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Post by Deleted on May 27, 2017 23:38:28 GMT -5
short answer: I stay because I am a fucking idiot.
Longer one: we have been together for 26 years. She is like my right arm, part of me. We know each other and have a life together that is reasonable. It is the reasonable and comfortable part that I stay for. Financial security is a big part too. Could I find a compatible woman? would it be better then what I have now. I answer that question NO. If I answered it yes, I would be divorced. You can only answer yes or no. Stay or go, there is no half way... I stay until one of us dies.
But, ignore all that. The real reason is that I dont want an X wife. People have all sorts of trouble with their Xs. They have way more trouble with their X then they ever had when they were their spouse. I am so afraid of having an X.
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Post by baza on May 28, 2017 0:30:01 GMT -5
It is interesting reading this thread in conjunction with the thread "The Most Comprehensive Excuses Known to Man / Women" which deals with bullshit excuses refuser spouses make.
It would appear that refuser spouses claims are held to be "excuses" rather than "reasons". It would appear however, that staying spouses call their rationale for staying as "reasons" rather than "excuses".
Refusers refuse because that is what they choose to do, however they may rationalise their choice. Stayers stay because that's what they choose to do, however they may rationalise their choice.
"Excuses" or "Reasons". There ain't that much difference.
They are both "choices".
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