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Post by rejected101 on Feb 21, 2017 3:47:02 GMT -5
Is there a forum for people who are the polar opposite to those on this site (AVEN doesn't count as it is a sexual orientation forum.
If there is, please feel free to identify it and if no one knows of one, why do you guys think there isn't there one?
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Post by baza on Feb 21, 2017 4:07:51 GMT -5
The polar opposite of here ??
Functional marriages with a mutual sexual component to them ??
The sort of place where an initial post would say - "Everything is great including the sex" ??
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Post by thefullmoon on Feb 21, 2017 4:31:07 GMT -5
Is there a forum for people who are the polar opposite to those on this site (AVEN doesn't count as it is a sexual orientation forum. If there is, please feel free to identify it and if no one knows of one, why do you guys think there isn't there one? I assume you mean happy relationships? Why do you think people who live in them will spend endless hours to tell others on similar situations how happy and lucky they are? IMHO they have more interesting things to do...some more sex, probably... If you are interested,a bit about my own experience... First time I came across EP ILIASM forum about 2009...joined in 2012... Since 2009 I was searching internet with hope to find nice and lively community just to chat about everything ... I wanted a place with regular people... Guess what? There is no such place...sure there are some short lived forums about current thing or very specific...like manga or pokemon go...and there is mumsnet... so there is no place like ILIASM... Just another confirmation that not the only sex is a problem...people desperate for communication for understanding... and of course there are few guardian angels here who are not in SM any more, but keep coming with words of support and hope...God bless them! |
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Post by rejected101 on Feb 21, 2017 11:56:06 GMT -5
I mean people who have low libidos who complain that their marriage is being eaten alive by the expectations of sex from their partner.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 21, 2017 11:58:07 GMT -5
Very interesting question. I don't know why there is not one. Perhaps they just post on forums about marriage problems, and say that the other spouse is just too demanding.
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Post by thefullmoon on Feb 21, 2017 14:10:31 GMT -5
I mean people who have low libidos who complain that their marriage is being eaten alive by the expectations of sex from their partner. The answer is this forum... Majority of refusers just happy and live the life they want .. Refused bend backwards every day and think how else to please their refusers for possible crambs.... |
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Post by Deleted on Feb 21, 2017 17:05:43 GMT -5
Is there a forum for people who are the polar opposite to those on this site (AVEN doesn't count as it is a sexual orientation forum. If there is, please feel free to identify it and if no one knows of one, why do you guys think there isn't there one? And there are people like Sunniedays, who just come here to talk about how she is better than people who want sex. |
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Post by LITW on Feb 21, 2017 17:23:06 GMT -5
Is there a forum for people who are the polar opposite to those on this site (AVEN doesn't count as it is a sexual orientation forum. If there is, please feel free to identify it and if no one knows of one, why do you guys think there isn't there one? And there are people like Sunniedays, who just come here to talk about how she is better than people who want sex. Thats one thing that makes this forum better than EP ... there are far fewer people like that on here .... a fact for which I am extremely grateful! |
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Post by Deleted on Feb 21, 2017 17:26:19 GMT -5
And there are people like Sunniedays, who just come here to talk about how she is better than people who want sex. Thats one thing that makes this forum better than EP ... there are far fewer people like that on here .... a fact for which I am extremely grateful! Now if she would just get the hell out of here, it would be awesome! |
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Post by lwoetin on Feb 22, 2017 4:29:31 GMT -5
I mean people who have low libidos who complain that their marriage is being eaten alive by the expectations of sex from their partner. they would probably not want to think about sex at all. This site is welcome to LL spouses but we have few visitors. A site focusing on importance of sex in marriage. Boring, waste of time.... |
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Post by baza on Feb 22, 2017 4:45:22 GMT -5
I think that a scenario where refusers were posting, would ultimately end up just like this group.
The marriages would be just as dysfunctional, and probably the membership would be advising the refuser to "get away from the sex fiend spouse".
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Post by greatcoastal on Feb 22, 2017 6:17:21 GMT -5
I think that a scenario where refusers were posting, would ultimately end up just like this group. The marriages would be just as dysfunctional, and probably the membership would be advising the refuser to "get away from the sex fiend spouse". And they would label us as the " controlling, non cooperative, less than helpful partner." |
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Post by baza on Feb 22, 2017 6:33:39 GMT -5
Yep Brother GC.
That's my point.
A dysfunctional marriage is a dysfunctional marriage.
Who is refuser, and who is refused ain't especially relevant any more - except for blaming purposes (which are fucking useless)
Whoever wants to bring it to resolution gets my vote.
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Post by shamwow on Feb 22, 2017 7:04:24 GMT -5
Yep Brother GC. That's my point. A dysfunctional marriage is a dysfunctional marriage. Who is refuser, and who is refused ain't especially relevant any more - except for blaming purposes (which are fucking useless) Whoever wants to bring it to resolution gets my vote. Agree. Hell, at this point after a couple decades of reset sex, I would be the refuser. My resolution is getting the fuck out. |
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Post by Deleted on Feb 22, 2017 13:54:59 GMT -5
Is there a forum for people who are the polar opposite to those on this site (AVEN doesn't count as it is a sexual orientation forum. If there is, please feel free to identify it and if no one knows of one, why do you guys think there isn't there one? And there are people like Sunniedays, who just come here to talk about how she is better than people who want sex. You beat me to it, flashjohn. |
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