endthegame
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Post by endthegame on Feb 22, 2017 14:00:54 GMT -5
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Post by cagedtiger on Feb 22, 2017 14:03:56 GMT -5
I would humbly sibmit that Fetlife, Killing Kittens, or other Lifestyle or spouse sharing forums could be held up as polar opposites of this site.
From a certain point of view.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 22, 2017 14:54:45 GMT -5
And there are people like Sunniedays, who just come here to talk about how she is better than people who want sex. You beat me to it, flashjohn . Maybe she went back to her husband who is silently hoping her cancer comes back. |
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Post by cagedtiger on Feb 22, 2017 15:27:26 GMT -5
Maybe she went back to her husband who is silently hoping her cancer comes back. Ok, that's a little bit too far. Seriously. I don't think any of us should wish that kind of ill on anybody else here, no matter how combative or mean-spirited they may be. |
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Post by eternaloptimism on Feb 22, 2017 17:48:54 GMT -5
I would humbly sibmit that Fetlife, Killing Kittens, or other Lifestyle or spouse sharing forums could be held up as polar opposites of this site. From a certain point of view. I concur |
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Post by Deleted on Feb 23, 2017 13:11:58 GMT -5
Probably the people who have a good relationship are not members of any online forums. They're too busy enjoying getting laid, enjoying spending time together, having a happy life, etc.
And the refusers/asexuals - like some other posters said, they now have online places for asexuals. For the traditional-wife-type female refusers, there are numerous sites for sanctimommies. True! I've peeked at some sites meant for women w kids, and sometimes you see a lot of justification of refusing.
It makes me feel bad for the women here who happen to have kids. If they want to meet other moms, they have to listen to refusers' bullshit? At least I (a woman without kids) am not expected to participate in mom activities.
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Post by TMD on Feb 26, 2017 1:32:56 GMT -5
I've peeked at some sites meant for women w kids, and sometimes you see a lot of justification of refusing. It makes me feel bad for the women here who happen to have kids. If they want to meet other moms, they have to listen to refusers' bullshit? At least I (a woman without kids) am not expected to participate in mom activities. I have a refuser-mom-friend. We have had many a candid conversation about her situation and mine. I saw the writing on the wall re: her marriage a few years ago. A few weeks ago they had, "the talk," and now she's looking for an aggressive lawyer to facilitate divorce (not sure whose idea it was, but I'm pretty sure it's her STBX's). It's hard to hear the justifications. But we all have our crosses to bear (LOL. Oops. Former bible thumper, long since recovered. But it felt right to use that phrase.). Though I shared my perspective, my friend made her choices. Cest la vie. |
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Post by snowman12345 on Feb 26, 2017 7:35:34 GMT -5
Question - which bathroom should asexuals use?
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Post by Lithium92 on Feb 26, 2017 7:41:17 GMT -5
There's a sub on reddit called Lowlibidocommunity but it's moribund. I posted there once asking if this was because it reflected refusers' lack of concern, and got a kicking, then the post was deleted. Reddit also has a sub called DeadBedrooms, which is from the other side mainly, but is (mostly) very fair to LLs who want to address the problem. The 'you're all sex fiends' type of poster gets a rougher ride.
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Post by sunniedays on Mar 3, 2017 18:23:16 GMT -5
Is there a forum for people who are the polar opposite to those on this site (AVEN doesn't count as it is a sexual orientation forum. If there is, please feel free to identify it and if no one knows of one, why do you guys think there isn't there one? And there are people like Sunniedays, who just come here to talk about how she is better than people who want sex. Waaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh waaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhh waaaaaaaaahhhhhhh. |
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Post by eternaloptimism on Mar 4, 2017 8:20:43 GMT -5
And there are people like Sunniedays, who just come here to talk about how she is better than people who want sex. Waaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh waaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhh waaaaaaaaahhhhhhh. .....and she's back |
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Post by Deleted on Mar 6, 2017 11:11:35 GMT -5
Waaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh waaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhh waaaaaaaaahhhhhhh. .....and she's back Yep, just like herpes, but nowhere nearly as fun to acquire. |
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Post by ModCasper on Mar 6, 2017 11:20:02 GMT -5
Look. I don't like the sniping. I need it to stop. In this thread, and in others. There are two people I have in mind here, but the comment applies to everyone and for other threads.
Everyone here is entitled to their opinions; everyone here is entitled to their opinions about someone else.
But in this thread one user took a swipe at another user who hadn't even participated on the thread yet. That is unacceptable. Then a few others joined in; I don't like that either.
Everyone: stop the sniping at each other for personal views. Disagree respectfully, or just let someone else's grating remarks stand on their own without feeling the need to comment. If several others already agree with you, what's the point of sniping and goading other to agree publicly? It looks like ganging up.
Not helpful; not respectful.
Please keep in mind: there is no obligation to treat disrespect with more disrespect.
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Post by sunniedays on Mar 7, 2017 11:23:32 GMT -5
Yep, just like herpes, but nowhere nearly as fun to acquire. lol you're hilarious |
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Post by leifericson on Mar 18, 2017 21:38:59 GMT -5
I've peeked at some sites meant for women w kids, and sometimes you see a lot of justification of refusing. It makes me feel bad for the women here who happen to have kids. If they want to meet other moms, they have to listen to refusers' bullshit? At least I (a woman without kids) am not expected to participate in mom activities. I have a refuser-mom-friend. We have had many a candid conversation about her situation and mine. I saw the writing on the wall re: her marriage a few years ago. A few weeks ago they had, "the talk," and now she's looking for an aggressive lawyer to facilitate divorce (not sure whose idea it was, but I'm pretty sure it's her STBX's). It's hard to hear the justifications. But we all have our crosses to bear (LOL. Oops. Former bible thumper, long since recovered. But it felt right to use that phrase.). Though I shared my perspective, my friend made her choices. Cest la vie. I'm really curious TMD what justifications your refuser friend was telling you. |
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