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Post by Rhapsodee on Apr 28, 2017 11:04:04 GMT -5
I started many conversations from calm to tearful to angry.
We all have to do it.
We all have to try.
We all know it will not change anything.
Its simply clearing out the garbage so you can get to the door.
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Post by Apocrypha on Apr 28, 2017 11:57:21 GMT -5
She wouldn't be able to hide behind whatever round about way of saying what she feels anymore Don't count on it. 3 years out of a separation, Mrs Apocrypha has been balancing two steady boyfriends since before she moved out. During the latter day "open relationship" phase our our last ditch Relationship 2.0 effort, also had two boyfriends plus a husband and participated in scenarios that were fit for Penthouse Letters. And STILL, she clings to the notion that she isn't into sex all that much and that she's a victim in our relationship of my insistence on having a sexual relationship. She depends on the narrative because it is important to the way she sees herself, though it is wildly contradicted by the evidence presented. You'd be shocked by the number of fallback positions and delusions people can hide in. Don't pin your exit strategy from this madness on her moment of clarity. She's going to do what she's going to do. If you couldn't get it together when you were supposedly partners, it's not likely to happen in the epilogue, and your happiness won't be improved by that. |
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