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mypaintbrushes
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Divorce and Celibacy Feb 19, 2019 21:50:50 GMT -5 via Tapatalk jim44444 and shamwow like this

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Post by mypaintbrushes on Feb 19, 2019 21:50:50 GMT -5

Feb 19, 2019 21:41:11 GMT -5 worksforme2 said:

mypaintbrushes…..If I'm reading correctly you are still domiciled in the same house, just not in the same bedroom. I remember you being pretty attractive so it isn't surprising that you are being ask out pretty regular. From your description of the last couple weeks it reads almost like you are speed dating. That doesn't generally allow for time to really get to know the other person or the kind of foundation most women and probably most men want before beginning an intimate relationship.

Not looking for one right now so it’s all good.

STBX will be moved out soon as well.

rudra
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Escapee from 12-year sexless marriage. In a "real" marriage for another 12 years now.

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Divorce and Celibacy Mar 5, 2019 10:59:46 GMT -5 jim44444, greatcoastal, and 2 more like this

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Post by rudra on Mar 5, 2019 10:59:46 GMT -5

Feb 2, 2019 18:25:43 GMT -5 @elle said:

I know this is an old thread. But it strikes me funny because “divorce and celibacy”? How is that worse than “marriage and celibacy”? At least with the former, celibacy is the expectation. With marriage? I thought I’d signed on for a lifetime of guaranteed SEX!! Talk about a disappointment. I’ll happily take “divorce and celibacy” over “marriage and celibacy” any day.

YES! I shouted a number of times that I signed a marriage license. I did not sign up to join a convent. Our wedding vows did not contain the phrase, "poverty, chastity, and obedience" either.

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