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Post by thistooshallpass on May 22, 2017 23:29:01 GMT -5
A love scene plays out on the silver screen.-- Lovers touching, tasting, smelling, feeling. Deep inside a whisper becomes a scream. "That's what it's like to be a sexual being!!" You sit there besides me with heavy lids.-- Head bobbing forward on a broken spring, While passionate lovers impatiently strip, Down to the core of very sensual things. I sit there besides you with a heavy heart.-- Head throbbing upwards with a steady beat, While ardent actors play their steamy parts.-- Camera angles positioned to raise the heat. Deep inside a small voice becomes a yell. "This must be what it's like to live in HELL!!"
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Post by hopingforachange on May 23, 2017 7:51:36 GMT -5
I hate those scenes. I usually try to cuddle up to the W afterwords and all I get is the waving hands trying to blow me away. So I have stopped, sometimes I walk or if the room or what anoys her is when I fast forward they the scene.
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Post by merrygoround on May 23, 2017 8:17:48 GMT -5
Love/sex scenes in a programme or film had the ability to bring me to tears, or leave the room.
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Post by nolongerlonely on May 23, 2017 10:08:22 GMT -5
ditto to the above. Especially hard to share moments of true love or sadness in films, bring me to tears as no-one to share them with. Or they make me think of me. Eg, Castaway (coming home and finding Helen Hunt has married the dentist, and then again when he meets Bettina at the end), Forrest Gump when Forrest finds Jenny at the peace rally, then when she dies, and bizarrely, in along came Polly when they stab the cushions. Not to mention The curious case of Benjamin Button, as he misses the love of his life so many times, that one, at the cinema, had me in bits. Basically, I'm a cinematic wreck. The steamy sex scenes, not so much so, I just think , 'lucky sods'
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Post by thistooshallpass on May 23, 2017 10:47:52 GMT -5
I hate those scenes. I usually try to cuddle up to the W afterwords and all I get is the waving hands trying to blow me away. So I have stopped, sometimes I walk or if the room or what anoys her is when I fast forward they the scene. I used to fast forward when a scene like that would come up. But then I decided to just let it roll. Let her see (when she's awake) what it is that I'm missing. Not that she really cares. Watching those scenes are an experience of both pain and pleasure for me. But I'm being deprived of so much else. So why deprive myself of more? If scenes like that make her feel uncomfortable, I have no way of telling. When she happens to be awake, she'll look at the screen like she's watching a weather forecast.
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Post by thistooshallpass on May 23, 2017 10:58:54 GMT -5
Love/sex scenes in a programme or film had the ability to bring me to tears, or leave the room. Merrygoround, I can totally relate to what you've expressed. I'm a mess of emotions (on the inside) when I happen to come across a love/sex scene. One of those emotions is anger. I get angry knowing that my life is going by and I'm missing out on one of the most amazing experiences a human being can have.
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Post by thistooshallpass on May 23, 2017 11:31:49 GMT -5
ditto to the above. Especially hard to share moments of true love or sadness in films, bring me to tears as no-one to share them with. Or they make me think of me. Eg, Castaway (coming home and finding Helen Hunt has married the dentist, and then again when he meets Bettina at the end), Forrest Gump when Forrest finds Jenny at the peace rally, then when she dies, and bizarrely, in along came Polly when they stab the cushions. Not to mention The curious case of Benjamin Button, as he misses the love of his life so many times, that one, at the cinema, had me in bits. Basically, I'm a cinematic wreck. The steamy sex scenes, not so much so, I just think , 'lucky sods' And the list of heart wrenching emotional scenes go on and on and on, to remind us of what we're missing. There is a character, Data (one of my favorites), from the Star Trek series (yes, I'm a trekkie), "Next Generation" that kept an "emotion chip" inside a small container. For some reason, which at the moment I cannot recall, his creator never inserted it into his neural network. One day, out of curiosity - didn't know AIs could be curious - he inserted it. Well, he was eventually overwhelmed by the electronic emotional circuitry that it almost fried his AI brain. He simply could not (at that moment) handle human emotions. Too late. The emotion chip had fused in place and there was no way of removing it without destroying him. Well ... all of this to say that I sometimes fantasize about having one of those chips that I could remove whenever I didn't want to experience so many sexless marriage emotions. But then I realize that all of these emotions are what make me uniquely human. Just go ask Data. ;-) Anyway, lonely, here is a funny scene that turned out to not be such a laughing matter for Data and Geordi. Hope you like Sci-Fi. :-)
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Post by nolongerlonely on May 23, 2017 11:47:12 GMT -5
thanks, thistooshallpass ,yes I get that completely, and I have those angry to sad feelings too, like a pendulum of emotions. Thanks for sharing Data's scene, yes I'm good with sci-fi. The first film I went to see on my own with a nice young lady (we were both 14) was Close Encounters of the Third Kind. That can bring me to tears too, because I probably received more affection in the two hours I had with that young lady (we held hands) than I have in years. Never mind. With the help of all you guys and girls on here, I feel I am on the road to recovery. (or hell, as the case maybe, lol)
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Post by shamwow on May 23, 2017 13:05:39 GMT -5
A love scene plays out on the silver screen.-- Lovers touching, tasting, smelling, feeling. Deep inside a whisper becomes a scream. "That's what it's like to be a sexual being!!"You sit there besides me with heavy lids.-- Head bobbing forward on a broken spring, While passionate lovers impatiently strip, Down to the core of very sensual things. I sit there besides you with a heavy heart.-- Head throbbing upwards with a steady beat, While ardent actors play their steamy parts.-- Camera angles positioned to raise the heat. Deep inside a small voice becomes a yell. "This must be what it's like to live in HELL!!"TTSP Sounds a little bit like porn
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Post by dinnaken on May 23, 2017 13:20:29 GMT -5
I find formulaic love/sex scenes irritating but I really struggle with well acted sincere scenes and often just turn my head away.
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Post by thistooshallpass on May 23, 2017 14:53:18 GMT -5
A love scene plays out on the silver screen.-- Lovers touching, tasting, smelling, feeling. Deep inside a whisper becomes a scream. "That's what it's like to be a sexual being!!"You sit there besides me with heavy lids.-- Head bobbing forward on a broken spring, While passionate lovers impatiently strip, Down to the core of very sensual things. I sit there besides you with a heavy heart.-- Head throbbing upwards with a steady beat, While ardent actors play their steamy parts.-- Camera angles positioned to raise the heat. Deep inside a small voice becomes a yell. "This must be what it's like to live in HELL!!"TTSP Sounds a little bit like porn Cable TV soft porn. It's so ubiquitous these days.
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Post by shamwow on May 23, 2017 15:02:05 GMT -5
Sounds a little bit like porn Cable TV soft porn. It's so ubiquitous these days. I'm a huge fan of ubiquitous-style in the Kama Sutra!
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Post by darktippedrose on May 23, 2017 16:53:51 GMT -5
yeah, I make sure not to watch those around Mr. Grumpy. years ago, the smallest conversation about sex, the smallest scene made me all needy. but now its like a big slap in the face. ughhhh
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Post by thistooshallpass on May 23, 2017 17:54:57 GMT -5
yeah, I make sure not to watch those around Mr. Grumpy. years ago, the smallest conversation about sex, the smallest scene made me all needy. but now its like a big slap in the face. ughhhh It's so sad; even tragic, when something so natural and so beautiful can make you feel so awful inside. That's when you know that something is terribly wrong. I'm sorry it's that way for you, darktippedrose. No one should ever have to feel that way about those things.
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Post by deborahmanning on May 23, 2017 21:44:09 GMT -5
Did you just toss off a sonnet like it's NBD? If so, where do you live, I want to go to there.
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